Women seems not to know what they want, they say to you i wanna be carefull, they say i cant be commited or not ready to be committed, but their profile says looking for a long term relationship.... hmmmmmmm...... i cant understand exaCTLY WHAT TO DO TO SHOW THAT YOU ARE REAL GENTLEMAN THATS LOOKING FOR REAL LOVE
stevez17: Women seems not to know what they want, they say to you i wanna be carefull, they say i cant be commited or not ready to be committed, but their profile says looking for a long term relationship.... hmmmmmmm...... i cant understand exaCTLY WHAT TO DO TO SHOW THAT YOU ARE REAL GENTLEMAN THATS LOOKING FOR REAL LOVE
Do you expect a woman to be committed on first meeting if she feels anything for you?
stevez17: Women seems not to know what they want, they say to you i wanna be carefull, they say i cant be commited or not ready to be committed, but their profile says looking for a long term relationship.... hmmmmmmm...... i cant understand exaCTLY WHAT TO DO TO SHOW THAT YOU ARE REAL GENTLEMAN THATS LOOKING FOR REAL LOVE
I can provide my own security, thank you very much!!
I am looking for love but what I'm not sure about is the details of "how to live" the love experience. IE joined at the hip or not!! In the past the pattern as always been meet guy, fall in love, try and spend as much time together as possible (day and night), move in together.
Not sure about the moving in together anymore... not sure about the spending so much time together neither person can get on with their own stuff ...
there will be lots of issues at the start of any relationship that need to be dealt with before commiting yourselves to each other..finding out if your compatible is a must I prefer to get to know someone as friends first
I am so glad to hear this from a woman, i am sure that women can provide their own, i have no doubt about that.....but although women can provide their own they still look whats in for them if they get involved with anyone. living the life where love is involved unfortunately us humans has made it as bad as it is because we tend to want more and more and enough is never enough. we made life more complicated for ourselves and our partners.... why is it so hard to live the beauty of simple loving life wit a partner... just wake up go to work go home to your loved ones, on your free time do things together and enjoy life with one another.... is that so hard for such a life to be lived!!!!!!!... dont you think if we really want that life we can easily creat it in our own homes
EagleWoman: I can provide my own security, thank you very much!!
I am looking for love but what I'm not sure about is the details of "how to live" the love experience. IE joined at the hip or not!! In the past the pattern as always been meet guy, fall in love, try and spend as much time together as possible (day and night), move in together.
Not sure about the moving in together anymore... not sure about the spending so much time together neither person can get on with their own stuff ...
Gee, are space and priority arbitration dead facilitators for couples these days too?
JeeepersCowpet Bay, Saint Thomas Virgin Islands (USA)6,482 posts
boomboom_uk: there will be lots of issues at the start of any relationship that need to be dealt with before commiting yourselves to each other..finding out if your compatible is a must I prefer to get to know someone as friends first
stevez17: I am so glad to hear this from a woman, i am sure that women can provide their own, i have no doubt about that.....but although women can provide their own they still look whats in for them if they get involved with anyone. living the life where love is involved unfortunately us humans has made it as bad as it is because we tend to want more and more and enough is never enough. we made life more complicated for ourselves and our partners.... why is it so hard to live the beauty of simple loving life wit a partner... just wake up go to work go home to your loved ones, on your free time do things together and enjoy life with one another.... is that so hard for such a life to be lived!!!!!!!... dont you think if we really want that life we can easily creat it in our own homes
Good concept but maybe that is too difficult and or conventional for some folks today?
JeeepersCowpet Bay, Saint Thomas Virgin Islands (USA)6,482 posts
stevez17: Women seems not to know what they want, they say to you i wanna be carefull, they say i cant be commited or not ready to be committed, but their profile says looking for a long term relationship.... hmmmmmmm...... i cant understand exaCTLY WHAT TO DO TO SHOW THAT YOU ARE REAL GENTLEMAN THATS LOOKING FOR REAL LOVE
stevez17: I am so glad to hear this from a woman, i am sure that women can provide their own, i have no doubt about that.....but although women can provide their own they still look whats in for them if they get involved with anyone. living the life where love is involved unfortunately us humans has made it as bad as it is because we tend to want more and more and enough is never enough. we made life more complicated for ourselves and our partners.... why is it so hard to live the beauty of simple loving life wit a partner... just wake up go to work go home to your loved ones, on your free time do things together and enjoy life with one another.... is that so hard for such a life to be lived!!!!!!!... dont you think if we really want that life we can easily creat it in our own homes
i guess u thinking so hard steve. not all women act just like what u have said.
stevez17: I am so glad to hear this from a woman, i am sure that women can provide their own, i have no doubt about that.....but although women can provide their own they still look whats in for them if they get involved with anyone. living the life where love is involved unfortunately us humans has made it as bad as it is because we tend to want more and more and enough is never enough. we made life more complicated for ourselves and our partners.... why is it so hard to live the beauty of simple loving life wit a partner... just wake up go to work go home to your loved ones, on your free time do things together and enjoy life with one another.... is that so hard for such a life to be lived!!!!!!!... dont you think if we really want that life we can easily creat it in our own homes
Hi Steve - What you are describing is what couples did in the 1950's. Relationships back then were united, people did things together. Five generations later, people want to do their own thing and make an appointment to do something together. Women used to be barefoot and pregnant and that kept them at home doing the wifey things that were expected of her. Now when women are pregnant, they are still capable of climbing the corporate ladder. It used to be men were the ones who were afraid of commitment. Now women feel the same way even in their child rearing years. It's not impossible to find what you are looking for because just like not all men are the same, the same thing goes for women, we are not all the same. I wish you the best in your search...
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