Would you go out with a large person (54)
Carl96190: A person can be on the high side of 100 kilograms and not be obese. I think that almost everyone in my old mounted infantry regiment would have weighed more than 100 kilograms. Tearing around the bush for weeks on end with 40 kilograms of equipment strapped to your body will give most men the physique of a refrigerator.
Back in barracks everyone pumped iron to keep their strength up.
At the dojo where I train today most of the men would be north of 100 kilograms, but nobody is obese.
There are a couple of skinny bean poles, but most of us are built like brick outhouses.
As for dating someone who is fat, no. Not under any circumstances.
1. They have poor self esteem and lack of self discipline.
2. They are either experiencing or headed for a world of health problems caused by obesity.
3. Obese people are physically repulsive. Why would anyone want to mate with someone whom they found to be physically repulsive? It does not make sense.
Back in barracks everyone pumped iron to keep their strength up.
At the dojo where I train today most of the men would be north of 100 kilograms, but nobody is obese.
There are a couple of skinny bean poles, but most of us are built like brick outhouses.
As for dating someone who is fat, no. Not under any circumstances.
1. They have poor self esteem and lack of self discipline.
2. They are either experiencing or headed for a world of health problems caused by obesity.
3. Obese people are physically repulsive. Why would anyone want to mate with someone whom they found to be physically repulsive? It does not make sense.
OMG OMG Thanks Dr Carl for you education on obese people, I am not obese but If this is the attitude one can assume why you are single!! What a judgemental human you are?? How do you these cateroised people have low self esteem? It could be a number or reason - ie medical - slow metabalism the list goes on.
My partner (whom I met on this site) is way over 100+ kilos, he is a very tall person and no he is not obese, it is apart of his heritage being a Maori to be of a bigger size. He does not have low self esteem or medical issues - I have never met such a well rounded person.
As this is your opinion which is fine - please before you post think of what you are saying other people have feelings - and potential partners might be small but offended by this judgemental attidue - I just hope one day you are not injured and lack movement and medication does not put weight on you.
All people have a right to live in this world with respect from others!!
well I have , bloody sight more than "going out with her" to . Same girl won a pig carring competition . Did not spend much time with her on account of her mad boy friend but what time was "spent" was well spent
what the hell is ectomorphic Felixis , is that something you get when you don't have enough 3 somes ?
epirb: well I have , bloody sight more than "going out with her" to . Same girl won a pig carring competition . Did not spend much time with her on account of her mad boy friend but what time was "spent" was well spent
A pig carrying competition
Sounds like a great day out
Singlelisious: No, I am not attracted to large men.
Well you little
that's not what you said to me 
........................ 
I am really not large - more middle sized with a fuller figure - but defo not for men who prefer petite women
I'd be looking for someone who wants a fuller figured woman (with the emphasis on woman)
no one wants to feel like their partner is not totally happy with them the way they are
I'd be looking for someone who wants a fuller figured woman (with the emphasis on woman)
no one wants to feel like their partner is not totally happy with them the way they are
Jack68: I have dated one in the past and she was nice,i dont mind and welcome them in future
( haven't hugged you in awhile)
jennaleigh21: OMG OMG Thanks Dr Carl for you education on obese people, I am not obese but If this is the attitude one can assume why you are single!! What a judgemental human you are?? How do you these cateroised people have low self esteem? It could be a number or reason - ie medical - slow metabalism the list goes on.
My partner (whom I met on this site) is way over 100+ kilos, he is a very tall person and no he is not obese, it is apart of his heritage being a Maori to be of a bigger size. He does not have low self esteem or medical issues - I have never met such a well rounded person.
As this is your opinion which is fine - please before you post think of what you are saying other people have feelings - and potential partners might be small but offended by this judgemental attidue - I just hope one day you are not injured and lack movement and medication does not put weight on you.
All people have a right to live in this world with respect from others!!
