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This is my project research,without being a scientist.What you say is true smoking mama s kid can be angry and not cooperating with other friends.
Listen to me,i dont ask you to stop you can reduce or not smoke untill you have the baby.

If i have a pregnant wife one day i ll bring her soemfresh juice of any kind of fruit in the mornings as soon as you wake up.

Also tip for smokers,just change the times you are smoking,for example you want to smoke now do it 10 minutes later.Race with yourself.
Yes that s it human beings are creatures who races with themselves,who tests themselves.

i hope i could help.

Smoking during pregnancy does not make a child nasty. That is complete nonsense.

I had 3 kids I carred to term out of 7. I gave up smoking before I even got pregnant in case it would hurt them, or make them more predisposed to asthma or something.

My first son is great, beautiful in every way, sweet natured and kind.

Then I lost one. When I was having my daughter I had very low blood pressure and they told me I would lose her too within a few days, at 6 months pregnant.. I was distraught. I went home and someone gave me a cigarette. It made me feel better and having nothing to lose, I carried on smoking over the weekend. When I went in to the hospital on the Monday morning, the doctors told me that everything had changed. My blood pressure was normal again, baby was feeding again off the placenta. She would live. They asked me what I did differently and I told them I smoked. They told me to carry on, as it kept my blood pressure raised to normal, so I did.

She is the light of my life. Generous, sweet, funny, caring, in fact the best of the 3 I have. She has a wonderful nurturing nature and everyone loves her.

I didn't smoke with any of my subsequent pregnancies, and lost 3 more kids before haivng my youngest daughter, who is also good natured, caring and a fantastic mother herself.

Smoking during pregnancy makes no difference to the nature of a child. Parenting is the only thing that will make or break a child's propensity to be a good adult. No children are by nature bad. It is not an inherent trait.

I have fostered kids who were born to drug addicted parents, one even to a parent who tried overdosing on alcohol to get rid of her, and none of them were inherently bad either, just mixed up because of lack of good parenting.

Any child who is shown love, will learn to be loving.

I'm with you totally on this one.

I have virtually no experience as a parent, but everything you say syncs with the little experience I do have, and of course, straight-forward common sense.....

Most of it is common sense, that is true. That, and always reminding yourself that you are accountable for everything they do and think...

I always thought that having and raising a family was the greatest learning experience in life, because they force you to experience birth, youth, and growing up again, through them...this "second rite of passage" is the single greatest enriching experience an adult can have in life, and is the one which gives us our depth and maturity and wisdom...I kinda feel that I missed the boat, not so much because I feel that I desperately wanted to have a family, but rather because without the experience, one is simply incomplete as a human being...

I thought it was nonsense but I had to double check.


Parenting even if not the biologiccal parents is, you are right. the deal breaker in any child's life.

Ginger, your posts are gems...thanks for this insight...You have given a treasure trove of an insight here, as well as a brilliant business idea...I'll be calling the company "Rent-a-Kid"...

..that way, you can experience being a parent for a week, and before the novelty wears off, you can give them back, and then go home and get some sleep....