Gosh, why would ANY human male or female, do this to another HONEST human?! It just isn't right, but,...I guess this is the way of the world today. I want to become a ..."She's A Bad "Scammer-Jamer"!! Any supporters out there! Not mean, but in a nice way teach them a lesson! Sinserey, 2Whitedoves.. ....Scammer-Jammer!
2Whitedoves: Gosh, why would ANY human male or female, do this to another HONEST human?! It just isn't right, but,...I guess this is the way of the world today. I want to become a ..."She's A Bad "Scammer-Jammer"!! Any supporters out there! Not mean, but in a nice way teach them a lesson! Sincerely, 2Whitedoves.. ....Scammer-Jammer!
2Whitedoves: Gosh, why would ANY human male or female, do this to another HONEST human?! It just isn't right, but,...I guess this is the way of the world today. I want to become a ..."She's A Bad "Scammer-Jamer"!! Any supporters out there! Not mean, but in a nice way teach them a lesson! Sinserey, 2Whitedoves.. ....Scammer-Jammer!
He's is a patient scammer He is a "Woooooer" and a butthead He is scared he met a GOOD woman His power hasbeen out from the storms Wise up 2Whitedives, He's playing you!! A Woman has done this to me too This is typical on this site,get over it Give him/her the benifit of the doubt Smile and move on! BUST HIM/HER or n
Try numbers 2, 3,5 and 7 and perhaps 8...(be a little patient, just in case; and hope for the best. If not, then do smile and move 'on down that lonesome road...'(oh Gawd!, that sounds like some 2 bit country type song...)
I'm so sorry this happened to you too! For some reason there are more like him on this site, then not, but not all, so don't give up. Just smile and move on! It could of been worse, you could of invested 2 or 3 months. You found out and none too soon! God bless.
2Whitedoves: Gosh, why would ANY human male or female, do this to another HONEST human?! It just isn't right, but,...I guess this is the way of the world today. I want to become a ..."She's A Bad "Scammer-Jamer"!! Any supporters out there! Not mean, but in a nice way teach them a lesson! Sinserey, 2Whitedoves.. ....Scammer-Jammer!
I chose #3 and #8. Once upon a time I met someone from here that rocked my world. The words she used to express herself not only to me but others on the site spoke so very profoundly. What she stood up for and how she went about getting it across was fascinating to me. I actually never experienced anything like it before or after and suspect it to be a once in a lifetime chance meeting.
But I blew it. The truth of the matter was I couldn’t handle my truth at the time and pushed this, as you would say, “good” woman away. How very stupid of me looking back. I regret it no doubt. She scared me because she saw the truth in me that I wasn’t willing to accept or claim at the time. I guess you might even say I saw so much of my truth in her and thought wow how have I managed to get so far of track with stuff.
Anyways that’s part of an experience I had here. So if you care for him give him the benefit of the doubt. Try some patience and see if he’s willing to move in your direction. Best wishes.
Lordslady: I'm so sorry this happened to you too! For some reason there are more like him on this site, then not, but not all, so don't give up. Just smile and move on! It could of been worse, you could of invested 2 or 3 months. You found out and none too soon! God bless.
Ageed It sucks to devote so much time and effort into something that's not going anywhere. It's better to find out sooner, rather than later.
Not everyone on here is honest and upfront, keep that in mind and move on. I think it's better to meet someone in person fairly quickly, most people are different when you meet them personally and if it's not for you, it's better to realise that and forget about it.
Interesting to pull the Guy down at this stage. The question is why did he walk away? was this a long distance or did he live nearby?
You are better to arrange a meeting early and see if there is a spark or not, This guy maybe talking to others and thats not a bad sign but he could give you an answer if you ask the question?
I am not saying this guy is a scammer, but everyone is quick to draw conclusions so give him the benefit and ask him questions, that way you get to understand and know the real person
2Whitedoves: Gosh, why would ANY human male or female, do this to another HONEST human?! It just isn't right, but,...I guess this is the way of the world today. I want to become a ..."She's A Bad "Scammer-Jamer"!! Any supporters out there! Not mean, but in a nice way teach them a lesson! Sinserey, 2Whitedoves.. ....Scammer-Jammer!
I do not know exactly what happened but you felt compelled to bring it here for some advice. My first impression was that I do not see any description to evaluate and give a opinion. So all that is left is that it is obvious you do not feel good about it. So I would say to walk away and don't look back. Still wondering how he changed,,if he is from here I think he probably read this....hopefully he is far away and a low level scammer. Good Luck in the future.
solitare: He's is a patient scammer He is a "Woooooer" and a butthead He is scared he met a GOOD woman His power hasbeen out from the storms Wise up 2Whitedives, He's playing you!! A Woman has done this to me too This is typical on this site,get over it Give him/her the benifit of the doubt Smile and move on! BUST HIM/HER or n
Try numbers 2, 3,5 and 7 and perhaps 8...(be a little patient, just in case; and hope for the best. If not, then do smile and move 'on down that lonesome road...'(oh Gawd!, that sounds like some 2 bit country type song...)
