Just been kind of moping today. Have read and posted in some terrific threads. But no matter what I try to do just can't get away from this feeling. I know I will end up with some advice about not needing a man to be happy. Well I am going to say right off the bat, I am a lady that does need a man in my life to be completely happy. If you feel that makes me weak, then you have that right to that opinion. But I am not a weak, clingy jealous woman. I just enjoy having a man be a part of my life. Not just any man, but someone that I can relate to, that we can spend time together and yet not have to cling to one another 24/7. I truly miss having him in my bed everynight and every morning. I miss the holding hands, kisses here and there, certain looks without speaking. Also a man to be with me when I go through certain things and loving me no matter what. I could go on and on but at least vented a little. I know he is out there, I just need to be patient.
sassy49senior: Just been kind of moping today. Have read and posted in some terrific threads. But no matter what I try to do just can't get away from this feeling. I know I will end up with some advice about not needing a man to be happy. Well I am going to say right off the bat, I am a lady that does need a man in my life to be completely happy. If you feel that makes me weak, then you have that right to that opinion. But I am not a weak, clingy jealous woman. I just enjoy having a man be a part of my life. Not just any man, but someone that I can relate to, that we can spend time together and yet not have to cling to one another 24/7. I truly miss having him in my bed everynight and every morning. I miss the holding hands, kisses here and there, certain looks without speaking. Also a man to be with me when I go through certain things and loving me no matter what. I could go on and on but at least vented a little. I know he is out there, I just need to be patient.
The key is to be happy within your self first. Even when I was alone I was always at least content with my own company..having some one special is just the icing on the cake.
Thats not weak at all rather it's good to see people whom KNOW what they honestly feel they need.
and why wouldn't you miss it or need it? everybody in the end if they can admit it or not longs for that special person. it's hardwired into our nature so to speak.
and really what advice can we offer that you haven't provided foryourself.
but I totaly understand... I miss those things aswell
windrider91: The key is to be happy within your self first. Even when I was alone I was always at least content with my own company..having some one special is just the icing on the cake.
I am happy with myself wind and I know I will be fine if I have to be alone for the rest of my life. But I do feel calmer and more relaxed and content, if that makes any sense when I have a man in my life.
sassy49senior: I am happy with myself wind and I know I will be fine if I have to be alone for the rest of my life. But I do feel calmer and more relaxed and content, if that makes any sense when I have a man in my life.
He is out there. Just be patient and he is probably closer thsn you think. I knew my wife for 30 some years before I realized who she was.
sassy49senior: Just been kind of moping today. Have read and posted in some terrific threads. But no matter what I try to do just can't get away from this feeling. I know I will end up with some advice about not needing a man to be happy. Well I am going to say right off the bat, I am a lady that does need a man in my life to be completely happy. If you feel that makes me weak, then you have that right to that opinion. But I am not a weak, clingy jealous woman. I just enjoy having a man be a part of my life. Not just any man, but someone that I can relate to, that we can spend time together and yet not have to cling to one another 24/7. I truly miss having him in my bed everynight and every morning. I miss the holding hands, kisses here and there, certain looks without speaking. Also a man to be with me when I go through certain things and loving me no matter what. I could go on and on but at least vented a little. I know he is out there, I just need to be patient.
I know the feeling all to well. I was married for 20+ yrs to my late husband and would do it all again if I was given the chance.
I miss similiar things too. Like having someone to hold hands with. Taking walks and having picnics on the beaches watching the sunrise and the sunsets. Having someone to be able to do special/ spur of the moment things for just because. Greeting someone at the door after their hard day at work with hugs and kisses. Having someone who you can lean on and tell your problems to and who reasures you everything will be alright.And the list goes on.
sassy49senior: I am happy with myself wind and I know I will be fine if I have to be alone for the rest of my life. But I do feel calmer and more relaxed and content, if that makes any sense when I have a man in my life.
Not sure if i'll be in nebraska any time soon but i offer friendship from here. For what thats worth.
somechick: I know the feeling all to well. I was married for 20+ yrs to my late husband and would do it all again if I was given the chance.
I miss similiar things too. Like having someone to hold hands with. Taking walks and having picnics on the beaches watching the sunrise and the sunsets. Having someone to be able to do special/ spur of the moment things for just because. Greeting someone at the door after their hard day at work with hugs and kisses. Having someone who you can lean on and tell your problems to and who reasures you everything will be alright.And the list goes on.
Death sucks I'd say i know how you feal but i don't. I do however think tommorow will be awlright , it has to be when yesterday was bad.
I feel the same as you Sassy. But, when it gets right down to it I'm not willing to put in all the work it takes in a relationship. I guess I just not ready, or the right person has not come along. Other then that I very happy with who I am and what I'm doing in my life. My hand and my mind keeps me intertained.
lorax111: Death sucks I'd say i know how you feal but i don't. I do however think tommorow will be awlright , it has to be when yesterday was bad. Dennis
Thank you Dennis and I very much appreciate your kind words and know I do have a very good future going for me ahead. I know my tomorrows will get better and better as times goes on and if I keep thinking postively things will be alright.
But I also know and believe that everything will work out for sassy too.
sassy49senior: Just been kind of moping today. Have read and posted in some terrific threads. But no matter what I try to do just can't get away from this feeling. I know I will end up with some advice about not needing a man to be happy. Well I am going to say right off the bat, I am a lady that does need a man in my life to be completely happy. If you feel that makes me weak, then you have that right to that opinion. But I am not a weak, clingy jealous woman. I just enjoy having a man be a part of my life. Not just any man, but someone that I can relate to, that we can spend time together and yet not have to cling to one another 24/7. I truly miss having him in my bed everynight and every morning. I miss the holding hands, kisses here and there, certain looks without speaking. Also a man to be with me when I go through certain things and loving me no matter what. I could go on and on but at least vented a little. I know he is out there, I just need to be patient.
*Takes the coffee away and hands her a cup of Hot cocoa*
Things always seem better with cocoa.
You will always have my ear if you need to talk to someone.
somechick: Thank you Dennis and I very much appreciate your kind words and know I do have a very good future going for me ahead. I know my tomorrows will get better and better as times goes on and if I keep thinking postively things will be alright.
But I also know and believe that everything will work out for sassy too.
I've been threw hell and well you live threw it you and sassy likely understand my words.
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terrific threads. But no matter what I try to do just can't get
away from this feeling. I know I will end up with some advice
about not needing a man to be happy.
Well I am going to say right off the bat, I am a lady that does
need a man in my life to be completely happy. If you feel that
makes me weak, then you have that right to that opinion. But
I am not a weak, clingy jealous woman. I just enjoy having a
man be a part of my life. Not just any man, but someone that
I can relate to, that we can spend time together and yet not
have to cling to one another 24/7. I truly miss having him in
my bed everynight and every morning. I miss the holding
hands, kisses here and there, certain looks without speaking.
Also a man to be with me when I go through certain things
and loving me no matter what. I could go on and on but at
least vented a little. I know he is out there, I just need to be
patient.