HEY GUYS . . WANT KIDS .. (79)
I would like to have at least one child of my own, if it is meant to be only time will tell.
If I were to meet someone who has kids, I am perfectly fine with that. I feel I am perfectly capable of being in a successful relationship with a woman who already has children. But whom ever I may meet that does, she must have her life in order and not just looking for someone to support her and her children financially. That is the only thing that I draw the line about being with someone with kids.
The title of "father" scares a lot of men that obviously aren't ready or willing to be. Any man can father a child, but it takes a real man to be a dad.
If I were to meet someone who has kids, I am perfectly fine with that. I feel I am perfectly capable of being in a successful relationship with a woman who already has children. But whom ever I may meet that does, she must have her life in order and not just looking for someone to support her and her children financially. That is the only thing that I draw the line about being with someone with kids.
The title of "father" scares a lot of men that obviously aren't ready or willing to be. Any man can father a child, but it takes a real man to be a dad.
jac379: Did I miss something?
Sorry, I was being threatened by the OP in private mail.
I'm back now.
Sorry, I was being threatened by the OP in private mail.
I'm back now.
I had asked if u were feeling a bit testy this evening, but with knowing about the mails......are u serious??
Yash124g: Hey, you have a dog!!
Hope you're well & rest of the family..
Hope you're well & rest of the family..
Yashy baby.
Yup, the big lurcher is Comfrey. He's the man of the house.
Sadly, the little one on my profile went to doggy heaven a year back and I haven't the heart to take her pic down yet. I like having her around still.
Sunnydaze14: Only a very brave man would threaten you , Jac!
and a brave woman says she was threatened . . when she is asked to play nice...
my permission to post the threat . . lol
simply stated the obvious... if your insulting i will ignore you . . block you nad then report you . . .i have my right to be treated with respect like anyone . .
jac379: Did I miss something?
Sorry, I was being threatened by the OP in private mail.
I'm back now.
Sorry, I was being threatened by the OP in private mail.
I'm back now.
Funny, he did the same to me......
I nearly had a panic attack.......
Or was that a fit of the giggles
halfavag: oops my bad. sowwy
ok well thanks for that
how do you feel about raising kids . . in your next romance??
felixis99: I had asked if u were feeling a bit testy this evening, but with knowing about the mails......are u serious??
I'm not testy, but yes, he's threatened to block/report me unless I behave like a good little girl.
mrLonelyboy: try to answer the question . . so far it seems men would raise the kids of another . .. but woman are not willing . . .unless the stats have changed
Surely people quote their preference in their profile and as any relationship grows I'm sure the parties concerned will cover the specifics.. though I would normally expect those with children to keep any future partner at a reasonable distance to begin with as its only fair on the children concerned..
buckeye1332: I would like to have at least one child of my own, if it is meant to be only time will tell.
If I were to meet someone who has kids, I am perfectly fine with that. I feel I am perfectly capable of being in a successful relationship with a woman who already has children. But whom ever I may meet that does, she must have her life in order and not just looking for someone to support her and her children financially. That is the only thing that I draw the line about being with someone with kids.
The title of "father" scares a lot of men that obviously aren't ready or willing to be. Any man can father a child, but it takes a real man to be a dad.
If I were to meet someone who has kids, I am perfectly fine with that. I feel I am perfectly capable of being in a successful relationship with a woman who already has children. But whom ever I may meet that does, she must have her life in order and not just looking for someone to support her and her children financially. That is the only thing that I draw the line about being with someone with kids.
The title of "father" scares a lot of men that obviously aren't ready or willing to be. Any man can father a child, but it takes a real man to be a dad.
youre right. the word "father" scares alot of guys. BUT thats only becuz they arent ready or wanting to be a dad. Loved what you had to say by the way
patmac: Funny, he did the same to me...... I nearly had a panic attack.......Or was that a fit of the giggles
Dammit, now all I can think about is your radiator and exhaust.
patmac: Funny, he did the same to me...... I nearly had a panic attack.......Or was that a fit of the giggles
yes patmac i asked you to play nice also
jac379: I'm not testy, but yes, he's threatened to block/report me unless I behave like a good little girl.
yes and why not . . your a self confessed internet axe killer
as ive told you twice already im not lookin for romance. im married 28 years , have 6 kids , 6 grandkids and 2 more on way.ive done my bit and i certainly wouldnt be having more at my age as i dont have the energy or patience i used to have
mrLonelyboy: DuDe !!! Are you prepared to raise someone elses kids . financially and emotionally??
or have some now with your new found lover?
just a thought . . .. ??
happy football
or have some now with your new found lover?
just a thought . . .. ??
happy football
I'm not too sure how this will sound, but I have no problem helping her with her kids. . . However, I do draw the line at doing it all. My last GF had me as a 24/7 babysitter/referee/driver/cook/basically everything while she goes out with her friends, go to casinos, mini vacations or whatever excuse she could come up with. Leaving me with 4 kids" ages 5 to 16 (2 boys and 2 girls) and not a single one respected me or the things that I had done for them.
I adore kids, really, but I don't like being taken advantage of.
halfavag: as ive told you twice already im not lookin for romance. im married 28 years , have 6 kids , 6 grandkids and 2 more on way.ive done my bit and i certainly wouldnt be having more at my age as i dont have the energy or patience i used to have
yes you have done your bit haven't you
mrLonelyboy: yes patmac i asked you to play nice also
Oh I do and I stay within the rules of the CS. which means I can post where and when I like...
I do not try to run threads
I do not send threats in E-mails (as you have just admitted you do)
I post my opinion and will do so whether you like it or not.
I unlike you do not try to control what is said...
