Adopted children/own children...would you date me? (54)
Claayer: No not always.. I disagree.
I'm not saying you(anyone) can not care for another child but to love him/her as your own it's impossible.
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Blood is thicker than water...yes, it looks like
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cristina: So, many find it difficult to date someone who already has children.
Is it because they don't want the ex around them?
What if it's an adopted child, would it make a difference?
Thoughts folks? Please be deep
Is it because they don't want the ex around them?
What if it's an adopted child, would it make a difference?
Thoughts folks? Please be deep
It wouldn't make a difference to me if there are children, or even if they're adopted..
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shipoker58: relationships are difficult within themselves. Throw in a couple or evemn one offspring and there is a whole new set of problems. Discipline being a major source of contention. "Replacement" issues being another.
Just not worth the effort
Just not worth the effort
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My boyfriend,then fiancee was father figure to my son during our 11 yrs. together.I would love to b mom or grandmother to children of ma I marry.We would have to discuss more before marriage than just us.Maybe some counseling on my coming into the picture.Heck I would take any baby left at my door and raise him/her.Very maternal and no one to use it on anymore.
Cristine,good thread idea.
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Weeeeeellllll...
considering I've always sufferred from this agressive allergy when it comes to kids.....
would have to be honest and answer....
NO....thank you...
considering I've always sufferred from this agressive allergy when it comes to kids.....
would have to be honest and answer....
NO....thank you...
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HJFinAZ: OMG!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Pat, from what I know about you - "Yes", and I stick to it
And believe me, I know what I am saying,
I raised my child alone not because it was a big deal to find another husband; but I was not lucky to find a father-figure for my child.
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"Very maternal and no one to use it on anymore" heck, good one!
Thanks Nomindgames
Thanks Nomindgames
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Kurzita
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Lady Laura
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mbcasey: I would love to date someone with children. I do not have children, and would very much welcome them. It doesn't matter if they are adopted or not.
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WELL CRISTINA U THE GIRL..ITS WHEN GUYS OR LADIES DONT WELCOME URE KIDS..BUT EXPECT U TO DO SO..ITS A NO NO
KIDS ARE VERY SPECIAL AND I THINK WHEN U LOVE THE MAN..LOVE HID KIDS..LOVE THE LADY ..LOVE HER KIDS.
THERE U WILL SEE IF LOVE REALLY EXSIST..COZ TO SAY I LOVE U..CAN BE JUST EMPTY WORDS..BUT TO PROVE IT..ITS ANOTHER STORY.
WELL ..I WILL WELCOME MY DARLING'S CHILDREN WITH OPEN ARMS AND A HEART FULL OF LOVE
ZEN
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KIDS ARE VERY SPECIAL AND I THINK WHEN U LOVE THE MAN..LOVE HID KIDS..LOVE THE LADY ..LOVE HER KIDS.
THERE U WILL SEE IF LOVE REALLY EXSIST..COZ TO SAY I LOVE U..CAN BE JUST EMPTY WORDS..BUT TO PROVE IT..ITS ANOTHER STORY.
WELL ..I WILL WELCOME MY DARLING'S CHILDREN WITH OPEN ARMS AND A HEART FULL OF LOVE
ZEN
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cristina: So, many find it difficult to date someone who already has children.
Is it because they don't want the ex around them?
What if it's an adopted child, would it make a difference?
Thoughts folks? Please be deep
Is it because they don't want the ex around them?
What if it's an adopted child, would it make a difference?
Thoughts folks? Please be deep
I would not get involved, (date, yes) with a woman that has children living with her!! Period! Relationships are hard enough, these days , without the added stress and bulk of another person's children. You will never be a parent to the child. If you discipline the child, you will be reminded that they are not your children. And that is not to even mention the real parent that shows up once in a while.
Daddy stays away 3 years...you build a relationship with said child then Daddy shows back up. You are abandoned for the "real Daddy". Until he disappears again!! Your feelings are ignored because the child feels obligated to "Daddy". Ater awhile the process is repeated.."I can't keep the children from their father".
The child will always play you against the supportive parent. Children are manipulators.
It is just not worth the effoert. Grandchildren are no different!!
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