tainogirlOPTrincity,West Indies,, Trinidad and Tobago3,777 posts
GreenEyedBlonde1: Hi there,
Personally I think the men are looking for hotties and the older they get they live in a fantasy world! Older women are not as exciting, oh well.....I don't find older men who are walking around with a big beer belly much of a catch anyway! I'm just looking for a nice, decent man, no weirdo's.
Probably the problem lies in the word 'decent' and that it means different things to different people.
Sommerauer71: Does this mean, that all the people who have found a partner, are not decent?There are many people here, who are the kindest, most wonderful souls, I have possibly come across.
Then there are the tossers, the idiots, both male and female.
Still, this place would not survive if there were not this myriad pf people trying to find love.
I'm hoping you aren't misintepreting my post, yet again.
Why would you even make such a statement, knowing no one means that?
To answer your question honestly, for what works for me to be seriously looking for a match, I have very high standards and will not "settle" just to be with someone. Intelligence stimulates me while quick wit excites me. I need that, among other attributes, in a partner.
tainogirlOPTrincity,West Indies,, Trinidad and Tobago3,777 posts
tainogirl: Probably the problem lies in the word 'decent' and that it means different things to different people.
Perhaps a better choice of word could be 'compatible'. I am sure most of us are just looking for someone we find attractive and vice versa. Someone who will love us for who we are flaws and all.
Maybe we tell to much about ourselves on here? In RL it would take several dates or years to find out. I'm the type of person that I am me accept it or not. Maybe that is it!
tainogirl: Perhaps a better choice of word could be 'compatible'. I am sure most of us are just looking for someone we find attractive and vice versa. Someone who will love us for who we are flaws and all.
No, Taino. Any word fits, because these are subjective terms.
Decent to some, could be in the way a person talks, and to another, the way they dress. It may even mean, the way one initiates contact with prospects.
tainogirlOPTrincity,West Indies,, Trinidad and Tobago3,777 posts
sweetowen: Lush, I think she's talking about the title of the thread.
What's wrong with the title? Hey I'm just using a word that I see a lot in profiles, Everyone has their view on what's decent or indecent. There are those who have had the luck of the draw and found someone, now if they would just sprinkle some of that fairy dust on the rest of us
Shirley49WV: Maybe we tell to much about ourselves on here? In RL it would take several dates or years to find out. I'm the type of person that I am me accept it or not. Maybe that is it!
I disclose much in my profile to eliminate those that I am not compatable with. I am upfront and forthright in mine and do not "generalize" with the same old mundane cliche lines. I shoot from the hip so as not to mislead any gentleman. It's there in black and white and read all over........
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