Would I relocate? Yes, with explanation though. First after meeting someone here and falling in "love" (that alone poses another opinion) I would want to visit them several times at least. Spend as much time as possible before making a leap into blind fate. Just correspondence , IMO can't constitute love, as sited above. As for moving to another country, now we are talking culture change, language, racial status, the list goes on. Theres a whole lot more to concider than Love alone. But it would not be totally out of the question. Either decision depends on how much you want to unite with this person.
WorkinForALivin: Would I relocate? Yes, with explanation though. First after meeting someone here and falling in "love" (that alone poses another opinion) I would want to visit them several times at least. Spend as much time as possible before making a leap into blind fate. Just correspondence , IMO can't constitute love, as sited above. As for moving to another country, now we are talking culture change, language, racial status, the list goes on. Theres a whole lot more to concider than Love alone. But it would not be totally out of the question. Either decision depends on how much you want to unite with this person.
I think it depends on my circumstances and his but like everything else, it's a risk that sometimes works and sometimes not...depends on so many factors though. Love is a powerful drug and sometimes it can cause peeps to not see the forest for the trees imo...
I would meet him sometimes at his place, sometimes at mine, this is my perfect relationship, free and alone most of the time with some adventures every now and then. But he has to live in a country I like to visit sometimes.
The circumstances for everyone is different(let's be real-highly unlikely-all the i's dotted & t's crossed). To uproot is easier said than done eg-family would be numero uno, job & cultural which is last here. JMO
Jan 29, 2012 11:32 AM CST If you met and fell in love with someone here on CS but they lived in another state or country, woul
Draven81Durban, KwaZulu-Natal South Africa12 Posts
Draven81Durban, KwaZulu-Natal South Africa12 posts
How about both relocating to a mutually agreed on country. Someplace where you've both thought of moving to at some point. That way you're both in the same boat and have only each other to rely on, initially.
I would most likely relocate for someone, but I wouldn't want to move to somewhere like Alaska. Beautiful, yes, but I am not into cold. I should be moving soon to Florida...but not for Mr. Right. I have no idea where he is.
How much time will u wait until u decide u want to "jump" in something that might make u happy... May be it wont work... but
How long will it take untill u think that every single detail its perfect? Right time , right place , right person , loves cats as I do , loves stuff that i do... we agree on stuff... I dont know So many variables to care about...would take u YEARS ... or may be FOREVER until u REALLY know that it WOULD work.
Till then...Life is passing by ...
Valid for online dating and real life dating.
I have just 1 life. Im an adult. As long as we both want it.. I would go anywhere.
I'm 31 and don't wanna twice my age to realize that may be I left things go just because "I was scared of making a mistake"
relocating didn't work for me. not even the fact that alcohol and cigarettes are significantly cheaper in my country than on his isolated island,didn't make my chosen one move over to me. so i relocated to CS.
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