Big_John: I don't want to figure it out. It might make me examine myself and I might find out some things about myself I wouldn't like. So I am going to stay in the dark!!!!!
Now, as I am in that sort of mood, where I pick up on everything, must be something to do with the marking I have done for hours this evening.
John.
I think you are pretty much well figured out, and there are lots of things that I have figured out about myself, that are not pretty or pleasant, and I am not saying that you may find that, but they are part of me, who I am and what I am about.
I compromise that woman, or any partner does then I am doing myself a disservice.
We ahve to explore ourselves, and find out who we are, before any other person can expect or be expected to be a part of our lives.
Jan 11, 2009 8:54 PM CST How come all the decent men and women on CS can't make a love connection
soulmate7Bridgetown, Saint Michael Barbados16 Posts
soulmate7Bridgetown, Saint Michael Barbados16 posts
I have wondered the same thing. Well they say I live too faraway, even though my profile says I am relocatable.Yet many others from various sites found their love in a different Country, went to that Country to meet them and one or the other relocated.I did not think that if you truly care about, and want to be with someone that you would let distance get in the way.Sometimes the right person for you could very well be from another country culture or race.Besides travel is so simple today, I was in the U.K for months during the middle of last year!Although I am tempted to give up, like you I still believe true love is still out there.All the best to you tainogirl, and may great things come to you in 2009.
tainogirlOPTrincity,West Indies,, Trinidad and Tobago3,777 posts
soulmate7: I have wondered the same thing. Well they say I live too faraway, even though my profile says I am relocatable.Yet many others from various sites found their love in a different Country, went to that Country to meet them and one or the other relocated.I did not think that if you truly care about, and want to be with someone that you would let distance get in the way.Sometimes the right person for you could very well be from another country culture or race.Besides travel is so simple today, I was in the U.K for months during the middle of last year!Although I am tempted to give up, like you I still believe true love is still out there.All the best to you tainogirl, and may great things come to you in 2009.
Big_John: I don't want to figure it out. It might make me examine myself and I might find out some things about myself I wouldn't like. So I am going to stay in the dark!!!!!
Examining oneself in the dark usually reveals very little due to such poor lighting.
rasgumby: Quite some time back,, I met 2 from dating sites..BOTH lied about almost everything! one I even drove over 850 miles each way to meet her.. she was twice the size she had said. HUGE!!!and when we met she had a hangover--but didn't drink even worse but dont need all of the details here..
the second one said she was my age and an attractive picture.. when we met, she was at least 10 years older then stated and VERY CLEARLY the picture had been taken many many years earlier.. to use a cowboy term.. she looked like she had been rode hard and put up wet!
People just cant get away with so many lies in person!
I understand I flew to England 9 years ago and everything the man told me was a flat out lie! I made the best out of the situation and had a great time. I could have sit around and pouted for days but what the hell would that have got me? I would still have owed money on my credit card from the trip. To meet someone off here you have to put yourself out their and be seen and hope you make wise choices that next time.
Jan 11, 2009 9:21 PM CST How come all the decent men and women on CS can't make a love connection
pietermatAmsterdam, North Holland Netherlands122 Posts
pietermatAmsterdam, North Holland Netherlands122 posts
lusciousmile: Please elaborate, sir!
OK since you ask so politely young lady.
What I don't understand is the sense of the initial question Decent or indecent. Expressed in a context they are like this or like that and they get a date and the others dont - I brought up my daughter, your age, in a decent unselfish way by staying with her mother some 15 yrs too long in an unhappy relationship not to perturbate her education etc. She became a well known classical musician so I think it was worth it.
Now I only have myself to feed snd on this site now hardly a week obtained many reaction from stunning woman and several rendez vous are already planned.
It's fast sure, but why not, I don't get into complicated long email stories, just pick up the phone and jump on a plane - got nothing to loose - if she's lying or does'nt looks like her picture well the flowers she gets, the champain I drink it myself and the perfume from Paris stays in my pocket for the next one.
Now is this indecent, having an attitude 'be nice to me and I'l be nice to you' ? Will be the first one who goes of this site when the right person appears. But in the mean time lots of fun.
pietermat: OK since you ask so politely young lady.
What I don't understand is the sense of the initial question Decent or indecent. Expressed in a context they are like this or like that and they get a date and the others dont - I brought up my daughter, your age, in a decent unselfish way by staying with her mother some 15 yrs too long in an unhappy relationship not to perturbate her education etc. She became a well known classical musician so I think it was worth it.
Now I only have myself to feed snd on this site now hardly a week obtained many reaction from stunning woman and several rendez vous are already planned.
It's fast sure, but why not, I don't get into complicated long email stories, just pick up the phone and jump on a plane - got nothing to loose - if she's lying or does'nt looks like her picture well the flowers she gets, the champain I drink it myself and the perfume from Paris stays in my pocket for the next one.
Now is this indecent, having an attitude 'be nice to me and I'l be nice to you' ? Will be the first one who goes of this site when the right person appears. But in the mean time lots of fun.
Is this indecent? If so happy to be.
Oh I like this post, very much.
I do really like it...
I am one that pushes, to meet, I am not into endless emails, calls, I want to feel, touch, smell a person, I have connected with, I know who I have connected with...
And if I travel, then I will take a damn good book, make sure there is a nice hotel close by and have a damn fine time if my fingers no like and he smells ghastly.
Guys can someone explain the ladies that their prince charming is not wearing a shiny armor or riding a white horse...maybe some of your standards are way too high
USJoeDoe: Guys can someone explain the ladies that their prince charming is not wearing a shiny armor or riding a white horse...maybe some of your standards are way too high
What?????
Yes they are...
Especially the horse bit, he collected me, heaving bosom and all and swept me off to the forest...
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Now, as I am in that sort of mood, where I pick up on everything, must be something to do with the marking I have done for hours this evening.
John.
I think you are pretty much well figured out, and there are lots of things that I have figured out about myself, that are not pretty or pleasant, and I am not saying that you may find that, but they are part of me, who I am and what I am about.
I compromise that woman, or any partner does then I am doing myself a disservice.
We ahve to explore ourselves, and find out who we are, before any other person can expect or be expected to be a part of our lives.