How much time to heal. (18)
punchingodoto be announced, Alberta Canada1 Threads 12 PostsAsking for opinions here. How much time would you take to heal after a break up before getting involved with someone new. I have heard recommendations of 1 year for every 4 years of marriage. What about long term relationships that did not involve marriage or living together? What have been your experiences with waiting versus diving back into relationship life? Please share. 
hi punchingodo it can be very complicated as for my self i was merryd for 10 yers only to finde out i was liyd to and used for rasing and caring for her kids and theas are her words to me prity well the yungist lives with me he is 11 now but was 5 when she left im old fashind i beleave in merige for life and you work on it together
ive had to think of my sun and invalving a nother woman i did the rebound thing it was not good i didint like herting the other woman i regret that i have bean singl for 5 yers i have not dated or gone out with no one i was devestated by my ex wife and have gon for counseling it has helpt
i think its up to the indevigewell how long or short of time it takes to start date againe some peple it dosent seame to efekt at all others like my self hoo nows when ther redy yes its lonly but atleast im geting stronger menly emoshinly againe my sun and i deskus this dating thing and he is ok with me dating and is redy to sher a frend ship with a new frend for me a girl frend but i dont want to ceary exsess bageg in to a new realashon ship so im still working on things
jumping in to a relashon ship ask your self are you redy for it or not mently emoshenly exsedra
not jumping in to it take the time to heal your hart and minde so that you dont end up herting some one or your self and a longer healing time
love is a wonderfull thing and hope as well
but hert can last a life time
i wish you the best of luck the big thing is think about it a lott and hoo it will efekt your childron first you the other person ther famly
think just think
ive had to think of my sun and invalving a nother woman i did the rebound thing it was not good i didint like herting the other woman i regret that i have bean singl for 5 yers i have not dated or gone out with no one i was devestated by my ex wife and have gon for counseling it has helpt
i think its up to the indevigewell how long or short of time it takes to start date againe some peple it dosent seame to efekt at all others like my self hoo nows when ther redy yes its lonly but atleast im geting stronger menly emoshinly againe my sun and i deskus this dating thing and he is ok with me dating and is redy to sher a frend ship with a new frend for me a girl frend but i dont want to ceary exsess bageg in to a new realashon ship so im still working on things
jumping in to a relashon ship ask your self are you redy for it or not mently emoshenly exsedra
not jumping in to it take the time to heal your hart and minde so that you dont end up herting some one or your self and a longer healing time
love is a wonderfull thing and hope as well
but hert can last a life time
i wish you the best of luck the big thing is think about it a lott and hoo it will efekt your childron first you the other person ther famly
think just think
A formula? How about if you just go with the 'when it feels right to you' thing. Really, your the only person who knows when it is time to move on and when it is not rather than staring at a calendar.
If it feels right, do it. If it doesn't, then don't.
geo
If it feels right, do it. If it doesn't, then don't.
geo
Hey Punchingodo
I can probably answer that....only cause I too was in a 1 1/2 year relationship that pretty much ended in April.... I guess in August is when I felt it was 'right' for me......
I don't think that there IS a timeframe for "licking your wounds" (as I put it
)
I have to agree with Geo..... when it feels "right" then go for it.....
I think it's when we are NOT looking, that opportunity knocks on our door...sometimes it takes the freaking door off the hinges! It;s just how WE react to the invitation......
All wounds HEAL with time.......
Time IS of the essence...so I say, embrace it....
JMO
cheers
Curvy
I can probably answer that....only cause I too was in a 1 1/2 year relationship that pretty much ended in April.... I guess in August is when I felt it was 'right' for me......
I don't think that there IS a timeframe for "licking your wounds" (as I put it
)I have to agree with Geo..... when it feels "right" then go for it.....
I think it's when we are NOT looking, that opportunity knocks on our door...sometimes it takes the freaking door off the hinges! It;s just how WE react to the invitation......
All wounds HEAL with time.......
Time IS of the essence...so I say, embrace it....
JMO
cheers
Curvy
da mn i alwase have to mutch to say that no one can read o well the abuve advice is corekt when your redy lol 
sometimes<afriend said> hook your thumbs in yer waistband,smile ,say hello and push. i was under the impression that it was a little quick .in this day and age but you never know.
walley: da mn i alwase have to mutch to say that no one can read o well the abuve advice is corekt when your redy lol
i don't think it's that difficult to read what you write. It's actually similar to a dialect, a short version of English. I appreciate that you take the time to respond to various things on the forum.
mychelle: i don't think it's that difficult to read what you write. It's actually similar to a dialect, a short version of English. I appreciate that you take the time to respond to various things on the forum.
I find the effort he makes into "making" his grammer and spelling mistakes to be quite inventive and creative.
gemery: A formula? How about if you just go with the 'when it feels right to you' thing. Really, your the only person who knows when it is time to move on and when it is not rather than staring at a calendar.
