salanky: i found it easy as i know i dont want to have kids
ok well that's fine (each personal decision), but i'm sure there's been people that said definitely no and that at a later date (for whatever reason) had a change of heart...
chancer_mcgancer: ok well that's fine (each personal decision), but i'm sure there's been people that said definitely no and that at a later date (for whatever reason) had a change of heart...
I know a few myself...and they're delighted they did...
chancer_mcgancer: ok well that's fine (each personal decision), but i'm sure there's been people that said definitely no and that at a later date (for whatever reason) had a change of heart...
yeah im sure there are and i know im saying i dont want any but if it was to happen by accident i wouldnt be getting rid of the baby just i cant see myself planning to have one
salanky: yeah im sure there are and i know im saying i dont want any but if it was to happen by accident i wouldnt be getting rid of the baby just i cant see myself planning to have one
skyblue43: Ah i see...didn't notice what they were to be honest...my answer was straightforward at this stage...
Haha fair enough
But for someone in my position there's no real middle ground option (at the moment i have not sure, but to alot of people that will suggest i don't want to, which is not the case...)
But for someone in my position there's no real middle ground option (at the moment i have not sure, but to alot of people that will suggest i don't want to, which is not the case...)
that's just another way of saying definitely to me
i think it's something that should be discussed in private between 2 people... and not for a while
it's not like it's a small decision to be makin like
thats true too but i know from experience that not wanting kids has put men off me though at the same time i dont think it would be fair of someone with my opinion on it to attempt a relationship with someone who was 100% sure they wanted kids
Anytime I asked my sister about her kids and would she change anything about when she had them etc. - She's always maintained that there is no good time to have them and no point in really planning for them either.
You can either have them and deal with them or plan NOT to have any to begin with.
I found it was a question I didn't want to answer on my profile and to make it worse most men who contact me have obviously not bothered to read it anyway as many of them say they want to have children
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