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Aug 31, 2012 10:20 AM CSTFor the Ladies. Would You Ever Marry For Money And Security?
Godsgift
GodsgiftGodsgiftEnnis, Clare, Ireland251 Threads 13 Polls 10,040 Posts

For the Ladies. Would You Ever Marry For Money And Security?(Vote Below)

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OK. We've all seen it. Gorgeous looking women in their early 20s married to wrinkly old millionaires. Paul Daniels, Michael Winner, Hugh Heffner and Bruce Forsyth come to mind. God only knows how they cope in the bedroom Well, girls, could you settle for that? conversing
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Aug 31, 2012 10:33 AM CST For the Ladies. Would You Ever Marry For Money And Security?
KNenagh
KNenaghKNenaghAachen, Kilkenny Ireland12 Threads 11,160 Posts
Godsgift: OK. We've all seen it. Gorgeous looking women in their early 20s married to wrinkly old millionaires. Paul Daniels, Michael Winner, Hugh Heffner and Bruce Forsyth come to mind. God only knows how they cope in the bedroom Well, girls, could you settle for that?


No, I never just "settled" for someone so far and not intending to change that. dunno

Live's to short for me to be with someone I don't love and enjoy being with. wine Physical attraction has to be there for me, just the thought of anything else...barf

I prefer the money I'm spending to be mine, no questions to answer that way. grin
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Aug 31, 2012 11:45 AM CST For the Ladies. Would You Ever Marry For Money And Security?
ladymine
ladymineladymineDurban, KwaZulu-Natal South Africa3 Threads 1 Polls 36 Posts
No.. The only person I have ever relied on is myself. Its worked well so far, if I ever thought about getting married again it would have to be for love
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Aug 31, 2012 12:13 PM CST For the Ladies. Would You Ever Marry For Money And Security?
venusenvy
venusenvyvenusenvyCalgary, Alberta Canada27 Threads 20,003 Posts
I create my own security and make my own money soooo thats out. I will never marry again and the two times I did it was for straight up love and nothing else. wine
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Aug 31, 2012 2:04 PM CST For the Ladies. Would You Ever Marry For Money And Security?
Ya gotta be jokin...........even at my age I wouldn´t settle for that!!!!!!!!!!!!grin
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Aug 31, 2012 2:12 PM CST For the Ladies. Would You Ever Marry For Money And Security?
jac379
jac379jac379pontyclun, South Glamorgan, Wales UK25 Threads 3 Polls 12,293 Posts
Godsgift: OK. We've all seen it. Gorgeous looking women in their early 20s married to wrinkly old millionaires. Paul Daniels, Michael Winner, Hugh Heffner and Bruce Forsyth come to mind. God only knows how they cope in the bedroom Well, girls, could you settle for that?

How do you know the women are in it for the money only?

Aren't all the men you mentioned entertainers? Ergo, they might be entertaining.

How about if a woman's got some kind of daddy issue going on and along comes an older bloke, who not only provides security and love, but can do magic tricks, too?
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Aug 31, 2012 2:32 PM CST For the Ladies. Would You Ever Marry For Money And Security?
I would imagine that most of those gorgeous young women did, in actual fact, have their eye on the main chance. Paul & Debbie have actually been together for over 20 years though...........so that can´t have been just greed. However, even in the street, people marry for security......what´s new????
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Aug 31, 2012 2:54 PM CST For the Ladies. Would You Ever Marry For Money And Security?
menu11
menu11menu11Galveston, Texas USA1,323 Posts
Most know what they are like and what they want out of a man. It's self explanatory. Love or no love, some (not all) will aim for thier target where it fis best. conversing
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Aug 31, 2012 3:01 PM CST For the Ladies. Would You Ever Marry For Money And Security?
Godsgift
GodsgiftGodsgiftEnnis, Clare Ireland251 Threads 13 Polls 10,040 Posts
hoolet: I would imagine that most of those gorgeous young women did, in actual fact, have their eye on the main chance. Paul & Debbie have actually been together for over 20 years though...........so that can´t have been just greed. However, even in the street, people marry for security......what´s new????


Only cos Paul didn't have the decency to snuff it and leave her his fortune whilst she was still unwrinkled herself. laugh
Daniels. laugh
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Aug 31, 2012 3:01 PM CST For the Ladies. Would You Ever Marry For Money And Security?
michaelkk
michaelkkmichaelkkkilkenny, Kilkenny Ireland41 Posts
jac379: How do you know the women are in it for the money only?

Aren't all the men you mentioned entertainers? Ergo, they might be entertaining.

How about if a woman's got some kind of daddy issue going on and along comes an older bloke, who not only provides security and love, but can do magic tricks, too?


well..how many young gorgeous women have you seen with a wrinkly old man who has no money? none
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Aug 31, 2012 3:02 PM CST For the Ladies. Would You Ever Marry For Money And Security?
Godsgift
GodsgiftGodsgiftEnnis, Clare Ireland251 Threads 13 Polls 10,040 Posts
jac379: How do you know the women are in it for the money only?

Aren't all the men you mentioned entertainers? Ergo, they might be entertaining.

How about if a woman's got some kind of daddy issue going on and along comes an older bloke, who not only provides security and love, but can do magic tricks, too?


