peachmelba: My daughter is having a birthday party for family and friends next week.Yes my ex hubby and wife be there,,,I am happy for them but all the same it will feel weird for me.
All the pics in my album are of me and him together at parties and family gatherings since I was 18 to 36"
Hiya peach, your family will be all there as well? If so, just hang out with them and avoid him.
In response to: My daughter is having a birthday party for family and friends next week.Yes my ex hubby and wife be there,,,I am happy for them but all the same it will feel weird for me.
All the pics in my album are of me and him together at parties and family gatherings since I was 18 to 36"
Wouldnt worry about your ex and his missus peachy, ur still a fine looking bit of stuff get yourself a toyboy for the night and fingers up to them ,
mjpd67: Wouldnt worry about your ex and his missus peachy, ur still a fine looking bit of stuff get yourself a toyboy for the night and fingers up to them ,
peachmelba: I have a week to work on it mj ,Thanks.
Honestly peach dont worry about it your as good if not better than them anyday ,havent spoken to my ex in nearly 5 years but understand your situation id feel uncomfortable even meeting her today ,but hopefully it will be ok on the night for you
mjpd67: Honestly peach dont worry about it your as good if not better than them anyday ,havent spoken to my ex in nearly 5 years but understand your situation id feel uncomfortable even meeting her today ,but hopefully it will be ok on the night for you
Yes its about my daughters birthday ....ill stick it out .
Wouldn't mind but I've to go down about 8 o 'clock ,
Ill leave. Early tho, sneak away while the rest all merry, lol.
johnjjm: wel the way I sees it is you were with your chap a long time and one does not stay that length if there was nothing just enjoy and keep yourself ubeat its far better than fighting as so many people do sure there will always be a bit of you that stlikes its mal enjoythe party maybe take a friend and let your hubby see what he missed ha ha
peachmelba: My daughter is having a birthday party for family and friends next week.Yes my ex hubby and wife be there,,,I am happy for them but all the same it will feel weird for me.
All the pics in my album are of me and him together at parties and family gatherings since I was 18 to 36"
Always superior peach. you were there first, his good points; you taught him., his lesser traits; the reason you left him.
My ex is involved with a lovely woman, we don't socialise often but when we do it's all hugs and hellos. She's lovely, suits him fine, and I don't want him, so what's the point of tension?
He, however, gets mighty uncomfortable seeing the two of us get on haha.
"I haf information on zis man.... mwaahahahahaa"
No, in fairness, have a wonderful time, your the MOM, and you can't wipe out 18 years' of history - your daughter is the evidence of that, so celebrate, smile, be gracious, and rise above any glares that might come your way.
In response to: My daughter is having a birthday party for family and friends next week.Yes my ex hubby and wife be there,,,I am happy for them but all the same it will feel weird for me.
All the pics in my album are of me and him together at parties and family gatherings since I was 18 to 36"
Ahh neno and freeman I feel much better now,,yes it's just it will feel abit strange that's all but had to happen sometime ,I've met her before just briefly and she a nice person ,,it's nothing to do with that and I'm probalaly building it up in my head that it will feel strange,
Be okay after I just say helo and get on with the party.
Thanks @ neno and freeman yea feel better about it now.
henonpause: Look at it this way - she has your leftovers
My ex is involved with a lovely woman, we don't socialise often but when we do it's all hugs and hellos. She's lovely, suits him fine, and I don't want him, so what's the point of tension?
He, however, gets mighty uncomfortable seeing the two of us get on haha.
"I haf information on zis man.... mwaahahahahaa"
No, in fairness, have a wonderful time, your the MOM, and you can't wipe out 18 years' of history - your daughter is the evidence of that, so celebrate, smile, be gracious, and rise above any glares that might come your way.
Shine on, little star
He gets "..mighty uncomfortable".. I wonder why? ??
peachmelba: Ahh neno and freeman I feel much better now,,yes it's just it will feel abit strange that's all but had to happen sometime ,I've met her before just briefly and she a nice person ,,it's nothing to do with that and I'm probalaly building it up in my head that it will feel strange,
Be okay after I just say helo and get on with the party.Thanks @ neno and freeman yea feel better about it now.
In response to: My daughter is having a birthday party for family and friends next week.Yes my ex hubby and wife be there,,,I am happy for them but all the same it will feel weird for me.
All the pics in my album are of me and him together at parties and family gatherings since I was 18 to 36"
freeman65: He gets "..mighty uncomfortable".. I wonder why? ??...but on everything else, well put Henon.
I guess it's just that he finds it odd to see his new woman and his old woman having a chat, lol. My ex is a sound person, one of the best, he has nothing to hide, so I have nothing to expose him with, lol.
One night we all went for a meal, I think it was for my daughter's birthday - he was at the head of the table, me on left and her on right, lol. I found myself stealing one of his chips before realising I can't do that anymore lol.
Think of it this way - for her it will probably be even more uncomfortable. This is yours and his daughter's party. There will be lots of family, people who once associated you and him together.
Put yourself in her shoes for a moment. She might be really frightened of the night coming. Make her feel welcome, for I am certain if you were her, you'd be glad if the ex showed you an offer of friendship, right? Unless she is the nasty type, those exist too but if she is nice, then she is not your enemy and has done nothing wrong by falling in love with a free man.
You gonna be fine and all the best to your daughter
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Yes my ex hubby and wife be there,,,I am happy for them but all the same it will feel weird for me.
All the pics in my album are of me and him together at parties and family gatherings since I was 18 to 36"