Jealousy (25)
a small amount is natural
after all you dont want youre other half to just take you for granted
to much = insecurity
& i not much into drama if i want drama i watch neighbours on the telly
yes i watch neighbours!!!!!!!!!
after all you dont want youre other half to just take you for granted
to much = insecurity
& i not much into drama if i want drama i watch neighbours on the telly
yes i watch neighbours!!!!!!!!!
WadeWilson: a small amount is natural
after all you dont want youre other half to just take you for granted
to much = insecurity
& i not much into drama if i want drama i watch neighbours on the telly
yes i watch neighbours!!!!!!!!!
after all you dont want youre other half to just take you for granted
to much = insecurity
& i not much into drama if i want drama i watch neighbours on the telly
yes i watch neighbours!!!!!!!!!
I dont watch any of the soaps
I found myself to be feeling jealous of my friend who had the baby 2 months ago. But that was mainly down to my broodiness. Found out today she is getting married in 8 weeks time. I tell you, Im torn between being deliriously happy for her and being crushed by jealousy. And I hate how I feel about one of the people who had been one of my closest friends for 14 yrs.
Mariannette: Such a bad character trait to have.
Is it as bad if its an isolated occurrence or would you feel its an inherent trait in the person?
Is it as bad if its an isolated occurrence or would you feel its an inherent trait in the person?
If it makes them posessive and controlling, it's a terrible trait to have, especially if they don't know they have a problem. But we can all suffer the odd pang I think. We feel it and then forget it. We don't let it dictate to us.
jealousy destroyed troy
WadeWilson: jealousy destroyed troy
What? Troy McClure in the Simpsons. I missed that episode.
call it cowinkydink
but phil hartman who played troy mcculre was too destroyed by jealousy
i believe it was a murder sucide
but phil hartman who played troy mcculre was too destroyed by jealousy
i believe it was a murder sucide
I think in the way you're talking about the jealousy can serve a purpose - it's a reminder that your life isn't quite living up to the "life plan" you've mapped out at some time. So it can help motivate you seek out the things that are missing or reassess what that life plan is - we sometimes find ourselves living to a set of standards that are not realisitic or simply outdated.
Inherent jealousy usually shows in insecurity and general begrudgery towards most people and I certainly don't think you're like that (from your posts here).
Jealousy in little pangs is quite natural.
Inherent jealousy usually shows in insecurity and general begrudgery towards most people and I certainly don't think you're like that (from your posts here).
Jealousy in little pangs is quite natural.
anyone fancy a trip to Norway?
I think we all suffer from a bit of Jealousy once in a while, "oh if only that was me." But in most cases it passes quickly enough.
Where it becomes a problem is when you start to dislike a person just because their life looks to be so perfect and yours isn't. Wishing that some disaster would befall the object of your jealously.
Just remember, you have no idea if their life is perfect or not, you have no idea what goes on behind closed doors or what goes on in their heads. For all you know, they could be jealous of the life you have.
Where it becomes a problem is when you start to dislike a person just because their life looks to be so perfect and yours isn't. Wishing that some disaster would befall the object of your jealously.
Just remember, you have no idea if their life is perfect or not, you have no idea what goes on behind closed doors or what goes on in their heads. For all you know, they could be jealous of the life you have.
sally101: I think in the way you're talking about the jealousy can serve a purpose - it's a reminder that your life isn't quite living up to the "life plan" you've mapped out at some time. So it can help motivate you seek out the things that are missing or reassess what that life plan is - we sometimes find ourselves living to a set of standards that are not realisitic or simply outdated.
Inherent jealousy usually shows in insecurity and general begrudgery towards most people and I certainly don't think you're like that (from your posts here).
Jealousy in little pangs is quite natural.
Inherent jealousy usually shows in insecurity and general begrudgery towards most people and I certainly don't think you're like that (from your posts here).
Jealousy in little pangs is quite natural.
Jealousy in a relationship WILL destroy it, no question about that.
Jealousy, or if it is only an occasional feeling, "envy" of a friend/acquaintance would definitely spur me on to make changes in order to achieve my goals.
But in answer to the original question, I believe jealousy is inherent in a persons character.....and it's not a nice trait
MarsMan: I think we all suffer from a bit of Jealousy once in a while, "oh if only that was me." But in most cases it passes quickly enough.
Where it becomes a problem is when you start to dislike a person just because their life looks to be so perfect and yours isn't. Wishing that some disaster would befall the object of your jealously.
Just remember, you have no idea if their life is perfect or not, you have no idea what goes on behind closed doors or what goes on in their heads. For all you know, they could be jealous of the life you have.
Where it becomes a problem is when you start to dislike a person just because their life looks to be so perfect and yours isn't. Wishing that some disaster would befall the object of your jealously.
Just remember, you have no idea if their life is perfect or not, you have no idea what goes on behind closed doors or what goes on in their heads. For all you know, they could be jealous of the life you have.
I definitely dont wish even the smallest iota of unhappiness on this girl. She deserves every ounce of happiness in life. She is a true gem. I am surprised it took this long for someone to snap her up.
And I suppose a bit of it too is that she is getting married so soon and I probably wont be able to make it.
Mariannette: I definitely dont wish even the smallest iota of unhappiness on this girl. She deserves every ounce of happiness in life. She is a true gem. I am surprised it took this long for someone to snap her up.
And I suppose a bit of it too is that she is getting married so soon and I probably wont be able to make it.
And I suppose a bit of it too is that she is getting married so soon and I probably wont be able to make it.
Well in that case, it looks like your over your little bought of Jealousy already.
MarsMan: Well in that case, it looks like your over your little bought of Jealousy already.
trying to figure out how i can afford it. Damn me paying my bills in last week or two. Flights only €200 to Bergen. damn damn damn.
Mariannette: anyone fancy a trip to Norway?
now im jealous
Mariannette: Such a bad character trait to have.
Is it as bad if its an isolated occurrence or would you feel its an inherent trait in the person?
Is it as bad if its an isolated occurrence or would you feel its an inherent trait in the person?
It's lousy Marianetter. In fact, you can't spell jelousy without lousy.
facetowardsfront: It's lousy Marianetter. In fact, you can't spell jelousy without lousy.
which is how I felt.....lousy.....when my delight for my friend was tinged with it.
catch21: Why Norway?? is that a stupid qustion or am i showing my age....
no not at all....ive mentioned my friend before in a few threads.
She is norwegian and lives there.
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Is it as bad if its an isolated occurrence or would you feel its an inherent trait in the person?