If it feels right, do it. If it doesn't, then don't.
geo
If it feels right, do it. If it doesn't, then don't.
geo
Absolutely!
gemery: A formula? How about if you just go with the 'when it feels right to you' thing. Really, your the only person who knows when it is time to move on and when it is not rather than staring at a calendar.
If it feels right, do it. If it doesn't, then don't.
geo
If it feels right, do it. If it doesn't, then don't.
geo
punchingodo: Asking for opinions here. How much time would you take to heal after a break up before getting involved with someone new. I have heard recommendations of 1 year for every 4 years of marriage. What about long term relationships that did not involve marriage or living together? What have been your experiences with waiting versus diving back into relationship life? Please share.
Really there is no time...
You will know when you stop hurting..
When the feeling is right...
gordy22222: sometimes<afriend said> hook your thumbs in yer waistband,smile ,say hello and push. i was under the impression that it was a little quick .in this day and age but you never know.
Hi Gordy, I havn't seen you on her for awhile. How is life in Whitehorse.walley: da mn i alwase have to mutch to say that no one can read o well the abuve advice is corekt when your redy lol
Wally what you write is not hard to read ,and what you have to say is interesting as well
How long? If the love was true then, sad to say you will never get over it. As for being able to function as a single person again it could be a day or years. Myself, it took me years to get over my ex even though I walked out on her and even now, in times of quiet loneliness I think back and wonder if maybe I should have stuck it out, then shake myself back to reality.
But your question was 'how much time would (I) take to heal?' It's an emotional thing but if I were a machine, I would take a year at least of being on my own however, on the other side of the spectrum, as a potential suitor, I wouldn't touch anybody who was less than a year out of a serious relationship if that helps.
But your question was 'how much time would (I) take to heal?' It's an emotional thing but if I were a machine, I would take a year at least of being on my own however, on the other side of the spectrum, as a potential suitor, I wouldn't touch anybody who was less than a year out of a serious relationship if that helps.
boiled moose nose and bum gut... when you roast a carribou head ,make sure you dont poke the eyeball befor it cools off a bit cause it will spurt and it can fly and realy burn you... just as good now as it was 12000 years ago when granny and grampa were schlepping their way across the bearing strait carring the latest in flint tipped spears with the newest fancy wrapped throwing handels. dragging 12 or 14 realy ugly children .. they started with 14 but 2 got eaten by a saber tooth tiger about 20 miles west of ankorage the rest made it o k and became pollitions <bad spel> in whitehorse we now live on sarah palin driveway ..kind of a comforting thought in 2012...actually were not at all backward in the yukon i used to live in dawson city ..we were the most modern city west of winnipeg and north of san fran cosco we had electric power in houses we had pay fones in 03 the streets are still mud but that is a tourist attraction with wooden sidewalks... a few ppl are still mining gold out oin the creeks and valleys. jus remblin on ,,gotta go its time fer grub gordy
gordy22222: boiled moose nose and bum gut... when you roast a carribou head ,make sure you dont poke the eyeball befor it cools off a bit cause it will spurt and it can fly and realy burn you... just as good now as it was 12000 years ago when granny and grampa were schlepping their way across the bearing strait carring the latest in flint tipped spears with the newest fancy wrapped throwing handels. dragging 12 or 14 realy ugly children .. they started with 14 but 2 got eaten by a saber tooth tiger about 20 miles west of ankorage the rest made it o k and became pollitions <bad spel> in whitehorse we now live on sarah palin driveway ..kind of a comforting thought in 2012...actually were not at all backward in the yukon i used to live in dawson city ..we were the most modern city west of winnipeg and north of san fran cosco we had electric power in houses we had pay fones in 03 the streets are still mud but that is a tourist attraction with wooden sidewalks... a few ppl are still mining gold out oin the creeks and valleys. jus remblin on ,,gotta go its time fer grub gordy
Drewski: How long? If the love was true then, sad to say you will never get over it. As for being able to function as a single person again it could be a day or years. Myself, it took me years to get over my ex even though I walked out on her and even now, in times of quiet loneliness I think back and wonder if maybe I should have stuck it out, then shake myself back to reality.
But your question was 'how much time would (I) take to heal?' It's an emotional thing but if I were a machine, I would take a year at least of being on my own however, on the other side of the spectrum, as a potential suitor, I wouldn't touch anybody who was less than a year out of a serious relationship if that helps.
But your question was 'how much time would (I) take to heal?' It's an emotional thing but if I were a machine, I would take a year at least of being on my own however, on the other side of the spectrum, as a potential suitor, I wouldn't touch anybody who was less than a year out of a serious relationship if that helps.
Thanks Drewski, you are absolutely right about flipping the situation and considering dating someone fresh out of a serious relationship. If we wouldn't accept a rebound why would we be one!!! I have dated some since my marriage of 20+ years ended over 6 years ago and am looking for someone who is pretty much healed......
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