Should u let someone get 2 know u be4 telling them ur bad points or skeletons in the closet? (21)
Looking4Quality: Most people have things they wouldn't tell other people whether it is past mistakes, medical conditions, past addictions, records etc etc you get my drift. my question is should you disclose this early on or is it fairer to let the person really get to know you first?
Why would you want to tell anyone your bad points,
(not that I have any)
We all have a past, but lets leave it thereand live in the present.
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Looking4Quality: Most people have things they wouldn't tell other people whether it is past mistakes, medical conditions, past addictions, records etc etc you get my drift. my question is should you disclose this early on or is it fairer to let the person really get to know you first?
If it's something that could have an impact on the future I would be upfront, if it's in the past, leave it there.
If it's something that can come back and haunt you or has the potential to hurt your partner if he hears it from someone else, I would disclose it.
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Usually i never ask,though am honest from the begining telling her,am open to everything she wants to ask me,and of course she will get an honest anwer.
Looking4Quality: Most people have things they wouldn't tell other people whether it is past mistakes, medical conditions, past addictions, records etc etc you get my drift. my question is should you disclose this early on or is it fairer to let the person really get to know you first?
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Looking4Quality: Most people have things they wouldn't tell other people whether it is past mistakes, medical conditions, past addictions, records etc etc you get my drift. my question is should you disclose this early on or is it fairer to let the person really get to know you first?
I don't know if men hide their bad features but I would advise anyone to ask for a full body photo before taking things further.------ This poll is Archived ------
modermen: I don't know if men hide their bad features but I would advise anyone to ask for a full body photo before taking things further.
Sometimes us women don't even need to ask for an IQ test...------ This poll is Archived ------
Looking4Quality: Most people have things they wouldn't tell other people whether it is past mistakes, medical conditions, past addictions, records etc etc you get my drift. my question is should you disclose this early on or is it fairer to let the person really get to know you first?
Best to tell them so that your friends don't tell them 1st.
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KNenagh: Sometimes us women don't even need to ask for an IQ test...
IQ or an eye test.------ This poll is Archived ------
I have a skeleton in the closet. It's from a pony I did hide in my closet and forget to feed.
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bad points upfront, good points to find out later 
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plainlyjune: bad points upfront, good points to find out later
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plainlyjune: bad points upfront, good points to find out later
After the wedding is a bit too late.
but then again would anyone marry someone who is bi? I have been advised that it happened. What I cannot understand is why the woman was shocked when the man finally discovered that his true calling had whiskers too.
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Lonely1: After the wedding is a bit too late. but then again would anyone marry someone who is bi? I have been advised that it happened. What I cannot understand is why the woman was shocked when the man finally discovered that his true calling had whiskers too.
break it to her/him gently, first day fireman outfit, next cuffs or ropes etc... desensitize your partner to the idea
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plainlyjune: break it to her/him gently, first day fireman outfit, next cuffs or ropes etc... desensitize your partner to the idea
I also like to know if she likes Nutella way in advance!
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Lonely1: I also like to know if she likes Nutella way in advance!
most probably so... that's a given
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plainlyjune: most probably so... that's a given
Well, if everything she buys are over 12 inches: bananas, squash, cucumbers, watermelons...I think that is not breaking it to me gently.
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Lonely1: Well, if everything she buys are over 12 inches: bananas, squash, cucumbers, watermelons...I think that is not breaking it to me gently.
i'm thinking it's not working to your advantage
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Looking4Quality: Most people have things they wouldn't tell other people whether it is past mistakes, medical conditions, past addictions, records etc etc you get my drift. my question is should you disclose this early on or is it fairer to let the person really get to know you first?
I'm not sure ... It seem so complicated to tell .... haizzz ...
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diogoad: I have a skeleton in the closet. It's from a pony I did hide in my closet and forget to feed.
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Looking4Quality: Most people have things they wouldn't tell other people whether it is past mistakes, medical conditions, past addictions, records etc etc you get my drift. my question is should you disclose this early on or is it fairer to let the person really get to know you first?
Confucius say, "He who say all, not get dates."
My opinion varies with the kind of topic. For example, past mistakes, if pertinent, can be left behind or discussed at the appropriate time. Medical conditions I would discuss at the appropriate time, unless she discovers something earlier. Past addictions and criminal records should probably be discussed fairly soon after meeting, to give the other person a chance to see if they want to continue the relationship.
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good triumphs evil always! let them get to know you first and your split personalities comes later
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