First off I may be odd , because for me the honeymoon never really ends , this is the source of most of my heartache with women. For most people I've noticed the honeymoon period lasts longer for one party than the other. You caring and loving people know what I'm talking about, at first your on the same page , you BOOTH cant get enough of each other , you on the phone at all hours of the night , you are at your house or her house spending 19 hours a day humping like bunnies or at friends houses playing kissyface and making everyone else go into diebetic shock . And then it happens , one of you (sometimes him sometimes her) wants to pull back and get his/her life back to normal and ends up hurting the other by pulling back the effection that was given so freely in the first cpl of months, weeks,days..... This cruel turn of events is the source of pain for many that seek REAL love , (if you dont like someone dont get with them in the first place).
My question is when do you or do you ever emotionally get out of the honeymoon stage even if your partner has not done anything wrong or different to warrent you pulling back your effection .
No, I don't. I'm looking for that again...the never-ending honeymoon...feeling like a love-struck teenager every day of our life together. He's in my life, and it's like that for us, has been for a long time...danged terrified, stubborn man that keeps letting me go instead of holding tightly forever. Thankfully, I refuse to leave completely, and I'm as tenacious as he is stubborn, and as loving as he is, and as strong and true as he is terrified that I won't be.
quote/how long does the honeymoon last for you?/quote
I believe the honeymoon will last for as long as the couple who are involved in it are willing to let it last. Cause if it's really true love anything is possible and it never ends.
If you have to ask dude then you're clueless! If you are truly in love with the beautiful woman of your dreams then the honeymoon phase lasts indefinitely. Otherwise you hooked up with a surrogate spouse that is going to be gone by this time next May. Seems you are lacking in the art of true romance and passion. Sorry to hear it ace! Good luck on the rebound.
xcite2c: If you have to ask dude then you're clueless! If you are truly in love with the beautiful woman of your dreams then the honeymoon phase lasts indefinitely. Otherwise you hooked up with a surrogate spouse that is going to be gone by this time next May. Seems you are lacking in the art of true romance and passion. Sorry to hear it ace! Good luck on the rebound.
Get real!! For Chrissakes!! That sounds good if you are trying to impress the ladies or writing romance novels, but not in the real world!!
xcite2c: If you have to ask dude then you're clueless! If you are truly in love with the beautiful woman of your dreams then the honeymoon phase lasts indefinitely. Otherwise you hooked up with a surrogate spouse that is going to be gone by this time next May. Seems you are lacking in the art of true romance and passion. Sorry to hear it ace! Good luck on the rebound.
Dude, I'm not talking about the end of the relationship I'm talking about the point inwhich one partner pulls back and try's to reconect with their normal life, and in every relationship it happens to one before the other.
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For most people I've noticed the honeymoon period lasts longer for one party than the other.
You caring and loving people know what I'm talking about, at first your on the same page , you BOOTH cant get enough of each other , you on the phone at all hours of the night , you are at your house or her house spending 19 hours a day humping like bunnies or at friends houses playing kissyface and making everyone else go into diebetic shock . And then it happens , one of you (sometimes him sometimes her) wants to pull back and get his/her life back to normal and ends up hurting the other by pulling back the effection that was given so freely in the first cpl of months, weeks,days.....
This cruel turn of events is the source of pain for many that seek REAL love , (if you dont like someone dont get with them in the first place).
My question is when do you or do you ever emotionally get out of the honeymoon stage even if your partner has not done anything wrong or different to warrent you pulling back your effection .