Would you go out with a large person ( Archived) (54)

We are all made different and there's no room for shallowness in today's society... Learn too love the skin we are in..

Hahaha, hilarious.

No wouldn't date someone who weighed more than I did.
Women don't have the same muscle mass as men so even the tallest women wouldn't compare in weight with a man of the same height.

A person can be on the high side of 100 kilograms and not be obese. I think that almost everyone in my old mounted infantry regiment would have weighed more than 100 kilograms. Tearing around the bush for weeks on end with 40 kilograms of equipment strapped to your body will give most men the physique of a refrigerator.
Back in barracks everyone pumped iron to keep their strength up.
At the dojo where I train today most of the men would be north of 100 kilograms, but nobody is obese.
There are a couple of skinny bean poles, but most of us are built like brick outhouses.
As for dating someone who is fat, no. Not under any circumstances.
1. They have poor self esteem and lack of self discipline.
2. They are either experiencing or headed for a world of health problems caused by obesity.
3. Obese people are physically repulsive. Why would anyone want to mate with someone whom they found to be physically repulsive? It does not make sense.

I would prefer not to.

However if he is an interesting person I could.

Any way if there is a spark he will be fit in not time with good eating habits, exercise, a good health program....

I don't know what a 100 kgs is exactly, but I like larger/curvy/chubby girls. I don't know why but that shape just seems to be the most appealing to me. ;)

100kg is 16 stone or 224lbs.
Unless someone is well over 6ft in height it's heart attack territory.

For every person obese, anorexic, good looking or not, intelligent or not, funny or serious, there is someone out there to love and appreciate them ....
We should ask the question "would anyone want to date me?"

I have dated one in the past and she was nice,i dont mind and welcome them in future

A mans weight has nothing to do with why I wouldn't date him.So yes I would date a man if he was heavy.

If someone is tall as in 190 cm, 100 kg is not obese.

I actually don't like skinny men, someone tall with that weight would tick a box for me, but I wouldn't fancy someone obese as in sick and unable to move.

Character over looks any day for me.

Ive dated a few larger ladies in the past, Whats the problem? Larger girls look more healthy than these size 10- , stick thin models. I dont think that just because a girl has a few extra pounds , she hasnt been raiding the fridge at night! it may well be that a persons metabolism doesnt help? I myself am 6' 2" and i struggle to stay at my usual 12stone and yet, i can eat 2 spuds more than a pig!!! BIG GIRLS ARE BEAUTIFUL

My second wife out-weighed me by about 50lbs.

If they are grossly over-weight..........NO.