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Jun 6, 2012 10:57 AM CSTDo you agree or disagree?
Phoenix
PhoenixPhoenixBelfast....., Antrim, Ireland274 Threads 65 Polls 6,948 Posts

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"Love that we cannot have lasts the longest, is the strongest, and hurts the deepest."


Do you agree with the bove or not. I do (agree)
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Jun 6, 2012 10:58 AM CST Do you agree or disagree?
Phoenix: "Love that we cannot have lasts the longest, is the strongest, and hurts the deepest."Do you agree with the bove or not. I do (agree)

I disagree.
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Jun 6, 2012 11:01 AM CST Do you agree or disagree?
stanley8m
stanley8mstanley8mkildare, Kildare Ireland156 Threads 7 Polls 5,341 Posts
Phoenix: "Love that we cannot have lasts the longest, is the strongest, and hurts the deepest."Do you agree with the bove or not. I do (agree)


I would agree in the circumstance of a love we had and lost, But if it is a love we never had, then it was never love to begin with.
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Jun 6, 2012 11:02 AM CST Do you agree or disagree?
irisheyes1978
irisheyes1978irisheyes1978Louth/Meath/Dublin, Louth Ireland10 Threads 731 Posts
Phoenix: "Love that we cannot have lasts the longest, is the strongest, and hurts the deepest."Do you agree with the bove or not. I do (agree)


I probably would have agreed with that years ago, but now I disagree!
Lifes lessons
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Jun 6, 2012 11:03 AM CST Do you agree or disagree?
irisheyes1978
irisheyes1978irisheyes1978Louth/Meath/Dublin, Louth Ireland10 Threads 731 Posts
Phoenix: "Love that we cannot have lasts the longest, is the strongest, and hurts the deepest."Do you agree with the bove or not. I do (agree)


I probably would have agreed with that years ago, but now I disagree!
Lifes lessons
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Jun 6, 2012 11:06 AM CST Do you agree or disagree?
KNenagh
KNenaghKNenaghAachen, Kilkenny Ireland12 Threads 11,160 Posts
Phoenix: "Love that we cannot have lasts the longest, is the strongest, and hurts the deepest."Do you agree with the bove or not. I do (agree)

I disagree.
It mightn't be nice not to get it together with a person we like, but if a relationship with someone you loved broke up it's way harder.
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Jun 6, 2012 11:50 AM CST Do you agree or disagree?
celticeyes1
celticeyes1celticeyes1Dublin / Kildare, Dublin Ireland5 Threads 1,127 Posts
Phoenix: "Love that we cannot have lasts the longest, is the strongest, and hurts the deepest."Do you agree with the bove or not. I do (agree)
Disagree
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Jun 6, 2012 11:55 AM CST Do you agree or disagree?
skyblue43
skyblue43skyblue43Dublin, Meath Ireland30 Threads 1 Polls 5,980 Posts
celticeyes1: Disagree


I agree...if I'm reading his post correctly. I don't think he means the love for someone you have never been with. As has been pointed out that could never have been love. It could have been desire or a wish for love. I think he means that if you are with someone you love, get a taste for it, and then the person moves on and leaves you behind that is the love we cannot have....and it probably is the longest lasting, strongest and deepest...until we find someone to fill the void....
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Jun 6, 2012 12:00 PM CST Do you agree or disagree?
KNenagh
KNenaghKNenaghAachen, Kilkenny Ireland12 Threads 11,160 Posts
confused
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Jun 6, 2012 12:06 PM CST Do you agree or disagree?
Phoenix
PhoenixPhoenixBelfast....., Antrim Ireland274 Threads 65 Polls 6,948 Posts
stanley8m: I would agree in the circumstance of a love we had and lost, But if it is a love we never had, then it was never love to begin with.


Basically thats where I'm coming from Stanley. Partly due to a thread you posted the other day that got me thinking. Kinda like a fisherman story and the one that got away.
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Jun 6, 2012 12:08 PM CST Do you agree or disagree?
Phoenix
PhoenixPhoenixBelfast....., Antrim Ireland274 Threads 65 Polls 6,948 Posts
skyblue43: I agree...if I'm reading his post correctly. I don't think he means the love for someone you have never been with. As has been pointed out that could never have been love. It could have been desire or a wish for love. I think he means that if you are with someone you love, get a taste for it, and then the person moves on and leaves you behind that is the love we cannot have....and it probably is the longest lasting, strongest and deepest...until we find someone to fill the void....


