"My friend was still in love with his ex and wanted her back"
I remain friends with all my old ex's . I call them once in a while to remind myself why we split-up. It come back to me very quickly ................. Sometimes a few minutes on the phone is better than hours with a psychologist .
StressFree: The best I can answer that complex question in a nutshell is by saying true love is being in the moment.
And hopefully those wonderful moments will last a lifetime.
I think it's just part of the answer, and I don't have the answer for that one. I can only define it as to my experiences and observations.
But I have felt true love.
True love is slippery.
True love is awesome!
God!... I love your mined, your wisdom, your big heart. If you had a woman's body I would chase you down, where ever you'd be. I honestly understand now, why some guys would turn gay. I wonder why I don't see the same type spectrum decency in the women I normally run in too... They are, in deed somehow tricky and mysterious...I believe that's the reason we are intrigued by them. You are so true that love comes in flashes and then disappears. If one can hang on that phenomenon, intuitively enough, synchronicity will reveal new experiences and human life is suddenly like a river again, with a destination. I don't think humans will ever master to in-cage love unless they mistake it for lust and other physiological assortments. Love is an awesome feeling, but unless you are open to it, it won't hit you, not even by mistake...Synchronicity again.
somechick: What is true love anyway? Is it the forever kind or what. Does anyone really know? Sometimes I wonder if some people really truly honestly know what it is. Oh yes they go through all the motions etc but are they really in love or just in love with love?
Pat unfortunately I don't have one and if I had the room and they were allowed where I live I'd get one in a heartbeat. Besides I'm not home enough anymore to take care of one and it would be unkind to leave one locked up most of the day. I had 3 little ankle biters once and they gave their love unconditionally. I found out that they were more loyal and loving then some people I know of.
COSMICDUST: God!... I love your mined, your wisdom, your big heart. If you had a woman's body I would chase you down, where ever you'd be. I honestly understand now, why some guys would turn gay.I wonder why I don't see the same type spectrum decency in the women I normally run in too... They are, in deed somehow tricky and mysterious...I believe that's the reason we are intrigued by them. You are so true that love comes in flashes and then disappears. If one can hang on that phenomenon, intuitively enough, synchronicity will reveal new experiences and human life is suddenly like a river again, with a destination. I don't think humans will ever master to in-cage love unless they mistake it for lust and other physiological assortments. Love is an awesome feeling, but unless you are open to it, it won't hit you, not even by mistake...Synchronicity again.
somechick: Pat unfortunately I don't have one and if I had the room and they were allowed where I live I'd get one in a heartbeat. Besides I'm not home enough anymore to take care of one and it would be unkind to leave one locked up most of the day. I had 3 little ankle biters once and they gave their love unconditionally. I found out that they were more loyal and loving then some people I know of.
hopefloats: Sorry Cosmic, just being a little ornary this morning!
People like you need help, but unless you are conscious of that, no one can help. I am very sorry, I DISTURBED your morning, commenting on love. Now I fine that, truly disturbing.
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My friend was still in love with his ex and wanted her back.
I said, ''Tommy do you love her?''
He said,''Of couse I do.''
I said,''Then let her go.If she loves you she'll come back.If she doesn't love you the best gift you can give her is distance.'
He didn't want to hear that,but he knew I was right.