I have never failed on any occasion when I have approached a woman cold....by the time I get to her table, if I haven't thought of some way of starting a conversation...I simply tell her the truth...that I have been thinking furiously of something witty to say, but for the life of me haven't been able to come up with a thing!!!....that's usually enough to break the ice and get a smile...
...the intro is one thing, but you better have something intelligent to say afterwards....
Mistake Numero Uno: ....most guys talk about themselves....the lady is probably not interested in you...she's interested to see how interested you are in her!!...show it!!...
Lagoona22: I have never failed on any occasion when I have approached a woman cold....by the time I get to her table, if I haven't thought of some way of starting a conversation...I simply tell her the truth...that I have been thinking furiously of something witty to say, but for the life of me haven't been able to come up with a thing!!!....that's usually enough to break the ice and get a smile...
...the intro is one thing, but you better have something intelligent to say afterwards....
Mistake Numero Uno: ....most guys talk about themselves....the lady is probably not interested in you...she's interested to see how interested you are in !!...show it!!...
Well said Lago...you can approach my table anytime... The only thing I would say differently is that I do want to know about him... but it is nice if he waits for me to ask a question...
jbibiza: Well said Lago...you can approach my table anytime... The only thing I would say differently is that I do want to know about him... but it is nice if he waits for me to ask a question...
Lagoona22: Charioteer....you blew it...don't refer to yourself as real hot....you'll leave her cold....
...go back to start and pay a penalty...
hey, thanks for the man-to-man support. If i was vindictive i'd recommend you put bars outside your windows again. But i am compassionate and know of the follies of the desperate
Charioteer: well you suggested i should be straight forward... I tend to be too direct i think
A little more subtlety with that directness would do you worlds of good, Charioteer! And park your ego inside, don't let it out of your mouth...Lago was right, it leaves women cold.
druidess6308: A little more subtlety with that directness would do you worlds of good, Charioteer! And park your ego inside, don't let it out of your mouth...Lago was right, it leaves women cold.
Really you can't put it in just few words, what it is that makes you continue the conversation..
I guess there are few things that are turn offs for me:
Someone sending me a flower saying hello gorgeous, beautiful, you are hot
Someone from another country suggesting that I visit their country within the first couple of mails I am a believer in the old school, the gentlemen is suppose to be the one doing the traveling, am I right
People who assume to know you after a couple of chats
People who have not posted anything on their profile and try to IM me
Probably there are more things, but my mind is sort of blocked (too busy indulging in chocolate )
kamelia: Really you can't put it in just few words, what it is that makes you continue the conversation..
I guess there are few things that are turn offs for me:
Someone sending me a flower saying hello gorgeous, beautiful, you are hot
Someone from another country suggesting that I visit their country within the first couple of mails I am a believer in the old school, the gentlemen is suppose to be the one doing the traveling, am I right
People who assume to know you after a couple of chats
People who have not posted anything on their profile and try to IM me Probably there are more things, but my mind is sort of blocked (too busy indulging in chocolate )
ok here i go: hello i have noticed your chocolate supply is running low - would you like me to get another wheel barrow of your favourites?
Charioteer: ok here i go: hello i have noticed your chocolate supply is running low - would you like me to get another wheel barrow of your favourites?
The chocolate is suppose to be my comfort food
I hope not to need it so much in the future You better find a way to make me give it up
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