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Nov 4, 2008 9:29 PM CST What is a "Friend"
singing_chef
singing_chefsinging_chefRichwood, West Virginia USA1 Threads 2 Posts
Hi....I have never posted before...but I have had a really bad time the last few days . a co-worker of mine was killed by a drunk driver......another co-worker of mine ........I thought was a good friend..I have done everything in my power to help her , she has had a really bad time of it......anyway.....I had to attend the funeral of this other co-worker of mine....dint want to go alone...and asked my other co-worker to go with me so I wouldnt have to go alone.......and she wouldnt...said she didnt do funerals..this is not the only time that she has refused to do anything that I have asked of her..........maybe this is lame but I just feel if you are a "friend" then you are a FRIEND.................understand,,,,,,,,,I do know how to be a friend,.....and if she is reading this.........she KNOWS.......sorry I just needed to vent......thanks for listening.......love and hugs to all..........and please take care......singing_chef
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Nov 4, 2008 9:47 PM CST What is a "Friend"
rwantin
rwantinrwantinRoyal Oak, Michigan USA17 Threads 8,924 Posts
Sorry to hear. Hang in there, and with regard to your friend, no one likes funerals, but I can appreciate the apprehension. I don't do them well either. This shall pass. tip hat
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Nov 6, 2008 9:15 PM CST What is a "Friend"
singing_chef
singing_chefsinging_chefRichwood, West Virginia USA1 Threads 2 Posts
I'm sorry about posting this..its all good now..I was just a lil stressed out.....thanks for the reply.......i've been wrong before an im sure it will happen again........nite everyone........jld
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Nov 6, 2008 9:20 PM CST What is a "Friend"
Lonely1
Lonely1Lonely1Ottawa, Ontario Canada76 Threads 21 Polls 1,858 Posts
Some of my friends only hang around for what they can get from me, but "they' see me as "their" friend. We can't always get what we hope for. We all have different needs. Sorry to hear, and glad that you are over it now. teddybear
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Nov 6, 2008 9:20 PM CST What is a "Friend"
samora77
samora77samora77Staten Island, New York USA39 Threads 543 Posts
Someone that claim to be a friend stands behind you all the way,. and is there for you hug No matter what!!!!!!!!
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Nov 6, 2008 9:26 PM CST What is a "Friend"
shipoker58
shipoker58shipoker58Las Vegas, Nevada USA30 Threads 2,969 Posts
A friend: Someone who feels they have the right to screw you before anyone else does ( and not in a good way)!!thumbs down
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Nov 7, 2008 12:17 AM CST What is a "Friend"
constanza
constanzaconstanzaLA, California USA28 Threads 1 Polls 5,159 Posts
Sorry....I don't do funerals either....or parties.....but I am sincere in my friendships; I just don't believe in constantly holding hands every step of the way just because we are friends.....we're all adults and individuals; and personally I don't like to ever burden my friends with my problems....that's just me...dunno hug
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