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I feel that from every broken relationship, there is a lesson to be learned. When we figure out that lesson is when we can move forward.
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Indyfella: Life is a process...but I don't think I'd love someone who "swaddled" for very long. As...Life is short too. JMO
"Swaddled", Indy?? What about "waddled"?? You're not gonna be size-ist now, are ya??!!
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I for one am not a believer of fate. But I can't stop to subscribe to the notion, most of the time, that if a relationship is over, despite efforts to make it work, it was probably not meant to be in the first place.
Having said that, I am a romantic at heart myself and every time I put time, effort, commitment and love in to a relationship, it hurts awfully bad after the break-up, as it is the case right now.
We sure can sit back and reflect on the mistakes, ours and theirs, and try to make a sense of it and learn lessons. But then again, every relationship and every situation is different. Having learned from the past may enhance the chances of a stronger relationship in the future but does not necessarily guarantee success.
Although I believe there can be such thing as "better partner" at the end of the day, if I fall, it is because my feelings dictate it, not my logic. Love does not have a rationale it doesn't guarantee that two loving people will get along perpetually. Regardless of how I feel and how committed I am, it takes two to have the same intensity and sense of urgency to make the relationship and the "spark" last.
The more I observe your postings the more depth I notice, Trace. Good one.
Having said that, I am a romantic at heart myself and every time I put time, effort, commitment and love in to a relationship, it hurts awfully bad after the break-up, as it is the case right now.
We sure can sit back and reflect on the mistakes, ours and theirs, and try to make a sense of it and learn lessons. But then again, every relationship and every situation is different. Having learned from the past may enhance the chances of a stronger relationship in the future but does not necessarily guarantee success.
Although I believe there can be such thing as "better partner" at the end of the day, if I fall, it is because my feelings dictate it, not my logic. Love does not have a rationale it doesn't guarantee that two loving people will get along perpetually. Regardless of how I feel and how committed I am, it takes two to have the same intensity and sense of urgency to make the relationship and the "spark" last.
The more I observe your postings the more depth I notice, Trace. Good one.
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roseofsharon: I thought you would.... most refreshing, but what I have come to expect from the post I have observed from you thus far. There are a few whom I hold in high regard and they know who they are, I'm sure....
Makes a lovely change from those who, sadly, are unable to fall back on wit, personality, charm, intellect and, as a result, rely on other less savoury means of getting their point across, i.e. manipulation, malevolence, contention..... etc?
I'm now wittering, of course, but.... gonna miss ya, Sommer!!
Keep the Faith on the Forums, yeah?!!
Makes a lovely change from those who, sadly, are unable to fall back on wit, personality, charm, intellect and, as a result, rely on other less savoury means of getting their point across, i.e. manipulation, malevolence, contention..... etc?
I'm now wittering, of course, but.... gonna miss ya, Sommer!!
Keep the Faith on the Forums, yeah?!!
Hey Sharon, I am a fellow Brit, I know, I just know...
And whaddya mean you are going to missme, I aint going anywhere...
So where do you think you are going lady?
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Indyfella: Life is a process...but I don't think I'd love someone who "swaddled" for very long. As...Life is short too. JMO
Life is short...
But it is the longest task we undertake as humans...
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Sommerauer71: Hey Sharon, I am a fellow Brit, I know, I just know...
And whaddya mean you are going to missme, I aint going anywhere...
So where do you think you are going lady?
And whaddya mean you are going to missme, I aint going anywhere...
So where do you think you are going lady?
I know you're not going anywhere......
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roseofsharon: "Swaddled", Indy?? What about "waddled"?? You're not gonna be size-ist now, are ya??!!
Be nice now.... I am
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Sommerauer71: Life is short...
But it is the longest task we undertake as humans...
But it is the longest task we undertake as humans...
Savor the things that are good in life. (damn, I'm in a mushed out mood today)
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Sommerauer71: Life is short...
But it is the longest task we undertake as humans...
But it is the longest task we undertake as humans...
it doesn't feel that way when I am lonely
or when I am constipated
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Indyfella: Be nice now.... I am
I know you are......
It was just a play on words.... crikey!!!
Don't worry about it, just forget it!!
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Indyfella: Savor the things that are good in life. (damn, I'm in a mushed out mood today)
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airliner: I for one am not a believer of fate. But I can't stop to subscribe to the notion, most of the time, that if a relationship is over, despite efforts to make it work, it was probably not meant to be in the first place.
Having said that, I am a romantic at heart myself and every time I put time, effort, commitment and love in to a relationship, it hurts awfully bad after the break-up, as it is the case right now.