I'm not sure if great minds think a like or fools seldom differ. But I'm going with former rather than the latter.
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Jun 6, 2012 12:09 PM CST Do you agree or disagree?
Bronze33
Bronze33Bronze33Austin, Texas USA21 Threads 21 Polls 76 Posts
I agree 100%! Life can be so unfair...but some relationships are just not meant to be dunno
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Jun 6, 2012 12:10 PM CST Do you agree or disagree?
celticeyes1
celticeyes1celticeyes1Dublin / Kildare, Dublin Ireland5 Threads 1,127 Posts
skyblue43: I agree...if I'm reading his post correctly. I don't think he means the love for someone you have never been with. As has been pointed out that could never have been love. It could have been desire or a wish for love. I think he means that if you are with someone you love, get a taste for it, and then the person moves on and leaves you behind that is the love we cannot have....and it probably is the longest lasting, strongest and deepest...until we find someone to fill the void....
Yeah I disagree. You break up with someone you can't have them back and you 'think' that is the strongest deepest love you have had and think that feeling will last forever in your heart but then you can meet someone new even better and then your thinking changes dunno
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Jun 6, 2012 12:10 PM CST Do you agree or disagree?
Phoenix
PhoenixPhoenixBelfast....., Antrim Ireland274 Threads 65 Polls 6,948 Posts
celticeyes1: Disagree


{quote=KNenagh]I disagree.


I can see you both are going to hard work tonight...
laugh
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Jun 6, 2012 12:12 PM CST Do you agree or disagree?
Phoenix
PhoenixPhoenixBelfast....., Antrim Ireland274 Threads 65 Polls 6,948 Posts
Bronze33: I agree 100%! Life can be so unfair...but some relationships are just not meant to be


Bronze you are officially on my christmas card list. And heres an early prezzie..gift
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Jun 6, 2012 12:18 PM CST Do you agree or disagree?
Phoenix
PhoenixPhoenixBelfast....., Antrim Ireland274 Threads 65 Polls 6,948 Posts
celticeyes1: Yeah I disagree. You break up with someone you can't have them back and you 'think' that is the strongest deepest love you have had and think that feeling will last forever in your heart but then you can meet someone new even better and then your thinking changes


Doesn't it depend on the reason for the 'break up'..Not all seperations/breakups are acrimonious. Sometimes in life people are forced to sperate not through any fault of their own but purely down to cirumstances.

And some even manage to 'hold the candel' for each other in the hope cupid, the gods or other roll the dice in their favour again
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Jun 6, 2012 12:19 PM CST Do you agree or disagree?
celticeyes1
celticeyes1celticeyes1Dublin / Kildare, Dublin Ireland5 Threads 1,127 Posts
Phoenix: {quote=KNenagh]I disagree.I can see you both are going to hard work tonight...
laugh I'm lost confused
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Jun 6, 2012 12:22 PM CST Do you agree or disagree?
celticeyes1
celticeyes1celticeyes1Dublin / Kildare, Dublin Ireland5 Threads 1,127 Posts
Phoenix: Doesn't it depend on the reason for the 'break up'..Not all seperations/breakups are acrimonious. Sometimes in life people are forced to sperate not through any fault of their own but purely down to cirumstances.

And some even manage to 'hold the candel' for each other in the hope cupid, the gods or other roll the dice in their favour again
Yes but you asked if I agreed or disagreed and in my circumstances I disagree. Yeah it happens to some people but hasn't happened to me grin No point holding a candle for something that will never be, if it was 'meant' to be it would already be dunno
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Jun 6, 2012 12:31 PM CST Do you agree or disagree?
Phoenix
PhoenixPhoenixBelfast....., Antrim Ireland274 Threads 65 Polls 6,948 Posts
celticeyes1: I'm lost


Just follow the North Star and keep heading west.





celticeyes1: Yes but you asked if I agreed or disagreed and in my circumstances I disagree. Yeah it happens to some people but hasn't happened to me No point holding a candle for something that will never be, if it was 'meant' to be it would already be


I told you you'd be hard work tonight. Let me get a coffee down my throat and I'll get back to you. I understand what you are saying but haven't you heard of 'never say never'?
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Jun 6, 2012 12:42 PM CST Do you agree or disagree?
celticeyes1
celticeyes1celticeyes1Dublin / Kildare, Dublin Ireland5 Threads 1,127 Posts
I told you you'd be hard work tonight. Let me get a coffee down my throat and I'll get back to you. I understand what you are saying but haven't you heard of 'never say never'? Yeah I heard of the saying never say never but I doubt I would ever think that way in this instance. Its non productive to think that way about a lost love and I tend to think logically rather than emotionally. Just the way my mind works grin
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Jun 6, 2012 12:43 PM CST Do you agree or disagree?
celticeyes1
celticeyes1celticeyes1Dublin / Kildare, Dublin Ireland5 Threads 1,127 Posts
@Phoenix
Yeah I heard of the saying never say never but I doubt I would ever think that way in this instance. Its non productive to think that way about a lost love and I tend to think logically rather than emotionally. Just the way my mind works
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Jun 6, 2012 12:47 PM CST Do you agree or disagree?
Phoenix
PhoenixPhoenixBelfast....., Antrim Ireland274 Threads 65 Polls 6,948 Posts
celticeyes1: Yeah I heard of the saying never say never but I doubt I would ever think that way in this instance. Its non productive to think that way about a lost love and I tend to think logically rather than emotionally. Just the way my mind works


Many moons ago, I was told it is the opposite about how men and you lot think. You are a smart cookie. Let me finish my coffee and hopefully I'll help you change your mind.
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Jun 6, 2012 12:56 PM CST Do you agree or disagree?
Phoenix: I don't like shades of greyness. That just complicates life.


