How do men feel about bigger woman? (76)
AlbertaGirl: This day in age i am finding it harder and harder to find that man that likes my curves, all you see on tv is really skinny woman is that what men really want?
It depends entirely how she sees and feels about herself. Positives never lose in the long run
novice: This whole conversation seems somewhat ridiculous to me. Putting health issues aside, we don't pick our friends by size but instead by personality, caring attitudes, good humour and things in common. Why should it be any different in picking a partner to share your life with
What is in your head, your heart and how you behave to others should be the important issues. In the end, when you get wonderful things, you really don't care how it was originally boxed. You can find wonderful treasures in packages of any size. You really just have to take the time to look and not prejudge or guess
What is in your head, your heart and how you behave to others should be the important issues. In the end, when you get wonderful things, you really don't care how it was originally boxed. You can find wonderful treasures in packages of any size. You really just have to take the time to look and not prejudge or guess
BRAVO TO YOU!!!!!!!!!
THAT IS EXXACTLY WHAT I WAS TRYING TO SAY!
cheers
CURVY
Curves and tight muscles yes. Rolls and bones sticking out no.
novice: This whole conversation seems somewhat ridiculous to me. Putting health issues aside, we don't pick our friends by size but instead by personality, caring attitudes, good humour and things in common. Why should it be any different in picking a partner to share your life with
What is in your head, your heart and how you behave to others should be the important issues. In the end, when you get wonderful things, you really don't care how it was originally boxed. You can find wonderful treasures in packages of any size. You really just have to take the time to look and not prejudge or guess
What is in your head, your heart and how you behave to others should be the important issues. In the end, when you get wonderful things, you really don't care how it was originally boxed. You can find wonderful treasures in packages of any size. You really just have to take the time to look and not prejudge or guess
wow you said it perfect, now if even more guys thought like that
it all depends on what a guy is attracted to. i like women who have curves and her personality is more important than what she weighs.
AlbertaGirl: This day in age i am finding it harder and harder to find that man that likes my curves, all you see on tv is really skinny woman is that what men really want?
I too am a curvy girl. I think most Albertan men are very shallow to be honest with you and all they want is the model types. Too bad they don't go for personality.
Those skinny women we see on TV are meant for other women. It's advertising meant to make women buy products they don't need. It's aimed at kids and young girls to prepare them for a future of spend, spend spend. School kids are hardest effected by advertising. They "must have" all the latest in clothing, electronics, etc., or they feel that they don't fit in. The pitch is so strong that teens have been able to extract billions from their parents to satisfy the greed of marketeers. There have bee several magazine articles on the subject.
Once we get older and must work for every penny and we make (I hope) better choices. We choose healthier foods. We dress to be comfotable; not what we think others think is "cool".
As for larger women; personally, I think skinny women look unhealthy; sickly and weak. They have no body fat to rely on in cooler weather. they are flat-chested and boney. I prefer a middle-wieght woman. One who falls within her BMI (body mass index). A little softness and muscle. I believe most men would agree. That's what makes middle weights most desireable.
VR.
Once we get older and must work for every penny and we make (I hope) better choices. We choose healthier foods. We dress to be comfotable; not what we think others think is "cool".
As for larger women; personally, I think skinny women look unhealthy; sickly and weak. They have no body fat to rely on in cooler weather. they are flat-chested and boney. I prefer a middle-wieght woman. One who falls within her BMI (body mass index). A little softness and muscle. I believe most men would agree. That's what makes middle weights most desireable.
VR.
AlbertaGirl: This day in age i am finding it harder and harder to find that man that likes my curves, all you see on tv is really skinny woman is that what men really want?
novice: This whole conversation seems somewhat ridiculous to me. Putting health issues aside, we don't pick our friends by size but instead by personality, caring attitudes, good humour and things in common. Why should it be any different in picking a partner to share your life with
What is in your head, your heart and how you behave to others should be the important issues. In the end, when you get wonderful things, you really don't care how it was originally boxed. You can find wonderful treasures in packages of any size. You really just have to take the time to look and not prejudge or guess
What is in your head, your heart and how you behave to others should be the important issues. In the end, when you get wonderful things, you really don't care how it was originally boxed. You can find wonderful treasures in packages of any size. You really just have to take the time to look and not prejudge or guess
well said!
