Is it possible to try too hard to get a Date/Relationship? ( Archived) (116)

Oct 1, 2008 9:41 AM CST Is it possible to try too hard to get a Date/Relationship?
diogenes
diogenesdiogenesLongview, Texas USA69 Threads 7 Polls 4,761 Posts
Aries01: Im a difficult example, cuz I would never approach a guy to date, and I am not much of a flirt either... Relationships normally start as a friendship with me... and a person wouldn't want to lack patience either, cause I hate rushing things... I just like the au naturel approach, which is probably why I am still single..


The only reason you're still single is.........I don't live in Dublin.wink
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Oct 1, 2008 9:42 AM CST Is it possible to try too hard to get a Date/Relationship?
keytone
keytonekeytonePortland, Oregon USA36 Threads 3 Polls 1,686 Posts
Aries01: Im a difficult example, cuz I would never approach a guy to date, and I am not much of a flirt either... Relationships normally start as a friendship with me... and a person wouldn't want to lack patience either, cause I hate rushing things... I just like the au naturel approach, which is probably why I am still single..

Would you like to change that?
The weather is lovely this time of year.
;-}
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Oct 1, 2008 9:43 AM CST Is it possible to try too hard to get a Date/Relationship?
lanabyte
lanabytelanabyteCharleston, West Virginia USA20 Threads 1 Polls 1,223 Posts
Aries01: Im a difficult example, cuz I would never approach a guy to date, and I am not much of a flirt either... Relationships normally start as a friendship with me... and a person wouldn't want to lack patience either, cause I hate rushing things... I just like the au naturel approach, which is probably why I am still single..

thumbs up Except that I can be flirty without meaning to be. dunno
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Oct 1, 2008 9:44 AM CST Is it possible to try too hard to get a Date/Relationship?
keytone
keytonekeytonePortland, Oregon USA36 Threads 3 Polls 1,686 Posts
stooie1971: You know something... I haven't looked at my profile for ages.....will do as you suggest, thanks
I hope I helped a little.
thumbs up
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Oct 1, 2008 9:47 AM CST Is it possible to try too hard to get a Date/Relationship?
stooie1971
stooie1971stooie1971Las America's, Canary Islands Spain116 Threads 3 Polls 2,672 Posts
keytone: I hope I helped a little.


Just changed my profile..... I hate writing about myself or what I want... I didn't realize how sparse my profile was.... Oops!!!

I have tried to keep it real... thanks again handshake
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Oct 1, 2008 9:48 AM CST Is it possible to try too hard to get a Date/Relationship?
stooie1971
stooie1971stooie1971Las America's, Canary Islands Spain116 Threads 3 Polls 2,672 Posts
lanabyte: Except that I can be flirty without meaning to be.


rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing

you missed out 'Outrageous' wink
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Oct 1, 2008 9:49 AM CST Is it possible to try too hard to get a Date/Relationship?
lanabyte
lanabytelanabyteCharleston, West Virginia USA20 Threads 1 Polls 1,223 Posts
stooie1971: you missed out 'Outrageous'

blushing
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Oct 1, 2008 9:50 AM CST Is it possible to try too hard to get a Date/Relationship?
Aries01
Aries01Aries01Kent, England UK47 Threads 4 Polls 2,732 Posts
keytone: Would you like to change that?
The weather is lovely this time of year.
;-}


Can't say the same about Dublin but we do have great Guinness!! smile
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Oct 1, 2008 9:50 AM CST Is it possible to try too hard to get a Date/Relationship?
lanabyte
lanabytelanabyteCharleston, West Virginia USA20 Threads 1 Polls 1,223 Posts
stooie1971: Just changed my profile..... I hate writing about myself or what I want... I didn't realize how sparse my profile was.... Oops!!!

I have tried to keep it real... thanks again

thumbs up Looks great. You are awesome, Stooie. Any woman would be lucky to have you.
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Oct 1, 2008 9:50 AM CST Is it possible to try too hard to get a Date/Relationship?
stooie1971
stooie1971stooie1971Las America's, Canary Islands Spain116 Threads 3 Polls 2,672 Posts
Aries01: Im a difficult example, cuz I would never approach a guy to date, and I am not much of a flirt either... Relationships normally start as a friendship with me... and a person wouldn't want to lack patience either, cause I hate rushing things... I just like the au naturel approach, which is probably why I am still single..


