How long would (or should) two people date before getting married? (69)
Once the very last doubt is removed. There is no time frame for that.
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i would say 1 year for me 
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YouMeUs: Once the very last doubt is removed. There is no time frame for that.
True. But would you date someone for 10 years if there wasn't a possibility of marriage? I guess some people would. I turned 30 at the beginning of this month and I doubt that I would date someone for 10 years. I mean, I'd like to think that after the first year, you'd know if you want to spend the rest of your life with someone. I can understand dating for a year to 4 years, maybe 5, but after that, it just seems like, what's the point? I don't know. I guess when people are in their early 20's (as in college) that dating someone for 4 to 6 years isn't too bad. Of course, many of them get married right out of college too.
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after 2 sec if she is the right girl in my life
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i agree that you can't really put a time frame on it..nonetheless i voted for 2-3 years which i think are reasonable enough. just checked the vote breakdown and it's so funny to see that the only other vote was made by a man and apparently he would need a lot longer to commit :). back to the stereotypes...:D
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jendub83: i agree that you can't really put a time frame on it..nonetheless i voted for 2-3 years which i think are reasonable enough. just checked the vote breakdown and it's so funny to see that the only other vote was made by a man and apparently he would need a lot longer to commit :). back to the stereotypes...:D
I wonder how old the guy is. He's in the 18 to 40 age range but that doesn't say anything in terms of this question. I would think that guys that are in the age range of 18 to 21 would need more time and that as you got older that time would decrease. I guess the stereotype is that all women want to have kids so they would want to get married after knowing (dating) a guy for a shorter amount of time.
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If there was any correlation between how long you date and the chance of the marriage being a success the question may be relevant but in my experience and opinion time doesn't guarantee success.
If it feels right do it but don't expect a guarantee with your wedding certificate.
If it feels right do it but don't expect a guarantee with your wedding certificate.
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fieldworking: True. But would you date someone for 10 years if there wasn't a possibility of marriage? I guess some people would. I turned 30 at the beginning of this month and I doubt that I would date someone for 10 years. I mean, I'd like to think that after the first year, you'd know if you want to spend the rest of your life with someone. I can understand dating for a year to 4 years, maybe 5, but after that, it just seems like, what's the point? I don't know. I guess when people are in their early 20's (as in college) that dating someone for 4 to 6 years isn't too bad. Of course, many of them get married right out of college too.
I don't think it would take ten years to find out the person was or was not marriage material, if marriage was that important to you. If marriage is discussed with the one you're with, only to find they'd prefer to talk about something else or never gives you any direct input about it, then there is your doubt about him/her. Unless you can live with as well as be happy with the fact that you may never marry this person, then it may be best to look elsewhere and cut your losses.And for the record, I did not vote in your poll, as I stand by my first post.
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I could not find any option in the poll for my opinion so no I did not vote either
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The older you are the longer,unless you are desparate
fieldworking: Just curious to see what people think. Do you think that the older you get, the shorter the dating length? What are your thoughts?
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chris27292729: The older you are the longer,unless you are desparate
not quite that old or that desperate
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I proposed marriage to 10 Ladies the last 6 months and 12 of them refused
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lilibelle: I could not find any option in the poll for my opinion so no I did not vote either
And your opinion was well stated! 
I gave you one of these. ------ This poll is Archived ------
chris27292729: I proposed marriage to 10 Ladies the last 6 months and 12 of them refused
and I thought you were a one woman guy now I am disappointed
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chris27292729: I proposed marriage to 10 Ladies the last 6 months and 12 of them refused
And 13 of them are filing for divorce? 
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lilibelle: not quite that old or that desperate
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chris27292729: I feel the same,lets make a pair.
and what a pair that would be
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YouMeUs: And your opinion was well stated! I gave you one of these.
I notice you always have a grin on your skull
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lilibelle: and I thought you were a one woman guy now I am disappointed
Always one at the time,no good at playing games.-
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chris27292729: Always one at the time,no good at playing games.-
so do you allocate days or hours to each one?
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lilibelle: and what a pair that would be
Don't you know how,a pair starts???Like you started,with this.....------ This poll is Archived ------
chris27292729: Always one at the time,no good at playing games.-
so do you allocate days or hours to each one individually?
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lilibelle: so do you allocate days or hours to each one?
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chris27292729: No, i allocate my life to one and only,as long as it lasts.-I don't need complications in my life,with many around.-
that is the way to do it and it is far less stressful and you don't have to remember names
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fieldworking: Just curious to see what people think. Do you think that the older you get, the shorter the dating length? What are your thoughts?
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kissmedeeply: my husband and i met here in 2007 of november then got married 2008 of oct..
please re-assure everyone that it is a happy marriage - give the poor lonely people still searching a little hope
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kissmedeeply: my husband and i met here in 2007 of november then got married 2008 of oct..
questions spring to mind..... why are you still on here? does he work away from you? I hope you two are still ok.
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I would say it depends on the two people involved..I do not believe the age matters..both have to be willing and ready to make the committment...some a few months others a few years..its when the two are ready
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tomcatwarne: questions spring to mind..... why are you still on here? does he work away from you? I hope you two are still ok.
I still come on here for the forums and to let people know its still possible..and he knows i am here to talk to the friends i have met here..------ This poll is Archived ------
lilibelle: please re-assure everyone that it is a happy marriage - give the poor lonely people still searching a little hope nice to hear someone has found a partner on the site
yes we are very happily married
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