Reality is you need to accept yourself first before anyone else can accept you.
it's like I always say....
if you can't accept me as I am....you'll never accept me as you think I should be.
I am a big girl.......and weight isn't an issue becasue at my thinnest I am still around 200lbs, I have a large bone structure and dense muscle mass, but am proportionate. I am very healthy, I have no blood pressure problems, heart is fine circulation is fine, other than the aches & pains that come with aging I am in pretty good shape considering my weight. I do want to refocus on my health in the new year by refocusing my eating habits which a lot of us are guilty of straying from. If I lose weight in the process good for me, it will help my joints and give me more energy. But I don't complain about my size nor do I not care about it either.
But no matter your size; having pride in who you are as a person reflects in your outer self, personality and the friends you keep and the people who are attracted to you. And if they're only attracted to you for what you look like, how loyal are they going to be when age takes it's toll? If you cant have a conversation with someone 20 years down the road, what's the point?
well i persoally like women who have a few extra pounds but it truly is a personal prefrence most guy that want the barbie doll figure are simply put vary vain. i think thats the word i would use they worry about what their family and freind will think personally i find woman with a few extra pounds to be verry attractive
novice: This whole conversation seems somewhat ridiculous to me. Putting health issues aside, we don't pick our friends by size but instead by personality, caring attitudes, good humour and things in common. Why should it be any different in picking a partner to share your life with
What is in your head, your heart and how you behave to others should be the important issues. In the end, when you get wonderful things, you really don't care how it was originally boxed. You can find wonderful treasures in packages of any size. You really just have to take the time to look and not prejudge or guess
What is in your head, your heart and how you behave to others should be the important issues. In the end, when you get wonderful things, you really don't care how it was originally boxed. You can find wonderful treasures in packages of any size. You really just have to take the time to look and not prejudge or guess
Have to give you a hand for that, very well said good on you!! Fat women are more fun and less inhibitions.I like curvy, bubbly lady. Some one who when you cuddle, you don’t get hurt by her bones. 
Wantedman: AlbertaGirl You sure it's your weight scaring men away? or could it be because you have children? Not all men want to get involved with a woman with kids.
It was just a thought.
It was just a thought.
KHD100: You'd be suprised how many males are only interested in women built like a barbie doll ...
I cannot lie and say that I think that large women are more physically attractive to me than slim curvy ones, but I tell the truth when I say that they are generally much more appealing in a mental or personal way. Worldly beauty somehow seems to take away from inner beauty. What a bummer.
Inner beauty comes from turmoil and struggle and victory over life’s challenges. It is not, like outer beauty, a default setting, and subject to preferential treatment.
Inner beauty comes from turmoil and struggle and victory over life’s challenges. It is not, like outer beauty, a default setting, and subject to preferential treatment.
I feel about them for hours.
How are you tunzrok! I am a curvy woman and I love hockey !! I would rather play though !! as for the men and curvey woman my take on it is that men like a real woman all her own parts and a bit of meat in the right places :) so lets enjoy each others company no matter what our body type . Whooooooooo hoooooooo
have a great day hugggggggggggs Ronnysnooks
have a great day hugggggggggggs Ronnysnooksmost men prefer a woman with a little meat on her bones. which is good . however i also find it hard because there are also alot of men who dont, and it seems to me that all the men i am attracted to dont like the extra weight.
all i can say for sure is that for the men that dont like a little weight, you are likely giving up the best thing ever. i cant answer for every overweight woman but i can for myself , and i personally am not materialistic, i dont care for the fine wineing and dining. so men remember one thing, dont pass someone up just because of a little weight, cause we may just be 'THE ONE"
all i can say for sure is that for the men that dont like a little weight, you are likely giving up the best thing ever. i cant answer for every overweight woman but i can for myself , and i personally am not materialistic, i dont care for the fine wineing and dining. so men remember one thing, dont pass someone up just because of a little weight, cause we may just be 'THE ONE"
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What is in your head, your heart and how you behave to others should be the important issues. In the end, when you get wonderful things, you really don't care how it was originally boxed. You can find wonderful treasures in packages of any size. You really just have to take the time to look and not prejudge or guess