You won't be for long after your response on this thread... you sound lovely... thanks for the advice
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Oct 1, 2008 9:51 AM CST Is it possible to try too hard to get a Date/Relationship?
Aries01
Aries01Aries01Kent, England UK47 Threads 4 Polls 2,732 Posts
diogenes: The only reason you're still single is.........I don't live in Dublin.

laugh...... reeeaaallly.... it THAT the reason???? laugh
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Oct 1, 2008 9:52 AM CST Is it possible to try too hard to get a Date/Relationship?
stooie1971
stooie1971stooie1971Las America's, Canary Islands Spain116 Threads 3 Polls 2,672 Posts
lanabyte: Except that I can be flirty without meaning to be


lanabyte: Looks great. You are awesome, Stooie. Any woman would be lucky to have you.


rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
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Oct 1, 2008 9:55 AM CST Is it possible to try too hard to get a Date/Relationship?
Aries01
Aries01Aries01Kent, England UK47 Threads 4 Polls 2,732 Posts
OMG!!! Bert he is sooooooooo cute.... smitten....
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Oct 1, 2008 9:55 AM CST Is it possible to try too hard to get a Date/Relationship?
keytone
keytonekeytonePortland, Oregon USA36 Threads 3 Polls 1,686 Posts
Aries01: Can't say the same about Dublin but we do have great Guinness!!
yes you do! Iremember that well. We have a whole world of Beers that are brewed right here in Oregon and the NW including wines. Just a litttle break from the "Emerald Isle"grin You just might have a lovely time.grin
;-}
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Oct 1, 2008 9:56 AM CST Is it possible to try too hard to get a Date/Relationship?
kidatheart
kidatheartkidatheartFruitvale, British Columbia Canada30 Threads 16,544 Posts
Mornin' peepswave


Personally I don't chase or hunt, so I guess I don't try hard enough.laugh I will express an interest and if there's no response in kind, then I'll leave it alone. I don't see it as a conquest.
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Oct 1, 2008 9:57 AM CST Is it possible to try too hard to get a Date/Relationship?
Aries01
Aries01Aries01Kent, England UK47 Threads 4 Polls 2,732 Posts
stooie1971: You won't be for long after your response on this thread... you sound lovely... thanks for the advice


Thanks....cheers... you'll be fine, you seem like a really nice guy smile
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Oct 1, 2008 9:59 AM CST Is it possible to try too hard to get a Date/Relationship?
stooie1971
stooie1971stooie1971Las America's, Canary Islands Spain116 Threads 3 Polls 2,672 Posts
Aries01:
OMG!!! Bert he is sooooooooo cute.... ....


He' ma Beer Buddy.... I got photo's of him serving beer, working in the restaurant, swimming with me... I was thinking of putting him online here...

He'll get a better results than me.... I he get's a result he'll have make it a double date.. so I can go too

Whoooo hoooooooo banana
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Oct 1, 2008 10:03 AM CST Is it possible to try too hard to get a Date/Relationship?
Jose13
Jose13Jose13Azángaro, Puno Peru24 Threads 440 Posts
stooie1971: Just wondering if it is, or maybe not trying hard enough?

I was wondering if there is anything that women are looking for in a potential suitor online...


Not a matter of trying hard, The online game basically sucks as much as buying a lottery ticket does (though there are other crappy aspects of the love search in the screen that I won´t comment here)
But...as everything has two sides "the opposite" and "the negative" somehow, someway anyone here is exposed to a "click" as vibes travel through words, pictures, lies etc.
It is just then a matter of seeing what comes next (maybe nothing too) and this is in a way a reflection of our life off the stupid computer: a game that rigidilly follows a masterplan (set up by ourselves and the mysterious forces that keep us alive) , but also an open game, as our life is an open thing too.

I would not worry much about fitting into certain marvelous "potential suitor online" ´s features. Just let it go without no expectations at all. When expectations cease things start coming. As the old North-American red man´s saying states: "Just accept what comes to you, until your time finally comes".... what such a time means is just a mystery for everyone of us.
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Oct 1, 2008 10:03 AM CST Is it possible to try too hard to get a Date/Relationship?
lanabyte
lanabytelanabyteCharleston, West Virginia USA20 Threads 1 Polls 1,223 Posts
stooie1971: rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing

Oops! I did it again. uh oh
Goes sits in the corner.
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Oct 1, 2008 10:04 AM CST Is it possible to try too hard to get a Date/Relationship?
kissmedeeply
kissmedeeplykissmedeeplyPetitcodiac, New Brunswick Canada70 Threads 15,139 Posts
stooie1971: Just wondering if it is, or maybe not trying hard enough?

I was wondering if there is anything that women are looking for in a potential suitor online...


Yes i find it so hard to find anything hereroll eyes tongue wink
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