Lots of people actually found their partners regardless its time and place which could be right or wrong. Some are patience enough to wait because they see the potential in the future, the others are rushing to find partners because of their desire either to have boyfriends or girlfriends, biological alarm rings, or marriage reason. It is going to be interesting to see CS members opinion and polls on this topic.
"When you meet somebody great & loving but can't be together now ...." I would live my normal life, do things and even date if I like someone who can now if i want it, after all that "somebody great & loving but can't be together now" may be just an illusion. But i would certainly meet him when we can be together and try if he is all i imagine he is. I wouldn't make any commitments to "somebody great & loving but can't be together" until we can be together.
chocolateflavour: Lots of people actually found their partners regardless its time and place which could be right or wrong. Some are patience enough to wait because they see the potential in the future, the others are rushing to find partners because of their desire either to have boyfriends or girlfriends, biological alarm rings, or marriage reason. It is going to be interesting to see CS members opinion and polls on this topic.
this doesn't sound much like me - I enjoys chatting with friends on here, but I would have to meet someone to decide if it is to be more than that
chocolateflavour: Lots of people actually found their partners regardless its time and place which could be right or wrong. Some are patience enough to wait because they see the potential in the future, the others are rushing to find partners because of their desire either to have boyfriends or girlfriends, biological alarm rings, or marriage reason. It is going to be interesting to see CS members opinion and polls on this topic.
What it meant it meant it will happen but if not we are not meant to be
carenzanear the sea, South Holland Netherlands3,113 posts
chocolateflavour: Lots of people actually found their partners regardless its time and place which could be right or wrong. Some are patience enough to wait because they see the potential in the future, the others are rushing to find partners because of their desire either to have boyfriends or girlfriends, biological alarm rings, or marriage reason. It is going to be interesting to see CS members opinion and polls on this topic.
Someone great and loving does not show-up every time at your door step. I would take the time to know him/her better and if it does not work out you will still have a friend. God said “Love is patience.....among other things
quote=chocolateflavour]Lots of people actually found their partners regardless its time and place which could be right or wrong. Some are patience enough to wait because they see the potential in the future, the others are rushing to find partners because of their desire either to have boyfriends or girlfriends, biological alarm rings, or marriage reason. It is going to be interesting to see CS members opinion and polls on this topic.
dan_barry64: if its meant to be it will happen, if not then nothing would bring two people together!!!!
If there are challenges, then it depends on the resolve of the individuals involved, as to whether they want, or feel, up to trying to change those challenges.
But, as Dan, Jac, and others have said... "if it is meant to be, it will happen", and will quite likely turn out more profound *because* of those challenges that were overcome.
There is an option in the poll "Waste of time"...
Searching for love is *never* a waste of time (my opinion)
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When you meet somebody great & loving but can't be together now ....(Vote Below)
Some are patience enough to wait because they see the potential in the future, the others are rushing to find partners because of their desire either to have boyfriends or girlfriends, biological alarm rings, or marriage reason. It is going to be interesting to see CS members opinion and polls on this topic.