I'm sorry that somebody pulled your joke poll...that was funny. And you have a twisted sense of humor, and can sometimes be a tad bitter...but you've been given reason for bitterness lately. I do notice that there are many on here who happen to love your sense of humor, warped though it is. When I do, I laugh at it. When I don't, I ignore it. Funny, but I find I can ignore things I don't like, or posts that do nothing for me...I wish more people could.
Apparently I've been blessed to be busy elsewhere the past couple of days, and have missed an escalation in the back-biting and wars that happen here. TG. Yes, this is supposed to be a dating site, and forums are supposed to be fun.
Robbie, I sit out and read the battles and conflicts as an outside bystander. I choose not to enter the threads that are hostile. I am here to meet my next and last love of my life, but I truly don't believe this is the site that it will happen. I make several and few comments on some subjects. I enjoy the Forums as entertainment. I do believe some people get pleasure into highjacking threads and using them as chat lines. That's okay to I guess. I just leave that thread and look for another.
Hey it's a big world and all of the differences make it interesting. Thanks for the Thread.
RobbieMOPHertford, Hertfordshire, England UK4,553 posts
druidess6308: I'm sorry that somebody pulled your joke poll...that was funny. And you have a twisted sense of humor, and can sometimes be a tad bitter...but you've been given reason for bitterness lately. I do notice that there are many on here who happen to love your sense of humor, warped though it is. When I do, I laugh at it. When I don't, I ignore it. Funny, but I find I can ignore things I don't like, or posts that do nothing for me...I wish more people could.
Apparently I've been blessed to be busy elsewhere the past couple of days, and have missed an escalation in the back-biting and wars that happen here. TG. Yes, this is supposed to be a dating site, and forums are supposed to be fun.
Yes, i do try to be different, after all i could play a straight act and it would get dull after a while.
So i chose a twisted maniac personality to send forth post from, because it gives me more scope to cause more mahem with.
After all, if i were really a bitter and twisted person in real life i wouldn't well be in the position i am.
People will generally be able to spot if i am typing in a serious manner, but a big clue is if i am being either witty/bitter or a tad demented it is because i am trying to entertain.
SummerUK: Noooooo just let them get on with it Robbie
Its great because you get to see people with their true colours flying
I agree, it's a good way to get to know others.
Robbie, your thread wasn't the only one that disappeared, there was a lot that vanished.
The fighting is annoying, but the censorship and banning is what really bothers me. I have no problem taking things to email and never bother reporting anyone, their posts or threads.
Big_John: Robbie, I sit out and read the battles and conflicts as an outside bystander. I choose not to enter the threads that are hostile. I am here to meet my next and last love of my life, but I truly don't believe this is the site that it will happen. I make several and few comments on some subjects. I enjoy the Forums as entertainment. I do believe some people get pleasure into highjacking threads and using them as chat lines. That's okay to I guess. I just leave that thread and look for another.
Hey it's a big world and all of the differences make it interesting. Thanks for the Thread.
another of their often used tactics is when they cant attack or refute the actual argument, they turn the attack to a personal vendetta - they are so bloody transparrent........
SummerUKWashington UK, Tyne and Wear, England UK8,842 posts
I have seen some of the 'nicest' people turn into monsters and have been quite shocked by it. So I guess if it wasn't for the free speech in the forums I could've been sucked in by them
I know then not to reply to their polite and friendly emails lol
RobbieMOPHertford, Hertfordshire, England UK4,553 posts
trish123: another of their often used tactics is when they cant attack or refute the actual argument, they turn the attack to a personal vendetta - they are so bloody transparrent........
I didn't even see what was offensive to see what got the thread pulled!
Now that really pissed me off.
I thought i provided an entertaining method of finding out how and what people liked on the forums.
I certainly wasn't requesting a mutual appreciation society love in.
So even that inventive method of finding out to tailor my own methods to entertain was wrecked.
RobbieMOPHertford, Hertfordshire, England UK4,553 posts
kidatheart: I agree, it's a good way to get to know others.Robbie, your thread wasn't the only one that disappeared, there was a lot that vanished.
