why we are here? (24)

so why we are here just because we are bored or we really want find someone?well usually all people write in their profiles i am honest i want someone same i am serious i want someone same usually if they are interested by someone send a message or more but in the last they abandon all why ?maybe because they are scared by a serious relation or maybe becayse they are here just for little fun and they want just a little game on net,i think we must be more serious and trust in ourselves if we really want something serious.

Hi Claudya,

I would think that the reasons why people are here are as varied and numerous as all the existing members. Some may have joined for one reason and stayed for another. Some for serious reasons, some just for silly fun. I joined because I thought it would be a cool way to meet a guy. I stay because I cannot drag myself away from reading the forums (even when I really really should!) Sometimes if I am in a goofy mood or tired, I reply to a flower or message with a flip remark, which probably makes me seem very insincere to the person who contacted me.

Just take your time with people who contact you, as you would in the real world. It will take that much longer to form a true bond with someone online as you will not always be able to read what the person is really saying. A huge % of communication is non-verbal and through body language.

I do wish you luck and keep on keeping on.

hello young man i just want say from my messages people must be more honest what i see here the majority are here for finding their half or in the case atleast say this ,doesn't matter for what they are here actually the idea is to be natural for example u for what u are?

Hi Claudya,

I would think that the reasons why people are here are as varied and numerous as all the existing members. Some may have joined for one reason and stayed for another. Some for serious reasons, some just for silly fun. I joined because I thought it would be a cool way to meet a guy. I stay because I cannot drag myself away from reading the forums (even when I really really should!) Sometimes if I am in a goofy mood or tired, I reply to a flower or message with a flip remark, which probably makes me seem very insincere to the person who contacted me.

Just take your time with people who contact you, as you would in the real world. It will take that much longer to form a true bond with someone online as you will not always be able to read what the person is really saying. A huge % of communication is non-verbal and through body language.well dear thanks u answer this u know something these forumus are good because in this way people start to communicate more ,u know communication is very good ,knowing a person ,well i wish u find the right man u want

good joke dear well u know something god let us everybody some with more brain some with less depends now he knows what he does everytime

well maybe u are a lucky one who found serious persons me i didn't find uet i found just people who lie or don't know from their life,i didn't write this just for me and for all people from here to try be honest with themselves