We sure can sit back and reflect on the mistakes, ours and theirs, and try to make a sense of it and learn lessons. But then again, every relationship and every situation is different. Having learned from the past may enhance the chances of a stronger relationship in the future but does not necessarily guarantee success.
Although I believe there can be such thing as "better partner" at the end of the day, if I fall, it is because my feelings dictate it, not my logic. Love does not have a rationale it doesn't guarantee that two loving people will get along perpetually. Regardless of how I feel and how committed I am, it takes two to have the same intensity and sense of urgency to make the relationship and the "spark" last.
The more I observe your postings the more depth I notice, Trace. Good one.
Having said that, I am a romantic at heart myself and every time I put time, effort, commitment and love in to a relationship, it hurts awfully bad after the break-up, as it is the case right now.
We sure can sit back and reflect on the mistakes, ours and theirs, and try to make a sense of it and learn lessons. But then again, every relationship and every situation is different. Having learned from the past may enhance the chances of a stronger relationship in the future but does not necessarily guarantee success.
Although I believe there can be such thing as "better partner" at the end of the day, if I fall, it is because my feelings dictate it, not my logic. Love does not have a rationale it doesn't guarantee that two loving people will get along perpetually. Regardless of how I feel and how committed I am, it takes two to have the same intensity and sense of urgency to make the relationship and the "spark" last.
The more I observe your postings the more depth I notice, Trace. Good one.
Hank, you were one of the very first people that I got to know here...
You are right, I want that thing, where I run on a Friday night, down the stairs, ready to throw my thighs around the man, love him knowing all weekend to be together, then I dance, on the balcony and throw a meal together, knowing that we will have a 'loving' time...
It takes two, most definitely, people state two to make a 100%, but I want to give 100%, and I expect that guy who I chuck my thighs around to, too...
Not hard really is it?
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Whats that old saying " If we don't learn from our past we're doomed to repeat it"
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Sommerauer71: Hank, you were one of the very first people that I got to know here...
You are right, I want that thing, where I run on a Friday night, down the stairs, ready to throw my thighs around the man, love him knowing all weekend to be together, then I dance, on the balcony and throw a meal together, knowing that we will have a 'loving' time...
It takes two, most definitely, people state two to make a 100%, but I want to give 100%, and I expect that guy who I chuck my thighs around to, too...
Not hard really is it?
You are right, I want that thing, where I run on a Friday night, down the stairs, ready to throw my thighs around the man, love him knowing all weekend to be together, then I dance, on the balcony and throw a meal together, knowing that we will have a 'loving' time...
It takes two, most definitely, people state two to make a 100%, but I want to give 100%, and I expect that guy who I chuck my thighs around to, too...
Not hard really is it?
Well now we are getting to the hard of the matter. Engulfing him with your thighs and you somehow seem to believe that it wouldn't be hard. You are not giving your form the proper respect here young lady.
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Sommerauer71: Hank, you were one of the very first people that I got to know here...
You are right, I want that thing, where I run on a Friday night, down the stairs, ready to throw my thighs around the man, love him knowing all weekend to be together, then I dance, on the balcony and throw a meal together, knowing that we will have a 'loving' time...
It takes two, most definitely, people state two to make a 100%, but I want to give 100%, and I expect that guy who I chuck my thighs around to, too...
Not hard really is it?
You are right, I want that thing, where I run on a Friday night, down the stairs, ready to throw my thighs around the man, love him knowing all weekend to be together, then I dance, on the balcony and throw a meal together, knowing that we will have a 'loving' time...
It takes two, most definitely, people state two to make a 100%, but I want to give 100%, and I expect that guy who I chuck my thighs around to, too...
Not hard really is it?
it can be hard if the intensity and commitment is not mutual
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airliner: it can be hard if the intensity and commitment is not mutual
It can be, but then we know that if not right, we have to let go...
Then the hard stuff really starts...
Major league hugs to you...
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Sommerauer71: It can be, but then we know that if not right, we have to let go...
Then the hard stuff really starts...
Major league hugs to you...
Then the hard stuff really starts...
Major league hugs to you...
Major league bear hugs back at you, Liebling
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roseofsharon: I know you are......
It was just a play on words.... crikey!!! Don't worry about it, just forget it!!
It was just a play on words.... crikey!!! Don't worry about it, just forget it!!
I knew ya were playin...
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roseofsharon: I know you're not going anywhere......
Answer the question dammit...
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So I don´t have any of those deteriorating relationship issues or where did it go wrong issues because the only thing that went wrong were my choices.
With the exception of my ex husband who I never did love and never should have married... that was wrong from the start.... I have no one but myself to blame for the end of all my relationships.
An honest account there my dear friend...
You emerge as a person who accepts that and acceptance is a wonderful thing...