Why can't men look further then just the appearances,there is so much more? (43)
brisesmatinales4Aylmer, Quebec Canada2 Threads 7 Posts
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You are absolutely right and that is a very good question. But women are guilty of that also. We are humans, that is our nature.
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why can't a woman look past the outside of a manthere are people who can look past the outside,you just have to find them
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Look up Darwin. Paws
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Attraction isn't an option. You're either attracted or you're not. Looks are the easiest attractor but there are many others. Most people (men and women) are attracted to wit, confidence, build and success. So if you weren't born handsome or beautiful, workout, build your confidence and work on your sense of humor. Learn to have fun in any situation, be the center of attention and you'll draw people to you.
Oh yeah, don't fear rejection. Once you get over your fear of rejection, the world is your oyster. You want to meet a man? Walk into a bar (or anywhere there's a lot of people)and ask a guy you find attractive, "where'd you get that shirt?" ( I use blouse) Or ask any question of him that you'd like an answer to. What's the worst that can happen? The guy says go away you're ugly? Yeah, that's the absolute worst that can happen. You're still alive (the guy is an a%@hole)you aren't bleeding or dying. Go to the next guy you find attractive. "Where'd ya get that shirt?" You'll be surprized. You will start more conversations and meet more new friends than you can possibly imagine! Don't be afraid of the guy who tells you to go to hell.
Yes. You will get slammed n ocasssion. Screw it. Try what I'm telling you. You will start a conversation at least half the time. Talk to 10 people find 5 new friends. Life is good. Enjoy.
Oh yeah, don't fear rejection. Once you get over your fear of rejection, the world is your oyster. You want to meet a man? Walk into a bar (or anywhere there's a lot of people)and ask a guy you find attractive, "where'd you get that shirt?" ( I use blouse) Or ask any question of him that you'd like an answer to. What's the worst that can happen? The guy says go away you're ugly? Yeah, that's the absolute worst that can happen. You're still alive (the guy is an a%@hole)you aren't bleeding or dying. Go to the next guy you find attractive. "Where'd ya get that shirt?" You'll be surprized. You will start more conversations and meet more new friends than you can possibly imagine! Don't be afraid of the guy who tells you to go to hell.
Yes. You will get slammed n ocasssion. Screw it. Try what I'm telling you. You will start a conversation at least half the time. Talk to 10 people find 5 new friends. Life is good. Enjoy.
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I think everyone can get passed looks. Unfortunately appearance is what attracts people to begin with. Once you get to know somebody, then their personality will eclipse thier looks.
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Ditto. Paws
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i always wonder if we was blind if we will worry about what the outside of the person looks likewill we care more about how they treat us not matter what they look like
1 ask a blind man 1 time if he worry about what the outside of the person look like.he said hell no all i care about is how they treat me,do they treat me with respect
can i trust them when allowing them around me,do they keep the words they say to me
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I had a blind friend (deceased) who always had to feel everyone's face to "see" what they looked like. He was as shallow as the rest of us.
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We are by nature physical beings, therefore the need to be attracted to and attracted by things which we find visually stimulating.
Going beyond that physical step is important. Looking at anothers whole being, emotional, spiritual, mental and more, is what is attractive to me.
Going beyond that physical step is important. Looking at anothers whole being, emotional, spiritual, mental and more, is what is attractive to me.
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Men act by instinct cannot look forward
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If this is true why is it that the unattractive folk seem to always be surrounded by many who love them?
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Agree with PAws on this one.. darwin was right. The most desirabe traits, and the our best sense is sight, are always courted more. What does one lizard in a group, or one spider always get the " Guys" Heridity (SP)buy the book, the Origon of Species.
Be well All, JR
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>>The most desirabe traits,
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>> are always courted more.
Unless you married a black widow
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>> are always courted more.
Unless you married a black widow
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Let's put it bluntly here.
If you are physically attracted to a person, you will stick around to see if you can stand being around that person for years.
If you are physically attracted to a person, you will stick around to see if you can stand being around that person for years.
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personnally, if im interested in someone there has to be something physical attractive. it could be the smallest thing like ears, or a mole. something! anything, if im attracted to something as small as that then you have my attention.Im able to go on with further dates... if not im not going on a second.its like certain things turn you on and certain things turn me off.............. If im justlooking for a friend its different......you probably think im nuts
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Kisses, No one should think you are crazy.. Everyone is kinda right. Attraction is different for everyone. I like a certain type of physical looks for a man too---just doen't mean there will be chemistry. He could be a hunk of man and be dumb as a box of rocks--it just wouldn't do it for me..He needs some of everything!!! There has got to be some kind of connection.
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Its not the cover of the book that makes you buy the book,but something has to catch your attention.
In the end its the pages of the book that matter most.
Just my opion ofcourse.
In the end its the pages of the book that matter most.
Just my opion ofcourse.
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Read the book, then take a look at the cover. But the book has got to keep you interested or it wiil take too long to read it, by then the cover has been lost
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Just not true---i mean, there's legs, lips, eyes, hips, hair, skin, feet and sin....visual creatures tho we be, what we really want is thee...eventually your heart we'll feel, but at the start, we dig high heels...ok, maybe it is true, but in the end, we'll soon love you
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