Which means unlike you I stick to the rules....
Now why don't you try playing NICE
deblake60: I'm not too sure how this will sound, but I have no problem helping her with her kids. . . However, I do draw the line at doing it all. My last GF had me as a 24/7 babysitter/referee/driver/cook/basically everything while she goes out with her friends, go to casinos, mini vacations or whatever excuse she could come up with. Leaving me with 4 kids" ages 5 to 16 (2 boys and 2 girls) and not a single one respected me or the things that I had done for them.
I adore kids, really, but I don't like being taken advantage of.
I adore kids, really, but I don't like being taken advantage of.
thank you i can totally understand that . .
welcome to my poll..
patmac: Oh I do and I stay within the rules of the CS. which means I can post where and when I like...
I do not try to run threads
I do not send threats in E-mails (as you have just admitted you do)
I post my opinion and will do so whether you like it or not.
I unlike you do not try to control what is said...Which means unlike you I stick to the rules....
Now why don't you try playing NICE
I do not try to run threads
I do not send threats in E-mails (as you have just admitted you do)
I post my opinion and will do so whether you like it or not.
I unlike you do not try to control what is said...Which means unlike you I stick to the rules....
Now why don't you try playing NICE
ok sure i will . . . is it not allowed to mail each other private messages? . what rules did i break???
Never posted any insults, unless you call the truth an insult....Funny thing I was not the only one who remarked on the content of your E-mails.
Now I wonder was that a mistake ???
Now care to explain why you enjoy all the arguing?
Nice way to get to know folk....
Now I wonder was that a mistake ???
Now care to explain why you enjoy all the arguing?
Nice way to get to know folk....
patmac: Never posted any insults, unless you call the truth an insult....Funny thing I was not the only one who remarked on the content of your E-mails.
Now I wonder was that a mistake ???Now care to explain why you enjoy all the arguing?
Nice way to get to know folk....
Now I wonder was that a mistake ???Now care to explain why you enjoy all the arguing?
Nice way to get to know folk....
awe thanks pat . . .im not looking for a fight with anyone . . believe it or not im a counselor by training and i just like to see what epistomology people have for the things the value and believe . .
your profile indicates your christian . . . you say you speak the truth . . yes and the truth can kill . . .but truth and GRACE came in christ jesus
and i love to chat . . .
go beyond religion ,culture, tradition and normality . . to a place where we know on what we may stand . . . . .why we valus something or believe something
mrLonelyboy: awe thanks pat . . .im not looking for a fight with anyone . . believe it or not im a counselor by training and i just like to see what epistomology people have for the things the value and believe . .
your profile indicates your christian . . . you say you speak the truth . . yes and the truth can kill . . .but truth and GRACE came in christ jesus
and i love to chat . . .
go beyond religion ,culture, tradition and normality . . to a place where we know on what we may stand . . . . .why we valus something or believe something
your profile indicates your christian . . . you say you speak the truth . . yes and the truth can kill . . .but truth and GRACE came in christ jesus
and i love to chat . . .
go beyond religion ,culture, tradition and normality . . to a place where we know on what we may stand . . . . .why we valus something or believe something
Nice try at deflecting the point I made, care to reply to the folk who say you sent dodgy E-mails?
I might catch it tomorrow time to go zzzzzzzzzzz
Night folks
I think you all misunderstood his thread title.
Could it be that he's giving his kid away?
Could it be that he's giving his kid away?
patmac: Nice try at deflecting the point I made, care to reply to the folk who say you sent dodgy E-mails?
I might catch it tomorrow time to go zzzzzzzzzzz
Night folks
nite nite pat . sleep wellI might catch it tomorrow time to go zzzzzzzzzzz
Night folks
patmac: Nice try at deflecting the point I made, care to reply to the folk who say you sent dodgy E-mails?
I might catch it tomorrow time to go zzzzzzzzzzz
Night folks
I might catch it tomorrow time to go zzzzzzzzzzz
Night folks
Its entirely your decision buuuut your a lil long in the tooth to start parenting at this point dontcha think? JMO
montecito: I think you all misunderstood his thread title.
Could it be that he's giving his kid away?
Could it be that he's giving his kid away?
hahaha very funny
venusenvy: Its entirely your decision buuuut your a lil long in the tooth to start parenting at this point dontcha think? JMO
yeah .. i know . . .your right but . . . .
mrLonelyboy: hahaha very funny
You thrive on the attention don't you. That's why you post threads that are questionable of human behavior.
I'm not going to give you the attention any further. You can fluff your ego by someone else's comments but you won't get anymore attention from me.
mrLonelyboy: yeah .. i know . . .your right but . . . .
in all honesty at your age you should be relaxing enjoying grandchildren not planning on having one.no matter how young you like to think you are or how well you think you look after yourself you wouldnt have the stamina of someone in their 30s or 40s.in 10 years time you be 67. if the child wants play football or some other energetic game do you seriously think you be able to run round a field for hours ?montecito: You thrive on the attention don't you. That's why you post threads that are questionable of human behavior.
I'm not going to give you the attention any further. You can fluff your ego by someone else's comments but you won't get anymore attention from me.
I'm not going to give you the attention any further. You can fluff your ego by someone else's comments but you won't get anymore attention from me.
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or have some now with your new found lover?
just a thought . . .. ??
I have kids already, and am very happy being their Dad and don't need any more....
But, if I had a new partner who really wanted to be a Mum, ....what kind of mate would I be to not want to make her happy, would be my thinking. Why should I deprive her of the thrill of motherhood....
Otherwise, there would be resentment....and the relationship would fail....
My thoughts anyway....