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Oct 1, 2008 12:11 PM CST Getting serious....
Jose13
Jose13Jose13Azángaro, Puno Peru24 Threads 440 Posts
Is there such a thing as perfect partner or soul mate?
Can love grow with a not so perfect partner?

My answer for the first is NO (twenty years ago was YES!!!!)
My second stupid question has a poitive answer though.beer
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Oct 1, 2008 12:13 PM CST Getting serious....
Hugz_n_Kissez
Hugz_n_KissezHugz_n_KissezSomeplace, Ontario Canada59 Threads 2 Polls 25,438 Posts
Jose13: Is there such a thing as perfect partner or soul mate?
Can love grow with a not so perfect partner?

My answer for the first is NO (twenty years ago was YES!!!!)
My second stupid question has a poitive answer though.



There is no such thing as a perfect partner...only perfect for you...so of course love can grow with an imperfect partner as long as you are perfect for each other....wink hug teddybear hug bouquet heart beating
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Oct 1, 2008 12:17 PM CST Getting serious....
Jose13
Jose13Jose13Azángaro, Puno Peru24 Threads 440 Posts
Hugz_n_Kissez: There is no such thing as a perfect partner...only perfect for you...so of course love can grow with an imperfect partner as long as you are perfect for each other....


Uhmmm sometimes not even that perfect for oneself....laugh laugh


wave
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Oct 1, 2008 12:29 PM CST Getting serious....
jbibiza
jbibizajbibizaCasinos, Valencia Spain94 Threads 4 Polls 4,914 Posts
Everyone had negative and positive aspects to their personalities... it´s easy to fall in love with the positive things... I think we need to recognize a persons negative qualities and decide if those are things we can live with and accept... that´s about as close to perfect as we can get...
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Oct 1, 2008 12:41 PM CST Getting serious....
Ray33
Ray33Ray33Paramaribo, Suriname11 Threads 127 Posts
Jose13: Is there such a thing as perfect partner or soul mate?
Can love grow with a not so perfect partner?

My answer for the first is NO (twenty years ago was YES!!!!)
My second stupid question has a poitive answer though.


I totally agree with you Jose13professor thumbs up
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Oct 1, 2008 12:56 PM CST Getting serious....
StressFree
StressFreeStressFreesmall city, Kalmar Sweden176 Threads 16 Polls 8,986 Posts
Jose13: Is there such a thing as perfect partner or soul mate?
Can love grow with a not so perfect partner?


Yes, if I believe that there is such a thing as a perfect partner and soul mate, then there is such a thing...I should point out that I don't demand perfection in my partner and I don't have a preconceived idea of how my soulmate should be...I just roll with what I have and that there are many perfect partners out there as well as an infinite amount of soulmates for me who share the same vibration that I do....

Love can grow with anybody as long as you have sound understanding, and an inner harmony/peace not controlled by a selfish ego...
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Oct 1, 2008 1:02 PM CST Getting serious....
Ray33
Ray33Ray33Paramaribo, Suriname11 Threads 127 Posts
StressFree: Yes, if I believe that there is such a thing as a perfect partner and soul mate, then there is such a thing...I should point out that I don't demand perfection in my partner and I don't have a preconceived idea of how my soulmate should be...I just roll with what I have and that there are many perfect partners out there as well as an infinite amount of soulmates for me who share the same vibration that I do....

Love can grow with anybody as long as you have sound understanding, and an inner harmony/peace not controlled by a selfish ego...


I have to go with this one Jose13...after reading his reply..I think what was just mentioned is so true...one that is not selfish has a better understanding and can communicate better with others my friend....thumbs up peace
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Oct 1, 2008 1:03 PM CST Getting serious....
stevenmature
stevenmaturestevenmatureSomewhere in CA, California USA4 Threads 144 Posts
I agree with the OP....
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Oct 1, 2008 2:04 PM CST Getting serious....
soulmateTWS
soulmateTWSsoulmateTWSHappy in, Alabama USA8 Threads 4,935 Posts
Hugz_n_Kissez: There is no such thing as a perfect partner...only perfect for you...so of course love can grow with an imperfect partner as long as you are perfect for each other....


It couldn't have been said better




bouquet


teddybear
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Oct 1, 2008 2:13 PM CST Getting serious....
DazzleYou
DazzleYouDazzleYouSeattle, WA, Washington USA39 Threads 1 Polls 836 Posts
The only perfect partner is the one who is silent and lets you keep all your profits.

But as far as dating goes, love grows fast like cancer and kills you in the end just the same.
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Oct 1, 2008 2:16 PM CST Getting serious....
soulmateTWS
soulmateTWSsoulmateTWSHappy in, Alabama USA8 Threads 4,935 Posts
DazzleYou: The only perfect partner is the one who is silent and lets you keep all your profits.

But as far as dating goes, love grows fast like cancer and kills you in the end just the same.


uh oh
If you think that...then why are you on a dating site...dunno
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Oct 1, 2008 11:58 PM CST Getting serious....
Jose13
Jose13Jose13Azángaro, Puno Peru24 Threads 440 Posts
DazzleYou: The only perfect partner is the one who is silent and lets you keep all your profits.

But as far as dating goes, love grows fast like cancer and kills you in the end just the same.


laugh laugh laugh
Yes, the freaking thing kills sometimes or leave your bank account smashed out...
but we always hope it won´t happen again!
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Oct 2, 2008 12:05 AM CST Getting serious....
Jose13
Jose13Jose13Azángaro, Puno Peru24 Threads 440 Posts
StressFree: Yes, if I believe that there is such a thing as a perfect partner and soul mate, then there is such a thing...I should point out that I don't demand perfection in my partner and I don't have a preconceived idea of how my soulmate should be...I just roll with what I have and that there are many perfect partners out there as well as an infinite amount of soulmates for me who share the same vibration that I do....

Love can grow with anybody as long as you have sound understanding, and an inner harmony/peace not controlled by a selfish ego...

Dear SF
When I used the word "perfect" I was keeping in mind that notion of relative perfection. If someone was absolutely perfect then it would be perfect for anyone else!!

So I was denying even the possibility of the relative notion that alongside with the absolute notion are commonly used and abused everywhere.. And my question points to that area, is someone using those words really believing in such a thing? I mean, older people, I mean people who have gone through enough things in life....
I suppose that it would be better to say that "I am able to roll with it, as long as the other one is able to roll with it too".

Anyway, just a question.
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