What do you do when you find your dinner date is actually already married? (80)
Id order the most expensive meal....
wait for it to arrive then walk out...
deceit doesnt sit well with me and I wouldnt waste my time in idle chat
wait for it to arrive then walk out...
deceit doesnt sit well with me and I wouldnt waste my time in idle chat
rivame: Id order the most expensive meal....
wait for it to arrive then walk out...
deceit doesnt sit well with me and I wouldnt waste my time in idle chat
Thanks. I gather you read my post about the woman who acted like she liked me, accepted dinner, etc...? I call that deceit, too. wait for it to arrive then walk out...
deceit doesnt sit well with me and I wouldnt waste my time in idle chat
rohaan: And thank you for making it clear that you are to be avoided like the plague. (you were rude without a cause. that is not a good place to be.)
You proved me right again with your arrogance. This polls are made to give an opinion and you can not expect everyone to think the same way as you do. Plague? Hahaha Yes, Miss, avoid me, please...
KremaP: You proved me right again with your arrogance. This polls are made to give an opinion and you can not expect everyone to think the same way as you do. Plague? Hahaha Yes, Miss, avoid me, please...
I was not being arrogant. I was being defensive because of YOUR arrogance. You keep using the term "Miss" with me, a deliberate slam. I have not done anything deliberate--so who is the arrogant one here? That would be you. Just because I may not see things exactly the same as you does not warrant your behavior. I get it that you do not want to be referred to as "doll". You do not understand that it was not a put-down. As long as you choose to see the world negatively, that will be exactly what you get back.
I've been watching too much Cheaters on tv so - I would excuse myself explain I was not interested in a date with someone married and leave.
I would like to think I am a better person and say nothing just leave - however..... I know me---- I would have to say something.
I would like to think I am a better person and say nothing just leave - however..... I know me---- I would have to say something.
JeanKimberley: I've been watching too much Cheaters on tv so - I would excuse myself explain I was not interested in a date with someone married and leave.
I would like to think I am a better person and say nothing just leave - however..... I know me---- I would have to say something.
Hi Jean! Just wondering--what IS it you would say??? Tell me, (I bet it's a humdinger!)I would like to think I am a better person and say nothing just leave - however..... I know me---- I would have to say something.
rohaan: Hi Jean! Just wondering--what IS it you would say??? Tell me, (I bet it's a humdinger!)
I like to think I would be respectful - I am not the type to take the moral high ground..... I realize just how "human" we humans are.hopefully I would not
or 
- I know I would not have an angry reaction since I don't have any emotions to invest in a first date - I might suggest he fix his marriage - which is a bit stupid of me - like that would really motivate someone to be introspective.
JeanKimberley: I like to think I would be respectful - I am not the type to take the moral high ground..... I realize just how "human" we humans are.
hopefully I would not or - I know I would not have an angry reaction since I don't have any emotions to invest in a first date -
I might suggest he fix his marriage - which is a bit stupid of me - like that would really motivate someone to be introspective.
hopefully I would not or - I know I would not have an angry reaction since I don't have any emotions to invest in a first date -
I might suggest he fix his marriage - which is a bit stupid of me - like that would really motivate someone to be introspective.
I guess my first intuition would be to say something like, "Why aren't you the royal cad, asking me out and YOU'RE married!?" I wrote about this a little a few pages back. The evening was so terribly awkward after she laid it on me that she was in love/dating another man. It was such a nice restaurant, I had given her a beautiful bouquet of variety flowers, and she took them so enthusiastically...Really, I can't believe she accepted what was so obviously a date of interest knowing all along that she had no intention of seeing me. Now, I know that when you ask someone out, if they agree then the only thing they owe you is their company for the evening. Still, it is deceptive, what she did, if you ask me. But why do it? A free Italian dinner? That's what I don't get. Why not say, "I'd love to have dinner with you, but need to tell you I'm serious about John, so just friends, Okay?" Why wouldn't that be completely reasonable?rohaan: I guess my first intuition would be to say something like, "Why aren't you the royal cad, asking me out and YOU'RE married!?" I wrote about this a little a few pages back. The evening was so terribly awkward after she laid it on me that she was in love/dating another man. It was such a nice restaurant, I had given her a beautiful bouquet of variety flowers, and she took them so enthusiastically...Really, I can't believe she accepted what was so obviously a date of interest knowing all along that she had no intention of seeing me. Now, I know that when you ask someone out, if they agree then the only thing they owe you is their company for the evening. Still, it is deceptive, what she did, if you ask me. But why do it? A free Italian dinner? That's what I don't get. Why not say, "I'd love to have dinner with you, but need to tell you I'm serious about John, so just friends, Okay?" Why wouldn't that be completely reasonable?
so many things can be "cured" when people talk to each other. Statistics say that most common reason filed in divorce court is another person - unfaithfulness - the catalyst -
Don't you think it could be unsafe too - suppose "John" is the jealous type and she wants to be caught to bring the relationship to a head.... very dangerous and uncomfortable.
rohaan: I was not being arrogant. I was being defensive because of YOUR arrogance. You keep using the term "Miss" with me, a deliberate slam. I have not done anything deliberate--so who is the arrogant one here? That would be you. Just because I may not see things exactly the same as you does not warrant your behavior. I get it that you do not want to be referred to as "doll". You do not understand that it was not a put-down. As long as you choose to see the world negatively, that will be exactly what you get back.
I kindly advice you to read your posts from the start and see who was negative. My first comment was a joke that you took so deep and I have no idea why. Just stop writing back to me. And by the way many of the posts are jokes, why don't you start a verbal war with someone else.
JeanKimberley: so many things can be "cured" when people talk to each other. Statistics say that most common reason filed in divorce court is another person - unfaithfulness - the catalyst -
Don't you think it could be unsafe too - suppose "John" is the jealous type and she wants to be caught to bring the relationship to a head.... very dangerous and uncomfortable.
I'm sure that could be the case. Her willingness to sacrifice the safety and integrity of an unwitting person to get back/get even/cause jealousy, or whatever, is capricious and self-serving. (I don't care how SHE may feel or what she is "going through". To do what she did is an inappropriate and cruel way to attempt to solve her "problem", if that is indeed what was going on. In short, there's no excuse whatsoever to involve an innocent party.Don't you think it could be unsafe too - suppose "John" is the jealous type and she wants to be caught to bring the relationship to a head.... very dangerous and uncomfortable.
butterfly0123: I'd have lobster and champagne, and go home
and,who would pay?
Leo_7: and,who would pay?
what I'm thinkin'
butterfly0123: Certainly not me
He invites me out, he pays
sure,i should guess that.i love lobsters tooHe invites me out, he pays
butterfly0123: I'd have lobster and champagne, and go home
For my taste,and plenty in this island,for some having lobsters,is for the show.butterfly0123: But we could talk about your mother
Rather chat about you over a fishy dish. 
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I tend to have regular irritations when it comes to communication( not direct) with Americans. I was going to be a bit rude this time. Thanks for not letting me show my dark side to this...hm...Miss.