Cowboys don't careelephant
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Jun 6, 2012 1:25 PM CST Do you agree or disagree?
vinny1967
vinny1967vinny1967Dublin, Cork Ireland131 Threads 7 Polls 11,475 Posts
Having been lucky enough to love and be loved twice, I disagree.
Love lost is painful but there is always hope and I can't wait for the next time yay
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Jun 6, 2012 1:32 PM CST Do you agree or disagree?
stanley8m
stanley8mstanley8mkildare, Kildare Ireland156 Threads 7 Polls 5,341 Posts
vinny1967: Having been lucky enough to love and be loved twice, I disagree.
Love lost is painful but there is always hope and I can't wait for the next time


Is love the second time around the same though? I have truly loved once and been in another deep emotional relationship, however the second time, did not have the intensity of feeling that I experienced first time. Or maybe that's just me.dunno
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Jun 6, 2012 1:37 PM CST Do you agree or disagree?
vinny1967
vinny1967vinny1967Dublin, Cork Ireland131 Threads 7 Polls 11,475 Posts
stanley8m: Is love the second time around the same though? I have truly loved once and been in another deep emotional relationship, however the second time, did not have the intensity of feeling that I experienced first time. Or maybe that's just me.


Well it was for me Stan.
They were different relationships but the feeling for the other person was the same.
You know what I mean when your pulse rate increases just when you see her, or you feel so strong and break out into a sweat when she just smiles at you. smitten

Jeez I miss that laugh
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Jun 6, 2012 1:42 PM CST Do you agree or disagree?
Phoenix
PhoenixPhoenixBelfast....., Antrim Ireland274 Threads 65 Polls 6,948 Posts
celticeyes1: awh did I confuse you


Shock to the system would be closer to the truth.

celticeyes1: not all women think or act the same


And thats half of the beauty and what intrigues me about you lot. Your differences.

So mademoiselle, I'll try to break the 'quote' down. Have you ever been in a relationship thats gone pear shaped** and you both went your seperate ways. But you still have strong feelings for? Even in the knowledge of knowing it's over.

** I'm not interested in details, 'cause they are just that details.
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Jun 6, 2012 2:01 PM CST Do you agree or disagree?
celticeyes1
celticeyes1celticeyes1Dublin / Kildare, Dublin Ireland5 Threads 1,127 Posts
Phoenix: Shock to the system would be closer to the truth.
And thats half of the beauty and what intrigues me about you lot. Your differences.

So mademoiselle, I'll try to break the 'quote' down. Have you ever been in a relationship thats gone pear shaped** and you both went your seperate ways. But you still have strong feelings for? Even in the knowledge of knowing it's over.

** I'm not interested in details, 'cause they are just that details.
I would say yes feelings as in I hope they're happy but not strong feelings like I want to get back with them and pine over them
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Jun 6, 2012 2:08 PM CST Do you agree or disagree?
Phoenix
PhoenixPhoenixBelfast....., Antrim Ireland274 Threads 65 Polls 6,948 Posts
celticeyes1: I would say yes feelings as in I hope they're happy but not strong feelings like I want to get back with them and pine over them


And you haven't thought, if only the 'dice' had rolled the other way, he'd still be kissing me over the gzrden gate?
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Jun 6, 2012 2:17 PM CST Do you agree or disagree?
celticeyes1
celticeyes1celticeyes1Dublin / Kildare, Dublin Ireland5 Threads 1,127 Posts
Phoenix: And you haven't thought, if only the 'dice' had rolled the other way, he'd still be kissing me over the gzrden gate?
No like I said its non productive to think that way. Every past relationship has had a role or place in your life to make you who you are today and where you are. I quite like where I am and who I am so why look back? I would rather concentrate on the present and the future not the past grin
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Jun 6, 2012 2:30 PM CST Do you agree or disagree?
Phoenix
PhoenixPhoenixBelfast....., Antrim Ireland274 Threads 65 Polls 6,948 Posts
celticeyes1: No like I said its non productive to think that way. Every past relationship has had a role or place in your life to make you who you are today and where you are. I quite like where I am and who I am so why look back? I would rather concentrate on the present and the future not the past


Generally thats how people learn. By looking back and learning from it. So they don't make the same mistakes or other in the future.

I stand to be corrected here (I'm not patronising). But something tells me you've build walls around your 'heart' higher than Belfast peace lines. I'm not saying you aren't open to the idea of meeting someone. Kinda more like 'once bitten twice shy'..

So you've not even for a fleeting second in your 'me' time wondered 'if only' over a past lover?
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