HealthyLivingSomewhere In, Tennessee USA4,775 posts
alabamabebe: Oh hon, I know you know this, but you're supposed to be powerless over other people, places and things. The only power we have is over ourselves and our attitudes, actions and reactions.
Not giving others the reaction they seek is the only power we have over them. And that to me feels pretty powerful. As long as I was trying to control others I was beating my head against a brick wall. All's I got out of it was a bloody head. Not beating myself up cause someone wants me to, that is power!
hollandgirlOPSomewhere in Canada. B.C., British Columbia Canada4,464 posts
alabamabebe: Oh hon, I know you know this, but you're supposed to be powerless over other people, places and things. The only power we have is over ourselves and our attitudes, actions and reactions.
Not giving others the reaction they seek is the only power we have over them. And that to me feels pretty powerful. As long as I was trying to control others I was beating my head against a brick wall. All's I got out of it was a bloody head. Not beating myself up cause someone wants me to, that is power!
When people see some things as beautiful, other things become ugly. When some people see things as good, Other things become bad.
Being and non-being create each other. Difficult and easy support each other. Long and short define each other. High and low depend on each other. Before and after follow each other.
Therefore the Master acts without doing anything. and teaches without saying anything. Things arise and she lets them come; things disappear and she lets them go. She has but doesn't possess. acts but doesn't expect. When her work is done, she forgets it. That is why it lasts forever.
alabamabebe: Oh hon, I know you know this, but you're supposed to be powerless over other people, places and things. The only power we have is over ourselves and our attitudes, actions and reactions.
Not giving others the reaction they seek is the only power we have over them. And that to me feels pretty powerful. As long as I was trying to control others I was beating my head against a brick wall. All's I got out of it was a bloody head. Not beating myself up cause someone wants me to, that is power!
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