My partner (whom I met on this site) is way over 100+ kilos, he is a very tall person and no he is not obese, it is apart of his heritage being a Maori to be of a bigger size. He does not have low self esteem or medical issues - I have never met such a well rounded person.
As this is your opinion which is fine - please before you post think of what you are saying other people have feelings - and potential partners might be small but offended by this judgemental attidue - I just hope one day you are not injured and lack movement and medication does not put weight on you.
All people have a right to live in this world with respect from others!!
that is how he is - I guess the rest of us are so used to that from him that we didn't notice (or we know it's a waste of time to say anything)
MADDOG69: BMI scale does not account for everything, but with a BMI of 27+ that person would be overweight.
Yes, you're right, it's (slightly) overweight, I would have no problem with that as long as someone isn't heavily overweight with health implications.
KNenagh: Yes, you're right, it's (slightly) overweight, I would have no problem with that as long as someone isn't heavily overweight with health implications.
Yeah. Health problems start to find a statistical correlation at about BMI 28 and above.MADDOG69: Yeah. Health problems start to find a statistical correlation at about BMI 28 and above.
And under 18
Thankfully I'm in the 19-25 BMI group
MADDOG69: Yeah. Health problems start to find a statistical correlation at about BMI 28 and above.
And under 18
Thankfully I'm in the 19-25 BMI group
felixis99: that is how he is - I guess the rest of us are so used to that from him that we didn't notice (or we know it's a waste of time to say anything)
Thanks for the heads up, wont be wasting my time again but wow!!
i fly 747 which is very large
Sure,but I would have to have known them and liked their personality, they should also be aware of the extra pounds and not a Mc D's Fan 
But I'm sure that the extra pounds wouldn't be there long, Plenty of physical exercise, will soon see the buff butt, waist and puppy's.
So yeah no worries
But I'm sure that the extra pounds wouldn't be there long, Plenty of physical exercise, will soon see the buff butt, waist and puppy's.
So yeah no worries
yes , however this person should be attentive to their appearance and not just assume that they should be accepted because they are human or have feelings. in any encounter the first impresion is always your appearance if it is poor then there will be no initial atraction.
seashanty: A general poll on how you feel in general about dating obese people over 100 kgs
Looks aren't everything.
If i really got along with the woman, and clicked in some way, we had lots of similar interests, could talk and get along.. Well yes i would consider going out with her, regardless of her size.
It would come down to personality obviously. If i'd been talking to her for a while and found we had lots in common, and enjoyed her company. Then i don't see how her size would matter..
I'd probably ask her out on a date, yeah, why not !
Morbid obesity is a physical and mental problem. what I read in the views of the forum is that most are so glued to their standards, I wonder if they would be able to manage weight gain that would not fall into the category of morbid obesity but it would be a real problem. others such as 100 pounds because of a metabolic disease.
minnie50: Morbid obesity is a physical and mental problem. what I read in the views of the forum is that most are so glued to their standards, I wonder if they would be able to manage weight gain that would not fall into the category of morbid obesity but it would be a real problem. others such as 100 pounds because of a metabolic disease.
It's very easy to put on weight during an illness, sometimes it's only for a certain amount of time, sometimes it's permanent.
I wonder if people would be superficial and leave their partner if their looks / weight would change after being with them for a while (even if it's not their "fault"?)
I wouldn't but I would be picking a partner more for character then looks...
KNenagh: It's very easy to put on weight during an illness, sometimes it's only for a certain amount of time, sometimes it's permanent.
I wonder if people would be superficial and leave their partner if their looks / weight would change after being with them for a while (even if it's not their "fault"?)
I wouldn't but I would be picking a partner more for character then looks...
I wonder if people would be superficial and leave their partner if their looks / weight would change after being with them for a while (even if it's not their "fault"?)
I wouldn't but I would be picking a partner more for character then looks...
you got the point girl
It would depend on a lot of factors...How they carried themselves, their personality, their own self image etc...But then, that would apply to anyone I dated 
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I do not want to be around people who obssess over weight & size, it's not healthy