How come all the decent men and women on CS can't make a love connection ( Archived) (190)

Jan 11, 2009 8:53 PM CST How come all the decent men and women on CS can't make a love connection
Sommerauer71
Sommerauer71Sommerauer71Salzburg, Austria133 Threads 4 Polls 12,414 Posts
Big_John: I don't want to figure it out. It might make me examine myself and I might find out some things about myself I wouldn't like. So I am going to stay in the dark!!!!!


Now, as I am in that sort of mood, where I pick up on everything, must be something to do with the marking I have done for hours this evening.

John.

I think you are pretty much well figured out, and there are lots of things that I have figured out about myself, that are not pretty or pleasant, and I am not saying that you may find that, but they are part of me, who I am and what I am about.

I compromise that woman, or any partner does then I am doing myself a disservice.

We ahve to explore ourselves, and find out who we are, before any other person can expect or be expected to be a part of our lives.
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Jan 11, 2009 8:54 PM CST How come all the decent men and women on CS can't make a love connection
soulmate7
soulmate7soulmate7Bridgetown, Saint Michael Barbados16 Posts
I have wondered the same thing. Well they say I live too faraway, even though my profile says I am relocatable.Yet many others from various sites found their love in a different Country, went to that Country to meet them and one or the other relocated.I did not think that if you truly care about, and want to be with someone that you would let distance get in the way.Sometimes the right person for you could very well be from another country culture or race.Besides travel is so simple today, I was in the U.K for months during the middle of last year!Although I am tempted to give up, like you I still believe true love is still out there.All the best to you tainogirl, and may great things come to you in 2009.thumbs up
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Jan 11, 2009 8:57 PM CST How come all the decent men and women on CS can't make a love connection
tainogirl
tainogirltainogirlTrincity,West Indies,, Trinidad and Tobago215 Threads 2 Polls 3,777 Posts
soulmate7: I have wondered the same thing. Well they say I live too faraway, even though my profile says I am relocatable.Yet many others from various sites found their love in a different Country, went to that Country to meet them and one or the other relocated.I did not think that if you truly care about, and want to be with someone that you would let distance get in the way.Sometimes the right person for you could very well be from another country culture or race.Besides travel is so simple today, I was in the U.K for months during the middle of last year!Although I am tempted to give up, like you I still believe true love is still out there.All the best to you tainogirl, and may great things come to you in 2009.


wine same to you
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Jan 11, 2009 9:02 PM CST How come all the decent men and women on CS can't make a love connection
venere08
venere08venere08Puglia and Autumn, South Australia Australia121 Threads 2 Polls 9,996 Posts
Big_John: I don't want to figure it out. It might make me examine myself and I might find out some things about myself I wouldn't like. So I am going to stay in the dark!!!!!


Examining oneself in the dark usually reveals very little due to such poor lighting.professor

Sso you have done well in refraining.laugh
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Jan 11, 2009 9:12 PM CST How come all the decent men and women on CS can't make a love connection
Shirley49WV
Shirley49WVShirley49WVMason, West Virginia USA27 Threads 2,449 Posts
rasgumby: Quite some time back,, I met 2 from dating sites..BOTH lied about almost everything!
one I even drove over 850 miles each way to meet her.. she was twice the size she had said. HUGE!!!and when we met she had a hangover--but didn't drink even worse but dont need all of the details here..

the second one said she was my age and an attractive picture.. when we met, she was at least 10 years older then stated and VERY CLEARLY the picture had been taken many many years earlier..
to use a cowboy term.. she looked like she had been rode hard and put up wet!

People just cant get away with so many lies in person!


I understand I flew to England 9 years ago and everything the man told me was a flat out lie! I made the best out of the situation and had a great time.
I could have sit around and pouted for days but what the hell would that have got me? I would still have owed money on my credit card from the trip.
To meet someone off here you have to put yourself out their and be seen and hope you make wise choices that next time. wink
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Jan 11, 2009 9:13 PM CST How come all the decent men and women on CS can't make a love connection
HJFinAZ
HJFinAZHJFinAZSun CIty, Arizona USA870 Threads 1 Polls 17,068 Posts
Are there any "decent" ones here??confused
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Jan 11, 2009 9:15 PM CST How come all the decent men and women on CS can't make a love connection
HJFinAZ
HJFinAZHJFinAZSun CIty, Arizona USA870 Threads 1 Polls 17,068 Posts
Sommerauer71:

We ahve to explore ourselves, and find out who we are, before any other person can expect or be expected to be a part of our lives.


When I was a little boy, mommy caught me exploring myself and.............sigh
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Jan 11, 2009 9:16 PM CST How come all the decent men and women on CS can't make a love connection
HJFinAZ
HJFinAZHJFinAZSun CIty, Arizona USA870 Threads 1 Polls 17,068 Posts
SO I went down the street and explored the little girl there..devil
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Jan 11, 2009 9:16 PM CST How come all the decent men and women on CS can't make a love connection
Sommerauer71
Sommerauer71Sommerauer71Salzburg, Austria133 Threads 4 Polls 12,414 Posts
HJFinAZ: When I was a little boy, mommy caught me exploring myself and.............



Naughty...
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Jan 11, 2009 9:17 PM CST How come all the decent men and women on CS can't make a love connection
Sommerauer71
Sommerauer71Sommerauer71Salzburg, Austria133 Threads 4 Polls 12,414 Posts
HJFinAZ: SO I went down the street and explored the little girl there..


