WHEN YOU FANTASISE ABOUT THE FUTURE , DO YOU USED TERMS OF "ME" OR "US"?? (39)
rare_dawnVictoria, British Columbia Canada23 Threads 287 PostsWHEN YOU FANTASISE ABOUT THE FUTURE , DO YOU THINK IN TERMS OF "ME" OR "US" ??
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rare_dawn: WHEN YOU FANTASISE ABOUT THE FUTURE , DO YOU THINK IN TERMS OF "ME" OR "US" ??
Me!, because l don't have anyone.....................Unless you mean the three of us, me, myself and l?
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yubba: Me!, because l don't have anyone.....................Unless you mean the three of us, me, myself and l?
Nice answer yubba
I mean if you are in a relationship!
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I think about the present and try to stay in the here and now. I can't change the past and I can't control the future. Best I could do is be here, be myself, and try to integrate everything into a healthy, positive, true stance in this moment.
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Me. It's all about me. 
In fantasizing though I have a mystery person there so generally it's an "us" fantasy.
In fantasizing though I have a mystery person there so generally it's an "us" fantasy.
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Steveno: I think about the present and try to stay in the here and now. I can't change the past and I can't control the future. Best I could do is be here, be myself, and try to integrate everything into a healthy, positive, true stance in this moment.
I do that for the most part, too, Steveno...but I can't help fantasizing some about the future as well.
In a relationship, my fantasies then toward "we" and "us", not "me" and "I" since I'm then part of a couple...but I still have my own dreams as well, so there's still a little bit of "me" and "I".
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rare_dawn: Nice answer yubba
I mean if you are in a relationship!
I mean if you are in a relationship!
Of course if you were here with me then everything would be 'us', it would be disrepectful to be anything else.
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I look at today not tomorrow.
To fantasise about the future could bring disappointment.
To fantasise about the future could bring disappointment.
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Sometimes I think about the future but then I reset & get real.
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I don't fantasise about the future..... so I don't use either...JMO
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yubba: Of course if you were here with me then everything would be 'us', it would be disrepectful to be anything else.
Hello
yubba,Am here..
Tell me
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druidess6308: I do that for the most part, too, Steveno...but I can't help fantasizing some about the future as well.
In a relationship, my fantasies then toward "we" and "us", not "me" and "I" since I'm then part of a couple...but I still have my own dreams as well, so there's still a little bit of "me" and "I".
In a relationship, my fantasies then toward "we" and "us", not "me" and "I" since I'm then part of a couple...but I still have my own dreams as well, so there's still a little bit of "me" and "I".
Hello druidess, How are you? I agree with you. Very well said…
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Tater: I don't fantasise about the future..... so I don't use either...JMO
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druidess6308: I do that for the most part, too, Steveno...but I can't help fantasizing some about the future as well.
In a relationship, my fantasies then toward "we" and "us", not "me" and "I" since I'm then part of a couple...but I still have my own dreams as well, so there's still a little bit of "me" and "I".
In a relationship, my fantasies then toward "we" and "us", not "me" and "I" since I'm then part of a couple...but I still have my own dreams as well, so there's still a little bit of "me" and "I".
*tend
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Steveno: Hello druidess, How are you? I agree with you. Very well said…
Thank you, Steveno...but mayhaps you wouldn't have had the typo, at least.
I'm well, thank you...and grounded again after being thrown into turmoil the other night by a certain man. I've got my feet under me again.
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druidess6308: I do that for the most part, too, Steveno...but I can't help fantasizing some about the future as well.
In a relationship, my fantasies then toward "we" and "us", not "me" and "I" since I'm then part of a couple...but I still have my own dreams as well, so there's still a little bit of "me" and "I".
In a relationship, my fantasies then toward "we" and "us", not "me" and "I" since I'm then part of a couple...but I still have my own dreams as well, so there's still a little bit of "me" and "I".
Thumbsup.. Perfect druidess
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rare_dawn: WHEN YOU FANTASISE ABOUT THE FUTURE , DO YOU THINK IN TERMS OF "ME" OR "US" ??
There is no future, there is only the present, the today. The yesterday is a page in the history book.
There is no we, there is only an "I"..
2, coming together does not make a 1.
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druidess6308: I do that for the most part, too, Steveno...but I can't help fantasizing some about the future as well.
In a relationship, my fantasies then toward "we" and "us", not "me" and "I" since I'm then part of a couple...but I still have my own dreams as well, so there's still a little bit of "me" and "I".
In a relationship, my fantasies then toward "we" and "us", not "me" and "I" since I'm then part of a couple...but I still have my own dreams as well, so there's still a little bit of "me" and "I".
Being a "part of", does not make a whole..
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I have no expectations or fantasies about the future. Today is all I have, and all I plan for or even hope for
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I rarely call my self anything when I fantasize ... it's just random images and feeling ... I know, I'm strange.
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