Should the guy txt the girl first? ( Archived) (19)

Mar 11, 2012 11:20 PM CSTShould the guy txt the girl first?
mr_hazel_awesome
mr_hazel_awesomemr_hazel_awesomedamascus, Syria10 Threads 10 Polls 8 Posts

Should the guy txt the girl first?(Vote Below)

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a lot of girls expect the guy to contact them 1st
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37%
it doesn't matter!
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55%
No not all girls
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8%
Total Votes
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hey guyz I have no experince in such situations I met a girl online I texted at the very start begining
she rang me for a few hours the other day for no reason & texts me nearly everyday she asks me if im going out somewhere, calls me little nicknames and we have personal joke but we didn't go out before because she lives so far do I have to answer her calls sometimes she calls me when I'm at work do I have to change my phone number ?
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Mar 11, 2012 11:26 PM CST Should the guy txt the girl first?
trisher69
trisher69trisher69Albuquerque, New Mexico USA60 Threads 58 Polls 317 Posts
dunno Unless you're old-fashionshed, I don't think it matters much these days.
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Mar 11, 2012 11:34 PM CST Should the guy txt the girl first?
trisher69
trisher69trisher69Albuquerque, New Mexico USA60 Threads 58 Polls 317 Posts
You don't have to change your number, just call your phone company and have her number blocked! Lolyay
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Mar 11, 2012 11:43 PM CST Should the guy txt the girl first?
LoveToDance67
LoveToDance67LoveToDance67Phoenix, Arizona USA1 Threads 44 Posts
I think in this day and age, it doesnt matter who calls or texts who first.

And as far as the girl texting you at work, does she know your at work? If you like talking and texting with her, maybe tell her when you work, so she doesnt disturb you?
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Mar 11, 2012 11:44 PM CST Should the guy txt the girl first?
LoveToDance67
LoveToDance67LoveToDance67Phoenix, Arizona USA1 Threads 44 Posts
I think in this day and age, it doesnt matter who calls or texts who first.

And as far as the girl texting you at work, does she know your at work? If you like talking and texting with her, maybe tell her when you work, so she doesnt disturb you?
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Mar 11, 2012 11:54 PM CST Should the guy txt the girl first?
StillOfTheNight
StillOfTheNightStillOfTheNightClarenville Area, Newfoundland Canada11 Threads 2,832 Posts
I don't think it really matters who texts who first, as long as your texting
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Mar 12, 2012 12:01 AM CST Should the guy txt the girl first?
Nikogas
NikogasNikogasMetro, Oregon USA46 Threads 5 Polls 4,037 Posts
what is a text? confused
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Mar 12, 2012 2:54 AM CST Should the guy txt the girl first?
shay28
shay28shay28Ha'il,, Saudi Arabia468 Posts
I prefer the man to call/text/contact me first. But if he doesn't makes the effort for first move and I'll like him too much, then he will hear at me first.
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Mar 12, 2012 3:21 AM CST Should the guy txt the girl first?
Amenda
AmendaAmendashenyang, Liaoning China84 Threads 2,867 Posts
Yes, according to the education I have, very traditional idea I think, males should always be the first unless the text or call is not for love or date, JMO
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Mar 12, 2012 6:13 PM CST Should the guy txt the girl first?
BB_snickers
BB_snickersBB_snickersNarnia, Ontario Canada56 Threads 3,755 Posts
See what happens when you text first. scold

No, women should send nekkid videos first, then text explaining how much they miss me. gift
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Mar 12, 2012 6:17 PM CST Should the guy txt the girl first?
trueheart1941
trueheart1941trueheart1941brentwood essex, Essex, England UK27 Threads 8,005 Posts
Nikogas: what is a text?
.....it,s a legal document.....alowing you to piss in the street..with out having charges brought against you........rolling on the floor laughing laugh rolling on the floor laughing thought you knew that.......dunno dunno
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Mar 13, 2012 12:09 PM CST Should the guy txt the girl first?
lia1611
lia1611lia1611Jakarta, Indonesia1 Threads 10 Posts
mr_hazel_awesome: hey guyz I have no experince in such situations I met a girl online I texted at the very start begining
she rang me for a few hours the other day for no reason & texts me nearly everyday she asks me if im going out somewhere, calls me little nicknames and we have personal joke but we didn't go out before because she lives so far do I have to answer her calls sometimes she calls me when I'm at work do I have to change my phone number ?


it is clear that she's interested on you. and i think it's annoying that what she calls you during the working hours. if you like her too, tell her not to call during the day. if you don't, just ignore and she will be tired of calling you hehe. good luck! ;)
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Mar 13, 2012 1:58 PM CST Should the guy txt the girl first?
jono7
jono7jono7Out West, British Columbia Canada3 Threads 8,017 Posts
i'm actually really quite shy. so it's not about being old fashioned..it's about being shy, so i have only ever texted first to one person. i'm glad i did and often think about texting them again.
(dang that shyness.... laugh)
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Mar 13, 2012 2:00 PM CST Should the guy txt the girl first?
modimodi
modimodimodimodiNicosia, Cyprus7 Threads 50 Posts
Nikogas: what is a text?

laugh like it
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Mar 13, 2012 2:02 PM CST Should the guy txt the girl first?
modimodi
modimodimodimodiNicosia, Cyprus7 Threads 50 Posts
dont think so
i like initiative women
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Mar 13, 2012 3:42 PM CST Should the guy txt the girl first?
Kargyle227
Kargyle227Kargyle227Home of the B-2, Missouri USA17 Threads 4 Polls 480 Posts
If you're under 30 ...it doesn't matter....

Mature Adults prefer a more personal ~Voice-type~ communication...!!

love cheers
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Mar 13, 2012 8:46 PM CST Should the guy txt the girl first?
mr_hazel_awesome: hey guyz I have no experince in such situations I met a girl online I texted at the very start begining
she rang me for a few hours the other day for no reason & texts me nearly everyday she asks me if im going out somewhere, calls me little nicknames and we have personal joke but we didn't go out before because she lives so far do I have to answer her calls sometimes she calls me when I'm at work do I have to change my phone number ?


yes I do not want to be texted constantly - I look at a text as a way to communicate a brief necessary message such as you are running late - or a quick note of when he is planning to call. Texting is too impersonal for a datign relationship and if I am texted all the time I just don't reply to them. I would not be interested in a man who uses texting as a primary means of contact, and it is not likely I would text first, tho I have once or twice

but mainly to ask him when he plans to call so I can be home & ready to talk
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Jun 21, 2012 10:06 PM CST Should the guy txt the girl first?
camxucdirong
camxucdirongcamxucdirongNha Trang, Southcentral Coast Vietnam5 Threads 218 Posts
Its depend on somethingsad flower
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Jun 27, 2012 7:21 PM CST Should the guy txt the girl first?
texasgent222
texasgent222texasgent222Dallas, Texas USA1 Threads 255 Posts
You don't have to do anything you don't want to do! If you're busy or preoccupied by all means let her calls go to voice mail or let her text sit till you can respond at a more convenient time. If she has real feelings for you she won't go anywhere. Just relax and keep your focus and priorities.
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Jun 27, 2012 8:39 PM CST Should the guy txt the girl first?
Sk8ndnc
Sk8ndncSk8ndncAlbuquerque, New Mexico USA61 Posts
If you're actually in Syria, she might just be telling you - in code - about the next resistance meeting.
Don't get shot.
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