Aries01: Im a difficult example, cuz I would never approach a guy to date, and I am not much of a flirt either... Relationships normally start as a friendship with me... and a person wouldn't want to lack patience either, cause I hate rushing things... I just like the au naturel approach, which is probably why I am still single..
The only reason you're still single is.........I don't live in Dublin.
Aries01: Im a difficult example, cuz I would never approach a guy to date, and I am not much of a flirt either... Relationships normally start as a friendship with me... and a person wouldn't want to lack patience either, cause I hate rushing things... I just like the au naturel approach, which is probably why I am still single..
Would you like to change that? The weather is lovely this time of year. ;-}
Aries01: Im a difficult example, cuz I would never approach a guy to date, and I am not much of a flirt either... Relationships normally start as a friendship with me... and a person wouldn't want to lack patience either, cause I hate rushing things... I just like the au naturel approach, which is probably why I am still single..
Except that I can be flirty without meaning to be.
Aries01: Im a difficult example, cuz I would never approach a guy to date, and I am not much of a flirt either... Relationships normally start as a friendship with me... and a person wouldn't want to lack patience either, cause I hate rushing things... I just like the au naturel approach, which is probably why I am still single..
You won't be for long after your response on this thread... you sound lovely... thanks for the advice
Aries01: Can't say the same about Dublin but we do have great Guinness!!
yes you do! Iremember that well. We have a whole world of Beers that are brewed right here in Oregon and the NW including wines. Just a litttle break from the "Emerald Isle" You just might have a lovely time. ;-}
Personally I don't chase or hunt, so I guess I don't try hard enough. I will express an interest and if there's no response in kind, then I'll leave it alone. I don't see it as a conquest.
stooie1971: Just wondering if it is, or maybe not trying hard enough?
I was wondering if there is anything that women are looking for in a potential suitor online...
Not a matter of trying hard, The online game basically sucks as much as buying a lottery ticket does (though there are other crappy aspects of the love search in the screen that I won´t comment here) But...as everything has two sides "the opposite" and "the negative" somehow, someway anyone here is exposed to a "click" as vibes travel through words, pictures, lies etc. It is just then a matter of seeing what comes next (maybe nothing too) and this is in a way a reflection of our life off the stupid computer: a game that rigidilly follows a masterplan (set up by ourselves and the mysterious forces that keep us alive) , but also an open game, as our life is an open thing too.
I would not worry much about fitting into certain marvelous "potential suitor online" ´s features. Just let it go without no expectations at all. When expectations cease things start coming. As the old North-American red man´s saying states: "Just accept what comes to you, until your time finally comes".... what such a time means is just a mystery for everyone of us.
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The only reason you're still single is.........I don't live in Dublin.