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We'll you people said it would take time but I'm finally getting some answers to my profile.While some of you would say great the only problem I'm haveing is the ladies are to young.The youngfest lady from thePhillipines is 18,then Ihad a lovely young lady in a wt t shirt .She was nice but to young .Ihave patience but this is getting crazy.You all say have patience thye right one will come but when.Am I that ugly or got kooies or something?

Did you read the section about scammers???


Not saying that they are...

Don't forget there is a real world out there also

Good luck.

Patience is more than a few days, Chip. May I ask...are you an Aries, Leo, or Sagittarius by chance? We fire signs are notorious for our lack of patience.

And watch out...those young ladies might be scammer profiles. Men are targeted too, not just the ladies.

Again, if you stop getting so antsy and relax, come on forums to have fun and make friends, you never know what might happen. Honestly, the times I've found the right one were when I stopped looking. That's true for a lot of people I know.

You can orient the young ones towards me and I their moms to you

Patience is more than a few days, Chip. May I ask...are you an Aries, Leo, or Sagittarius by chance? We fire signs are notorious for our lack of patience.

And watch out...those young ladies might be scammer profiles. Men are targeted too, not just the ladies.

Again, if you stop getting so antsy and relax, come on forums to have fun and make friends, you never know what might happen. Honestly, the times I've found the right one were when I stopped looking. That's true for a lot of people I know.[/quote Hi druidess:I'vbe been six years patient.I did catch one scammmer though..I thought she liked me and wanted to see me .I caught on whjen she neede d me to call a nunber to help her come over here.Most of the woman that I have writento over the years from bbwsto asian to Jewishto blak haave one thing in common.I've not gotten many answers.I diddate one woman .She was heavy but very nice .I liked her and onr daymet her for lunch by me.Well I found out not only didher husband pass away not long ago but she was seeing someone else as well.Ikeep on trying but IGET NO RESPECT.Oh by the way I'm a PICES.ALlso I have a diability which most woman WILL NOT ACCEPT.Oh well I feel like giving up exept for the forums .What do you people think????Thanks ,Chip398

Are you a Democrat?? That seems to be a drawback on this site...LOL

Hi druidess:I'vbe been six years patient.I did catch one scammmer though..I thought she liked me and wanted to see me .I caught on when she neede d me to call a nunber to help her come over here.Most of the woman that I have writen to over the years from bbws to Asian to Jewish to African American have one thing in common.I've not gotten many answers.I did date one woman .She was heavy but very nice .I liked her and on day met her for lunch by me.Well I found out not only didher husband pass away not long ago but she was seeing someone else as well.I keep on trying but I GET NO RESPECT.Oh by the way I'm a PICIES.Also I have a diability which most woman WILL NOT ACCEPT.Oh well I feel like giving up exept for the forums .What do you people think????Thanks ,Chip398 So I hope you people see why Iget so frustrated and disguted in trying.

My advice is like listening to a broken record B CAREFUL! we just had a huge thing on scammers on TV over here and not only are women being scammed but men too? just get into these forums, have fun but also get out and about in the real world abit, and my golden rule is, if you cant meet up with them for a coffee or a drink then its too far away Best of luck

Hi Druidess:In my six yeras of trying sites (everything from dating4disabled to Yahoo personels)and only gone on 3 dates and one girl was seeing someone else as well as me and she told me her husband died not to long ago.Lo the many and beautiful answers that Ihave gotten)not many just trying to keep a cheerful outlook lol)Yuo can geuss I'm pretty disgusted.Yeah But I'll tell you instead of doing soemthing stupid or drinking ,I went shopping and bought some things for our homeless shelter.I think I'm going to stop looking and just stay in the forums at least here I get some answers.I think it sounds good me my dog and my family.I think I'm right in saying MOST WOMAN do not want a disabled man.I can't do a lot of things ladies but guess what I have love for familyand my dog help who needs help.and I just lost big time weight 43 pounds and am going for more .Oh to answer your question I am a PICSES.bye for now ,Chip

Don't feel bad...some of us are in the same boat.

Chip-you had a long and beautiful marriage which is far far more than most of us have. Now you're in the same boat as the rest. I don't think it has much to do with disability since the entire site (and thousands of other ones) are filled with people who can't find someone for them. Since you are an honest and sincere person I am sure you will eventually meet someone who is right for you. Good for you for losing weight for your health and focusing on others-that's called good karma ( or mitzvot )