When one decides to go on a date with someone she or he has to have something that attracted your eyes, in other words looks matter, yes. If you dont like how a person looks no matter if he / she is handsome or beautiful, I dont think you would date them.
Looks arent everything though, one person can be stunning physically but have a rotten personality or attitude and that can make any one look ugly lol.
LonelyMontse08: When one decides to go on a date with someone she or he has to have something that attracted your eyes, in other words looks matter, yes. If you dont like how a person looks no matter if he / she is handsome or beautiful, I dont think you would date them.
Looks arent everything though, one person can be stunning physically but have a rotten personality or attitude and that can make any one look ugly lol.
For those who are challenged in the looks department, good grooming and a great personality go a long way. So in my opinion looks don't always matter if there are other redeeming qualities.
How about if the person is overweight, I don't mean really big but a little fat, does that matter to or not? It seems to me that when people say that relationships based on looks doesn't last or you shouln'd care about looks, they have a good looking boyfriend or girlfriend... I find that funny. That's why i posted this poll, i want to know .
jackxsps: How about if the person is overweight, I don't mean really big but a little fat, does that matter to or not? It seems to me that when people say that relationships based on looks doesn't last or you shouln'd care about looks, they have a good looking boyfriend or girlfriend... I find that funny. That's why i posted this poll, i want to know .
Chemistry and attracttion just happen...some couples look fabulous together but their relationships are pure crap. whatever that fill your tastes and makes you feel good ,that it!
Yup, if there's not an attraction initially no further contact would take place. It's only normal to want an aesthetically pleasing partner. In this society an emphasis is placed on looks.
I had it often enough that I was talking to some good looking guy and just thought
In a FEW cases looks can put me off someone (like bad grooming as well) but for me someone intelligent and witty "catches my eye" a lot easier than a "good looking" guy.
I'm not gonna lie, i'm kinda overweight but i'm also embarresed to ask a woman out because i don't know how she's going to react when i'm gonna ask her out on a date.
jackxsps: I'm not gonna lie, i'm kinda overweight but i'm also embarresed to ask a woman out because i don't know how she's going to react when i'm gonna ask her out on a date.
Well if you don't try you will never know ... And if "she" says no .. Then just ask someone else .. Keep trying and you are sure to find the "one" for you ......
jackxsps: I'm not gonna lie, i'm kinda overweight but i'm also embarresed to ask a woman out because i don't know how she's going to react when i'm gonna ask her out on a date.
Make sure you have an ecard to send to a potential date, if it would be an "issue" with someone you're better off not to meet them (superfial if someone cancels but it saves an arkward meet). Otherwise keep trying, no one is perfect!
Am 450 pounds, Shall i reduce some weight or shall i stay the same???
KNenagh: I had it often enough that I was talking to some good looking guy and just thought
In a FEW cases looks can put me off someone (like bad grooming as well) but for me someone intelligent and witty "catches my eye" a lot easier than a "good looking" guy.
jackxsps: I'm not gonna lie, i'm kinda overweight but i'm also embarresed to ask a woman out because i don't know how she's going to react when i'm gonna ask her out on a date.
Have you ever felt buterflies in the air when someone look at you? Have you ever see eyes melted of love? sometimes we attract the wrong people ....see eyes, they never lie.
Looks may not be the ultimate deal breaker, but it serves as an "interest arrester"; something to arrest your interest or attract your attention even before you start looking at other factors. Eventually, someone you did not consider very good looking might win your heart after getting to know them while someone you considered an eye candy may tick you off because of who they are. Bottom line? Don't go purely with looks, because there might be more beneath the looks.
Crucible: Looks may not be the ultimate deal breaker, but it serves as an "interest arrester"; something to arrest your interest or attract your attention even before you start looking at other factors. Eventually, someone you did not consider very good looking might win your heart after getting to know them while someone you considered an eye candy may tick you off because of who they are. Bottom line? Don't go purely with looks, because there might be more beneath the looks.
LonelyMontse08: When one decides to go on a date with someone she or he has to have something that attracted your eyes, in other words looks matter, yes. If you dont like how a person looks no matter if he / she is handsome or beautiful, I dont think you would date them.
Looks arent everything though, one person can be stunning physically but have a rotten personality or attitude and that can make any one look ugly lol.
Very well said; when one goes out on a date, it should go without thinking about it; you both look the best you can for each other. That implies not looking like you just came out of a dumpster...unless going dumpster diving happens to be your date menu...
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