ok, so i'm young, and on top of that i have this curse or blessing which is being a hopeless romantic... call me crazy but even after having my heart broken and shedding many tears, i'm still willing to give it all up in persuit of REAL LOVE.. of those butterflies, or that person who makes you want to REALLY LIVE life.
..i've done some pretty crazy things to get whatever it was that love wanted from me.. for example.. i once had this major crush on a really nice guy who i refused to date bc he was so nice, i saw him a couple of years later and i refused to go on a date with him. as soon as i had refused, my heart broke and i knew i had made a huge mistake~ so i called a friend and sat on his front lawn and waited with binaculars in hand until he came home... hmm, didn't turn out to well as it was a friday night and maybe he went home to someone else, but he never showed up at his house (or maybe i freaked him out).. anyhow I GAVE LOVE A CHANCE!...
i get it, my no tactics freaks men away, but "HEY?!".. have you ever considered the saying, "your OTHER HALF".. well this is the way i look at it. when i'm missing something like my LICENCE or something i go crazy looking for it, i put so much passion into finding it, i get so anxious and exhausted ~ it's truly insane. NOW, my other half, the person who will complete me, it only makes sense to me to put as much passion into finding them as i do into finding some stupid piece of plastic.
Stop looking and you will find him. I have a lot to handle by myself and in more than one occasion I misplaced things, I get crazy looking for it and then because of past experience I say to myself "ok, stop, you will find it when you are not looking" (if I keep looking all I find is a headache) and then it does happen, I always find it when I am not looking.
You are young, take it easy enjoy every day of your life, be yourself and when the time comes, sooner or later, you will find each other.
isn't that so true, when you stop looking things simply appear from right under your nose! it's a magical placement i think!
thanks for the encouragement! :) i do believe in God and praying for a partner has been a priority as i believe that it is something that he best knows.
i,m surprised that someone in their early 20 s or 30 s would even need a dating site. when i was a little younger i could find a date in a few hours at a bar or club. you have better chances finding someone your attracted to in person then some of these wild out of control dating sites. if you don't go to bars try bingo
BINGO!! 'm afraid that in london ontario it's the #1 hangout for people over 65.. wouldn't quit fit in
i don't have a hard time meeting people who want to get physical with me, the thing is that ever since i've gone celibate, it's a whole new playground where i'm no longer the popular kid.. HA HA HA!
plus i'm really looking for someone really special, so why not search the world?
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..i've done some pretty crazy things to get whatever it was that love wanted from me.. for example.. i once had this major crush on a really nice guy who i refused to date bc he was so nice, i saw him a couple of years later and i refused to go on a date with him. as soon as i had refused, my heart broke and i knew i had made a huge mistake~ so i called a friend and sat on his front lawn and waited with binaculars in hand until he came home... hmm, didn't turn out to well as it was a friday night and maybe he went home to someone else, but he never showed up at his house (or maybe i freaked him out).. anyhow I GAVE LOVE A CHANCE!...
i get it, my no tactics freaks men away, but "HEY?!".. have you ever considered the saying, "your OTHER HALF".. well this is the way i look at it. when i'm missing something like my LICENCE or something i go crazy looking for it, i put so much passion into finding it, i get so anxious and exhausted ~ it's truly insane. NOW, my other half, the person who will complete me, it only makes sense to me to put as much passion into finding them as i do into finding some stupid piece of plastic.
CHEERS!
Ms. Voltri