The fighting is annoying, but the censorship and banning is what really bothers me. I have no problem taking things to email and never bother reporting anyone, their posts or threads.
I should be a moderator, i can be impartial and will take a common sense approach.
Site owner, feel free to email me.
There should be a more gentle line in administration, therefor you really will see people for what they are.
Whether that's as nice as say Hugz or as warped and demented as i try to be for entertainment purposes, the bland butchery approach to chopping anything with some colour in will make the forums appear very dull.
I say this to be constructive, and i hope it will be taken so by everyone including the moderators.
I didn't even see what was offensive to see what got the thread pulled!
Now that really pissed me off.
I thought i provided an entertaining method of finding out how and what people liked on the forums.
I certainly wasn't requesting a mutual appreciation society love in.
So even that inventive method of finding out to tailor my own methods to entertain was wrecked.
I honestly don't know why i bother.[/quote]
me either Robbie
I didnt see your thread so cant even begin to guess - but the reportnic sheeple were having a ball last night, they were all out in force..............
I do agree that people need tougher skin when it comes to other people's veiwpoints, of them...
<--------- I don't have a clique
I take each thread on it own merit, I can strongly dis-agree with someone, on one thread and then compliment them on another.
I just give my veiw point each and everytime, and I don't care what others type in a thread, I am my own person who thinks for himself...
I do agree that alot of people seem to just want to argue, but it doesn't bother me, I simply see it as (well, I know why they are single)
I don't ever, I mean ever get mad when I'm debating or arguing my point on any subject on here.. But I'm pretty laid back, and I respect people more, who actually have an opinion on a subject rather then someone who is always avoiding a debate and staying silent... JMO
"So far ive seen people complain about cliques/bullying/and even emotion over use."
I'd just like to say for the record, that if someone has a problem with me being over-emotional these past weeks, they can email me if they like, but I'll just tell them to bite me. I'm not in the mood.
Sorry about your thread, Robbie, but I also saw a thread censored last night.
When I have a problem with something said I tend to ignore it. I would never report anyone and the only thing that really bothers me is when attacks become personal.
Ta.
Vinny
I thought the way you dealt with your and Al's disagreement last night was excellent Vinny
RobbieMOPHertford, Hertfordshire, England UK4,553 posts
Tater: Well, I guess I missed you humor thread....
I don't have any arguements to settle.
I do agree that people need tougher skin when it comes to other people's veiwpoints, of them...
<--------- I don't have a clique
I take each thread on it own merit, I can strongly dis-agree with someone, on one thread and then compliment them on another.
I just give my veiw point each and everytime, and I don't care what others type in a thread, I am my own person who thinks for himself...
I do agree that alot of people seem to just want to argue, but it doesn't bother me, I simply see it as (well, I know why they are single)
I don't ever, I mean ever get mad when I'm debating or arguing my point on any subject on here.. But I'm pretty laid back, and I respect people more, who actually have an opinion on a subject rather then someone who is always avoiding a debate and staying silent... JMO
I'm wondering if the bickering and fighting is what puts people off joining in on the forums?
That has to be a real concern to the site, it would be if it were my business.
Your like me, you just jump in and say what you think! Everyone should do it!
I encourage everyone to join in, and if anything offends you that i type please email me...i am looking for feedback to improve the level of my service.
And i agree 100 per cent about the single comments.
I will always exploit the obvious character stereotypes and faux pah's for entertainment purposes if the opportunity presents itself.
SummerUKWashington UK, Tyne and Wear, England UK8,842 posts
RobbieM: That's true in one way, at least you can avoid people who you find to be disturbed!
Now get your cat to do something amusing.
I'll trade you a pic of me with a cat sat in my face in return.
lol Deal
I have a few amusing pics of him but can't download them because Harry (the dog) ate the lead from the camera. I'll have them up soon though. I'll need to get a new lead for xmas piccies
I have a few amusing pics of him but can't download them because Harry (the dog) ate the lead from the camera. I'll have them up soon though. I'll need to get a new lead for xmas piccies
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