After much thought i decided i would not make a list of things that would make you my "perfect" match...but rather tell you the things that didn't make my list...
1. Liars 2. Cheaters 3. Married men looking for intimate encounters 4. Excuse makers (too busy, emotionally unavailable, just going "through" something right now and can't commit, need more time etc etc...)
So people what are the things that DIDN'T make your list when you were contemplating who would make a good match for you?
BTW...I have now come to see that i won't have to tell someone they are my perfect match...we'll BOTH know...it will not be an effort for them to let me know how they feel about me, it will come naturally, they will have the time to commit to making a relationship, they will be able to picture me fitting into their life somewhere...
I am glad that you are venting and not bottling all that anger inside. It is healthy to vent. I used to have just one freaking emotion and that was rage.
Awww c'mon. I KNOW you know some that grew up in a Beaver Cleaver household. They'll never have a drive or appreciation for things you have to work for or overcome.
i would just like to meet an honest an decent gal who enjoys life.have fun,learn,an share ideas an do things with.but im 54 now so the older one gets the harder it is to meet that someone.it appears to me especially on these dating sites -that most people just want quick flings or good looking partners which bares this out- over 50% divorces an unmarried women with kids.looks are important but getting along is more important.so im focusing on that.yes ,i was divorced 4 years ago-an still dont know what happened-but im raedy to give it another try.
I have to agree about small children. I have one out on his own and another that is 13. I'm waiting for grandchildren so I can spoil them and send home to the parents
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1. Liars
2. Cheaters
3. Married men looking for intimate encounters
4. Excuse makers (too busy, emotionally unavailable, just going "through" something right now and can't commit, need more time etc etc...)
So people what are the things that DIDN'T make your list when you were contemplating who would make a good match for you?
BTW...I have now come to see that i won't have to tell someone they are my perfect match...we'll BOTH know...it will not be an effort for them to let me know how they feel about me, it will come naturally, they will have the time to commit to making a relationship, they will be able to picture me fitting into their life somewhere...