Carl96190: Ignore what women say and watch what they do. Women will say that they want the 'good man', but will push him aside and throw themselves crotch first at the bad boy every time. Just go your own way and live your life how you think it should be lived. If some woman wants to join you on that journey, good. If not, that is good too. A 'good man' does not want a woman has been with the bad boys.
Well, the highlighted bit is an interesting comment!!
Judging by your post and others from many other men on this site, one could understand that you AND plenty of other men have suffered at the hands of "bad girls"... Is that because you threw yourselves crotch first at the bad woman every tiome?
Does your comment mean that no "good woman" should/would want any thing to do with guys who've been badly treated by women. IE "Men who've been with bad women"?
Because you can't have one set of "understandings/attitudes" for men and another for women.
Totally agree with the sentence: "Just go your own way and live your life how you think it should be lived. If some a woman wants to join you on that journey, good. If not, that is good too." . Which of course applies to ladies also!!
I definitely like a good man, in my own words I define a good man as a person that first love himself to be able to treat me how I deserve, he considers honesty a great quality in any life matter and he would never play with another human being feelings, he´s got to respect himself to respect others and have high family values, of course some outgoing personality and sense of humor are welcome too.
In my case, I am tired of what bad boys offer, it seems to me they underestimate women intelligence by playing so many games, games are not needed when feelings are involved between two adults, but karma is a b...., there comes a time when a REAL WOMAN chooses a MAN, a good man over a bad boy.
NecaRob: Ladies...I see many women say they want a Good Man, but end up running off with the Bad Boy. Please be honest and let us know what you prefer and why. There are no right or wrong answers. Everyone is entitled to their preference! To be very honest, with all my male friends through the years, I have never met a Bad Boy who is also a Good Man, the line is clearly divided, so I didn't make that an option. Sorry! ;-)
Who would want a bad man???But if i can turn him to be a good man, why not
JeanKimberley: there is something appealing bad boys...... then I matured....
a Good man....
it was not an appeal of bad boy types - that is just all that I was surrounded by for much of my life so as I got older and got out & about in the world, nicer men I found intimidating, hard to talk to
There is no "Ladies Only" here Men and women...they all drink beer
So here is a simple answer to your fear When women say "good man" they mean a man that will pay the bills, take out the garbage, and mend the broken chair!
NecaRob: Ladies...I see many women say they want a Good Man, but end up running off with the Bad Boy. Please be honest and let us know what you prefer and why. There are no right or wrong answers. Everyone is entitled to their preference! To be very honest, with all my male friends through the years, I have never met a Bad Boy who is also a Good Man, the line is clearly divided, so I didn't make that an option. Sorry! ;-)
plainlyjune: hard to strictly label any person as bad or good, there are people who make best friends but are terrible in a relationship and vise versa
NecaRob: Oh... and by the way...My definition of a "Good Man" is a man who treats his lady with respect and love. Is always honest and loyal to her and her alone. Is chivalrous and goes out of his way to show her that he loves her and makes her feel special. A SHORT definition of a "Bad Boy" is a man-child who treats women like crap no matter how much they do for him. He disappoints them on a regular basis and ends up hurting them in the end. There is much more I can add to this, but these are observations I have made of my male friends through the years. They have ALL fit into one of these two categories. I have not seen a mixture yet.
In that case only women with no self esteem go for the bad boys. I've been known to toss that type to the curb in a heartbeat.
EagleWoman: Well, the highlighted bit is an interesting comment!!
Judging by your post and others from many other men on this site, one could understand that you AND plenty of other men have suffered at the hands of "bad girls"... Is that because you threw yourselves crotch first at the bad woman every tiome?
Does your comment mean that no "good woman" should/would want any thing to do with guys who've been badly treated by women. IE "Men who've been with bad women"?
Because you can't have one set of "understandings/attitudes" for men and another for women.
Totally agree with the sentence: "Just go your own way and live your life how you think it should be lived. If some a woman wants to join you on that journey, good. If not, that is good too." . Which of course applies to ladies also!!
hiya EW
crotch tossing...
now is that some sort of olympic event that i have not heard of?...
Tricky... A bad boy will always get the attention first but it never goes anywhere more than a thought of being daring for a while... A good boy is one to settle with but they tend to be far to predictable and it gets boring if there is no other outlet...
But it really depends on what you mean by a bad boy, many associate bikers as being bad boys but I've met many bikers that hold nothing but pure respect for women which to me says good boy underneath there personal choices on their lifestyle *shrugs*
I'm sure most are somewhere in between the two extremes it would be just a matter of finding the right balance?
NecaRob: Ladies...I see many women say they want a Good Man, but end up running off with the Bad Boy. Please be honest and let us know what you prefer and why. There are no right or wrong answers. Everyone is entitled to their preference! To be very honest, with all my male friends through the years, I have never met a Bad Boy who is also a Good Man, the line is clearly divided, so I didn't make that an option. Sorry! ;-)
I prefer a bad man vs. a bad boy if I was to choose bad.
It depends on what you mean by "bad". Bad could be any number of characteristics. A good man doesn't have to be a nerd or someone who lets women control him. A good man has morals, charasima, is polite and kind with a bit of a tease in him. I'll take that one..
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