And now it is time for me to take you back to the asylum.
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Jan 11, 2009 9:19 PM CST How come all the decent men and women on CS can't make a love connection
lusciousmile
lusciousmilelusciousmileThere, Aland Islands Finland25 Threads 2 Polls 11,989 Posts
venere08: Examining oneself in the dark usually reveals very little due to such poor lighting.

Sso you have done well in refraining.


That isn't the only reason. professor giggle
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Jan 11, 2009 9:20 PM CST How come all the decent men and women on CS can't make a love connection
emesylva
emesylvaemesylvaslc, Utah USA20 Posts
After going thru most of the posts here, it seems to me that we are using the term "decent" loosely.

If somebody lies and pretends what he/she is not on the net, then it is no longer decency, is it?
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Jan 11, 2009 9:21 PM CST How come all the decent men and women on CS can't make a love connection
pietermat
pietermatpietermatAmsterdam, North Holland Netherlands122 Posts
lusciousmile: Please elaborate, sir!


OK since you ask so politely young lady.

What I don't understand is the sense of the initial question Decent or indecent. Expressed in a context they are like this or like that and they get a date and the others dont - I brought up my daughter, your age, in a decent unselfish way by staying with her mother some 15 yrs too long in an unhappy relationship not to perturbate her education etc.
She became a well known classical musician so I think it was worth it.

Now I only have myself to feed snd on this site now hardly a week obtained many reaction from stunning woman and several rendez vous are already planned.

It's fast sure, but why not, I don't get into complicated long email stories, just pick up the phone and jump on a plane - got nothing to loose - if she's lying or does'nt looks like her picture well the flowers she gets, the champain I drink it myself and the perfume from Paris stays in my pocket for the next one.

Now is this indecent, having an attitude 'be nice to me and I'l be nice to you' ? Will be the first one who goes of this site when the right person appears. But in the mean time lots of fun.

Is this indecent? If so happy to be.
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Jan 11, 2009 9:23 PM CST How come all the decent men and women on CS can't make a love connection
HJFinAZ
HJFinAZHJFinAZSun CIty, Arizona USA870 Threads 1 Polls 17,068 Posts
Sommerauer71: And now it is time for me to take you back to the asylum.


I need to be back in the home by 11:00PM....Only 2 1/2 more hours..sigh
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Jan 11, 2009 9:26 PM CST How come all the decent men and women on CS can't make a love connection
Sommerauer71
Sommerauer71Sommerauer71Salzburg, Austria133 Threads 4 Polls 12,414 Posts
pietermat: OK since you ask so politely young lady.

What I don't understand is the sense of the initial question Decent or indecent. Expressed in a context they are like this or like that and they get a date and the others dont - I brought up my daughter, your age, in a decent unselfish way by staying with her mother some 15 yrs too long in an unhappy relationship not to perturbate her education etc.
She became a well known classical musician so I think it was worth it.

Now I only have myself to feed snd on this site now hardly a week obtained many reaction from stunning woman and several rendez vous are already planned.

It's fast sure, but why not, I don't get into complicated long email stories, just pick up the phone and jump on a plane - got nothing to loose - if she's lying or does'nt looks like her picture well the flowers she gets, the champain I drink it myself and the perfume from Paris stays in my pocket for the next one.

Now is this indecent, having an attitude 'be nice to me and I'l be nice to you' ? Will be the first one who goes of this site when the right person appears. But in the mean time lots of fun.

Is this indecent? If so happy to be.


Oh I like this post, very much.

I do really like it...

I am one that pushes, to meet, I am not into endless emails, calls, I want to feel, touch, smell a person, I have connected with, I know who I have connected with...

And if I travel, then I will take a damn good book, make sure there is a nice hotel close by and have a damn fine time if my fingers no like and he smells ghastly.
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Jan 11, 2009 9:27 PM CST How come all the decent men and women on CS can't make a love connection
USJoeDoe
USJoeDoeUSJoeDoebronx, New York USA2 Posts
Guys can someone explain the ladies that their prince charming is not wearing a shiny armor or riding a white horse...maybe some of your standards are way too high
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Jan 11, 2009 9:29 PM CST How come all the decent men and women on CS can't make a love connection
USJoeDoe
USJoeDoeUSJoeDoebronx, New York USA2 Posts
Ohhh and you want us to be indecent.....when the lights are off. Otherwise is just boring. Agree?
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Jan 11, 2009 9:29 PM CST How come all the decent men and women on CS can't make a love connection
Sommerauer71
Sommerauer71Sommerauer71Salzburg, Austria133 Threads 4 Polls 12,414 Posts
USJoeDoe: Guys can someone explain the ladies that their prince charming is not wearing a shiny armor or riding a white horse...maybe some of your standards are way too high



What?????

Yes they are...

Especially the horse bit, he collected me, heaving bosom and all and swept me off to the forest...
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Jan 11, 2009 9:31 PM CST How come all the decent men and women on CS can't make a love connection
tipaly81
tipaly81tipaly81Moscow, Idaho USA56 Threads 15 Polls 950 Posts
I am not on here long enough, and I don't think there are many men in the area that are that interested. Not really.wave
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Jan 11, 2009 9:39 PM CST How come all the decent men and women on CS can't make a love connection
Hugz_n_Kissez
Hugz_n_KissezHugz_n_KissezSomeplace, Ontario Canada59 Threads 2 Polls 25,438 Posts
emesylva: After going thru most of the posts here, it seems to me that we are using the term "decent" loosely.

If somebody lies and pretends what he/she is not on the net, then it is no longer decency, is it?



No I don't think it is....thumbs up
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