lorax111: Not sure if i'll be in nebraska any time soon but i offer friendship from here. For what thats worth. Dennis
Hi Dennis, Sorry it has taken me so long to get back to you but I had to run some errands. Thank you for your offer of friendship. Sometimes I just need to cry and I may mail you to try to get my mind headed in a different direction. But please if you are ever in this area stop and visit.
somechick: I know the feeling all to well. I was married for 20+ yrs to my late husband and would do it all again if I was given the chance.
I miss similiar things too. Like having someone to hold hands with. Taking walks and having picnics on the beaches watching the sunrise and the sunsets. Having someone to be able to do special/ spur of the moment things for just because. Greeting someone at the door after their hard day at work with hugs and kisses. Having someone who you can lean on and tell your problems to and who reasures you everything will be alright.And the list goes on.
I know what you mean, Anna. And Sassy. I'm happy at this point in my life...happy with who I am, happy to go to work, happy to come home, very happy with my life overall, and happy with me. And yet, I miss all of the above as well. Somehow, spirit touches and memories aren't enough.
sassy49senior: Hi Dennis, Sorry it has taken me so long to get back to you but I had to run some errands. Thank you for your offer of friendship. Sometimes I just need to cry and I may mail you to try to get my mind headed in a different direction. But please if you are ever in this area stop and visit.
If you need to cry then cry, if you need to yell then yell,,,, puck life just live. What else can you do ?
somechick: Thank you Dennis and I very much appreciate your kind words and know I do have a very good future going for me ahead. I know my tomorrows will get better and better as times goes on and if I keep thinking postively things will be alright.
But I also know and believe that everything will work out for sassy too.
I do wish that man was still there with you it even makes me sad that he is not. We trudge on and live as best we can.
sassy49senior: Hi Dennis, Sorry it has taken me so long to get back to you but I had to run some errands. Thank you for your offer of friendship. Sometimes I just need to cry and I may mail you to try to get my mind headed in a different direction. But please if you are ever in this area stop and visit.
You should feel free to cry and welcome to mail me. I probably can't fix anything but my shoulder is dry. In the past i fixed things but i dont do that mess anymore so i just offer a soft shoulder , its yours if you need it.
somechick: I know the feeling all to well. I was married for 20+ yrs to my late husband and would do it all again if I was given the chance.
I miss similiar things too. Like having someone to hold hands with. Taking walks and having picnics on the beaches watching the sunrise and the sunsets. Having someone to be able to do special/ spur of the moment things for just because. Greeting someone at the door after their hard day at work with hugs and kisses. Having someone who you can lean on and tell your problems to and who reasures you everything will be alright.And the list goes on.
somechick, do you find the holidays a time when you feel it more? Just someone to be with me when I watch the excitement on the faces of the grand-kids. Some of the more simple things would bring me an enormous amount of pleasure.
sassy49senior: somechick, do you find the holidays a time when you feel it more? Just someone to be with me when I watch the excitement on the faces of the grand-kids. Some of the more simple things would bring me an enormous amount of pleasure.
Sassy you may call me Anna. Yes I've felt more lonely during the holidays cause this is the 2nd holiday season I've spent alone. But thankfully though I won't be totally alone this year cause I'll be volunteering this Christmas Eve & Christmas Day at a nursing home behind my home visiting with the residents and helping in serving meals. I've always enjoyed in giving to others cause it makes me feel good inside and I can't think of a better gift to give to someone.
Besides I have all the memories and I know that my late husband would want to go on with my life.
lorax111: I do wish that man was still there with you it even makes me sad that he is not. We trudge on and live as best we can.
Dennis
Dennis you know what in a way he is still with me. He's in all my thoughts and dreams. Whenever I look at my son's picture I see my late husband's eyes,his smile and his tears. Whenever I visit places we used to visit he's there.Whenever I listen to the music we used to listen to and dance to I recall all the good times.
I know in my heart that he'd want to go on and live my life and be happy again and not be sad all the time.
I wish I could feel that I needed a woman!! I wish I felt like I needed anyone. I just don't have those feelings!! I want to love and I want to be loved...butr those feelings are just not something I can comprehend!!
My point is sorta like the Barbara S. song "...people who need people, are the luckiest people in the world"!
sassy49senior: Just been kind of moping today. Have read and posted in some terrific threads. But no matter what I try to do just can't get away from this feeling. I know I will end up with some advice about not needing a man to be happy. Well I am going to say right off the bat, I am a lady that does need a man in my life to be completely happy. If you feel that makes me weak, then you have that right to that opinion. But I am not a weak, clingy jealous woman. I just enjoy having a man be a part of my life. Not just any man, but someone that I can relate to, that we can spend time together and yet not have to cling to one another 24/7. I truly miss having him in my bed everynight and every morning. I miss the holding hands, kisses here and there, certain looks without speaking. Also a man to be with me when I go through certain things and loving me no matter what. I could go on and on but at least vented a little. I know he is out there, I just need to be patient.
We all need love darlin....there's nothing wrong with wanting to share your life with someone...the only time it's unhealthy is when you rely on that man to be your entire being and happiness to fill the void that's missing in yourself and in turn are willing to settle for just any man who comes along.......we all get lonely....that's cause we're human darlin.....
I did that Shell. Thought I was old enough to know I was in love with this man and wanted everyone to butt out. I even had several CS friends telling me maybe I should slow down, but I believe I did learn from those 2 years. Now I am totally ready to share myself completely.
sassy49senior: Just been kind of moping today. Have read and posted in some terrific threads. But no matter what I try to do just can't get away from this feeling. I know I will end up with some advice about not needing a man to be happy. Well I am going to say right off the bat, I am a lady that does need a man in my life to be completely happy. If you feel that makes me weak, then you have that right to that opinion. But I am not a weak, clingy jealous woman. I just enjoy having a man be a part of my life. Not just any man, but someone that I can relate to, that we can spend time together and yet not have to cling to one another 24/7. I truly miss having him in my bed everynight and every morning. I miss the holding hands, kisses here and there, certain looks without speaking. Also a man to be with me when I go through certain things and loving me no matter what. I could go on and on but at least vented a little. I know he is out there, I just need to be patient.
Sassy, you know, this touches me so much, so very much.
Of course you are not weak, because you need and want a man.
We women, want that. Not all of those, but I do.
You know, you are so lovely and sweet.
You want to be loved, taken care of, it is human nature, very much so. We do want that.
You know 'him' he will come, he will be along when he is ready, I know you miss him, but he will. I am certain of it.
Really, I am.
He will rock up on his horse and whisk you away, to his world and you know, you will finally arrive at home.
Hi..You have the same filling like me. I used to have someone to share, to hold.. but now.. I feel empty.. I missing something.. But I believe someday will find someone..
cicihoa: Hi..You have the same filling like me. I used to have someone to share, to hold.. but now.. I feel empty.. I missing something.. But I believe someday will find someone..
dont dewll on waht you havent got...be thankful for what you have..whats for you wont go by you....
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Hi Dennis, Sorry it has taken me so long to get back to you but
I had to run some errands. Thank you for your offer of
friendship. Sometimes I just need to cry and I may mail you
to try to get my mind headed in a different direction. But please
if you are ever in this area stop and visit.