Thank you Solitare! That's just what I will do :) lol, We should make it a song!!!
purr4mance: I chose #3 and #8. Once upon a time I met someone from here that rocked my world. The words she used to express herself not only to me but others on the site spoke so very profoundly. What she stood up for and how she went about getting it across was fascinating to me. I actually never experienced anything like it before or after and suspect it to be a once in a lifetime chance meeting.
But I blew it. The truth of the matter was I couldn’t handle my truth at the time and pushed this, as you would say, “good” woman away. How very stupid of me looking back. I regret it no doubt. She scared me because she saw the truth in me that I wasn’t willing to accept or claim at the time. I guess you might even say I saw so much of my truth in her and thought wow how have I managed to get so far of track with stuff.
Anyways that’s part of an experience I had here. So if you care for him give him the benefit of the doubt. Try some patience and see if he’s willing to move in your direction. Best wishes.
Wow, very good story Purr, Definitly food for thought. I would have never thought it that way. I thank you for sharing that!
2intrigued: Ageed It sucks to devote so much time and effort into something that's not going anywhere. It's better to find out sooner, rather than later.
Oh, so very true! I am pretty much over itm it just makes it really hard to believe anyone on this/these sites. It is such a waste of time. AND...it could have been ALOT worse!! Thank you both, see you in the polls.
KNenagh: Not everyone on here is honest and upfront, keep that in mind and move on. I think it's better to meet someone in person fairly quickly, most people are different when you meet them personally and if it's not for you, it's better to realise that and forget about it.
Well stated and so true, I better start going out again!~ Thank you KN
Nikogas: I do not know exactly what happened but you felt compelled to bring it here for some advice. My first impression was that I do not see any description to evaluate and give a opinion. So all that is left is that it is obvious you do not feel good about it. So I would say to walk away and don't look back. Still wondering how he changed,,if he is from here I think he probably read this....hopefully he is far away and a low level scammer. Good Luck in the future.
Thank you Nik, He is a bit of a distance away one state north, so he says! And I am not sure why he suddenly dropped the ball, it was comming close to our first meeting, maybe he wasn't really serious. It was a good learning lesson, and I don't want to bring him down, or talk badly of him, I just wish the scammers and wooers would all start their own site and have a blast scamming each other!!
Lordslady: I'm so sorry this happened to you too! For some reason there are more like him on this site, then not, but not all, so don't give up. Just smile and move on! It could of been worse, you could of invested 2 or 3 months. You found out and none too soon! God bless.
Thank you Lords... Moving on and feeling much better by now! a good experience and I surely learned from it! God Blees you as well :)
The quicker you meet the person the better Not everyone on here is honest and upfront, keep that in mind and move on. I think it's better to meet someone in person fairly quickly, most people are different when you meet them personally and if it's not for you, it's better to realise that and forget about it.[/quote
2Whitedoves: Gosh, why would ANY human male or female, do this to another HONEST human?! It just isn't right, but,...I guess this is the way of the world today. I want to become a ..."She's A Bad "Scammer-Jamer"!! Any supporters out there! Not mean, but in a nice way teach them a lesson! Sinserey, 2Whitedoves.. ....Scammer-Jammer!
That is why you chat with someone to create a picture of him/her and if you think is good you continue otherwise you move on. I believe he needed time to see who you are and he made his mind up now. It doesn't mean you are no good is just you are no good for that person.
2Whitedoves: Gosh, why would ANY human male or female, do this to another HONEST human?! It just isn't right, but,...I guess this is the way of the world today. I want to become a ..."She's A Bad "Scammer-Jamer"!! Any supporters out there! Not mean, but in a nice way teach them a lesson! Sinserey, 2Whitedoves.. ....Scammer-Jammer!
Oh yes!...INDEED!!!! He's writing me back as we speak, Hmmmmm, I will at least give the floor for him to speak, no rollercoaster rides for this girl!! Have a great night ven!
Solamente: I would think he found out you were not what he was looking for... thats all. Happens to most of us.
Solamente..As nature will have it, I would completely think that, and be ok with it except we were planning our first meeting! Just turned coarse out of nowhere ....I appreciaite everyone's feedback and I am all the wiser now! Taking it very lightly on here regarding most, not all profile guys. I REALLY enjoy the folks on the polls! Have a nice night and thank you!
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WHAT TO DO? 2 wks and MANY hrs of chatting, he changes?(Vote Below)
....Scammer-Jammer!