hey guyz I have no experince in such situations I met a girl online I texted at the very start begining she rang me for a few hours the other day for no reason & texts me nearly everyday she asks me if im going out somewhere, calls me little nicknames and we have personal joke but we didn't go out before because she lives so far do I have to answer her calls sometimes she calls me when I'm at work do I have to change my phone number ?
I think in this day and age, it doesnt matter who calls or texts who first.
And as far as the girl texting you at work, does she know your at work? If you like talking and texting with her, maybe tell her when you work, so she doesnt disturb you?
I think in this day and age, it doesnt matter who calls or texts who first.
And as far as the girl texting you at work, does she know your at work? If you like talking and texting with her, maybe tell her when you work, so she doesnt disturb you?
I prefer the man to call/text/contact me first. But if he doesn't makes the effort for first move and I'll like him too much, then he will hear at me first.
Yes, according to the education I have, very traditional idea I think, males should always be the first unless the text or call is not for love or date, JMO
mr_hazel_awesome: hey guyz I have no experince in such situations I met a girl online I texted at the very start begining she rang me for a few hours the other day for no reason & texts me nearly everyday she asks me if im going out somewhere, calls me little nicknames and we have personal joke but we didn't go out before because she lives so far do I have to answer her calls sometimes she calls me when I'm at work do I have to change my phone number ?
it is clear that she's interested on you. and i think it's annoying that what she calls you during the working hours. if you like her too, tell her not to call during the day. if you don't, just ignore and she will be tired of calling you hehe. good luck! ;)
i'm actually really quite shy. so it's not about being old fashioned..it's about being shy, so i have only ever texted first to one person. i'm glad i did and often think about texting them again. (dang that shyness.... )
mr_hazel_awesome: hey guyz I have no experince in such situations I met a girl online I texted at the very start begining she rang me for a few hours the other day for no reason & texts me nearly everyday she asks me if im going out somewhere, calls me little nicknames and we have personal joke but we didn't go out before because she lives so far do I have to answer her calls sometimes she calls me when I'm at work do I have to change my phone number ?
yes I do not want to be texted constantly - I look at a text as a way to communicate a brief necessary message such as you are running late - or a quick note of when he is planning to call. Texting is too impersonal for a datign relationship and if I am texted all the time I just don't reply to them. I would not be interested in a man who uses texting as a primary means of contact, and it is not likely I would text first, tho I have once or twice
but mainly to ask him when he plans to call so I can be home & ready to talk
You don't have to do anything you don't want to do! If you're busy or preoccupied by all means let her calls go to voice mail or let her text sit till you can respond at a more convenient time. If she has real feelings for you she won't go anywhere. Just relax and keep your focus and priorities.
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Should the guy txt the girl first?(Vote Below)
she rang me for a few hours the other day for no reason & texts me nearly everyday she asks me if im going out somewhere, calls me little nicknames and we have personal joke but we didn't go out before because she lives so far do I have to answer her calls sometimes she calls me when I'm at work do I have to change my phone number ?