RDM59: Hey Sass ...... .... how is the bump ? Hope you are recovering well .....
Hi RDM, It is a 6 inch long bump and when I smack it against something in the night it wakes me right up. Going to try to give up the walker tomorrow and see if I can make it with just a cane. Someone once told me, where there's a will there's a way.
OK...I'm going to admit it. I get lonely, too. Not very often, but I do. I eventually get over it. I've had everything that you all mention, before in my life. I opened my heart wide open for them and loved them dearly. Sadly, it wasn't enough for them. I'm not a clingy person, not bossy, not a lot of things that men describe in women. But, before I get involved with someone again, I'm going to make sure that we are both on the same level. When I feel lonely, I just find something to do. Go play with the dogs, go hiking, crank up the music and clean the house. After I get done cleaning the house I'm glad I'm by myself so that it doesn't get messed up so quickly.
Englishman55Salisbury, Wiltshire, England UK6,405 posts
sassy49senior: Just been kind of moping today. Have read and posted in some terrific threads. But no matter what I try to do just can't get away from this feeling. I know I will end up with some advice about not needing a man to be happy. Well I am going to say right off the bat, I am a lady that does need a man in my life to be completely happy. If you feel that makes me weak, then you have that right to that opinion. But I am not a weak, clingy jealous woman. I just enjoy having a man be a part of my life. Not just any man, but someone that I can relate to, that we can spend time together and yet not have to cling to one another 24/7. I truly miss having him in my bed everynight and every morning. I miss the holding hands, kisses here and there, certain looks without speaking. Also a man to be with me when I go through certain things and loving me no matter what. I could go on and on but at least vented a little. I know he is out there, I just need to be patient.
Well, that was a very frank and honest addmission which I can relate too.
Thanks for posting that Sassy...... I know the sentiment entirely and would only be cheating myself if I said I didn't need a woman in my life.
sassy49senior: Hi RDM, It is a 6 inch long bump and when I smack it against something in the night it wakes me right up. Going to try to give up the walker tomorrow and see if I can make it with just a cane. Someone once told me, where there's a will there's a way.
Great to hear that progress is steady. Get well soon....
P.S. I know what you mean about broken sleep. I often awake to smack something 6 inch long in the middle of the night ......
SoldierByte: I've HAD to live with MEN.. (military) even though they AIN'T my type either..!! For OP, Cheer up girl.. all will be O-K..!! ---SoldierByte---
I have lived alone for years myself in my younger years. But I find that I also have a strong desire to not just get attention and intimacy for myself from a woman, but to please someone, put a smile on their face, make them happy! Sometimes if the need to be with someone is for the affection, it's also for the desire to give and please someone else. That can be just as strong, at least it is for me.
SoldierByte: I've HAD to live with MEN.. (military) even though they AIN'T my type either..!! For OP, Cheer up girl.. all will be O-K..!! ---SoldierByte---
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Have you got any Welsh blood in you BB ..... You speak it well ....