Sorry Jaqs but I think if these guys were gas fitters, they'd be living with wrinklies! laugh
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Aug 31, 2012 3:10 PM CST For the Ladies. Would You Ever Marry For Money And Security?
Off-hand I can't think of any......but I don't happen to think that Debbie is all that gorgeous either. What's yer point anyway???? You envious cos you might never be in the position of attracting these young gorgeous females unless you got lots of money???? Then I suggest you set about remedying that situation ASAP.
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Aug 31, 2012 3:13 PM CST For the Ladies. Would You Ever Marry For Money And Security?
Godsgift
GodsgiftGodsgiftEnnis, Clare Ireland251 Threads 13 Polls 10,040 Posts
hoolet: Off-hand I can't think of any......but I don't happen to think that Debbie is all that gorgeous either. What's yer point anyway???? You envious cos you might never be in the position of attracting these young gorgeous females unless you got lots of money???? Then I suggest you set about remedying that situation ASAP.


I have enough money saved to see me comfortably to my grave.....providing I die by midnight on Sunday. laugh
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Aug 31, 2012 3:15 PM CST For the Ladies. Would You Ever Marry For Money And Security?
michaelkk
michaelkkmichaelkkkilkenny, Kilkenny Ireland41 Posts
hoolet: Off-hand I can't think of any......but I don't happen to think that Debbie is all that gorgeous either. What's yer point anyway???? You envious cos you might never be in the position of attracting these young gorgeous females unless you got lots of money???? Then I suggest you set about remedying that situation ASAP.


are you talking to me?
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Aug 31, 2012 3:29 PM CST For the Ladies. Would You Ever Marry For Money And Security?
michaelkk
michaelkkmichaelkkkilkenny, Kilkenny Ireland41 Posts
well, im guessing you are ha

whats my point? erm..can you not read? ive already given my point, and i never said debbie mcgee was gorgeous, im replying to the thread..ive no idea what ya on about..cant a guy give an opinion on these threads without being accused of having some sort of issue..ha some moody women around

envious? of old men in relationships women who are there for cash..dont be silly
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Aug 31, 2012 3:29 PM CST For the Ladies. Would You Ever Marry For Money And Security?
michaelkk: are you talking to me?


No I wasn´t actually.......I was talking to Godsgift....sorry
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Aug 31, 2012 3:33 PM CST For the Ladies. Would You Ever Marry For Money And Security?
michaelkk
michaelkkmichaelkkkilkenny, Kilkenny Ireland41 Posts
quote=Godsgift]OK. We've all seen it. Gorgeous looking women in their early 20s married to wrinkly old millionaires. Paul Daniels, Michael Winner, Hugh Heffner and Bruce Forsyth come to mind. God only knows how they cope in the bedroom Well, girls, could you settle for that?

no worries comfort
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Aug 31, 2012 3:34 PM CST For the Ladies. Would You Ever Marry For Money And Security?
michaelkk
michaelkkmichaelkkkilkenny, Kilkenny Ireland41 Posts
hoolet: No I wasn´t actually.......I was talking to Godsgift....sorry


wrong person ha

ok..no worries hoolet
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Aug 31, 2012 6:21 PM CST For the Ladies. Would You Ever Marry For Money And Security?
charliejapartee
charliejaparteecharliejaparteeAuckland, New Zealand12 Threads 10 Polls 96 Posts
Godsgift: OK. We've all seen it. Gorgeous looking women in their early 20s married to wrinkly old millionaires. Paul Daniels, Michael Winner, Hugh Heffner and Bruce Forsyth come to mind. God only knows how they cope in the bedroom Well, girls, could you settle for that?
bananasee the banana hook me up with someone young and gorgeous and watch me dance mofo. banana
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Aug 31, 2012 7:37 PM CST For the Ladies. Would You Ever Marry For Money And Security?
WhatUwish4
WhatUwish4WhatUwish4St. Augustine, Florida USA2 Threads 7,986 Posts
Nope. One of the best lessons my parents ever taught me was to always be self-sufficient. They said you never knew if something might happen later in life and you ended up on your own. (how right they were sigh )

With that said, I had a (male) headmaster who once told me, "You can fall in love with a rich man just as easily as you can fall in love with a poor man." At the time I was offended, but in retrospect I suppose he had a point. I would never marry for money - but neither would I marry someone who was a walking fiscal nightmare. If he's not smart enough to manage the little money he has, he's not the guy for me.
bouquet
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Aug 31, 2012 7:39 PM CST For the Ladies. Would You Ever Marry For Money And Security?
Nessa7
Nessa7Nessa7Vulpine's Heart, Cork Ireland8 Threads 1 Polls 1,934 Posts
A woman was telling her friend , "It was I who made my husband a millionaire."
"And what was he before you married him?"
asked the friend.
The woman replied, " A multi-millionaire".
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Aug 31, 2012 7:41 PM CST For the Ladies. Would You Ever Marry For Money And Security?
kennn
kennnkennnMedicine Hat, Alberta Canada25 Threads 5,299 Posts
Nessa7: A woman was telling her friend , "It was I who made my husband a millionaire."
"And what was he before you married him?"
asked the friend.
The woman replied, " A multi-millionaire".

thumbs up laugh
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Aug 31, 2012 7:48 PM CST For the Ladies. Would You Ever Marry For Money And Security?
Scubadiva
ScubadivaScubadivaNew Jersey, USA106 Threads 11 Polls 2,689 Posts
Never say never... If I was pennyless and had a child or two to support and no help coming from anywhere.. who knows what I'd do.
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Aug 31, 2012 7:50 PM CST For the Ladies. Would You Ever Marry For Money And Security?
montemonte
montemontemontemonteunknown, New Jersey USA114 Threads 4 Polls 5,631 Posts
Scubadiva: Never say never... If I was pennyless and had a child or two to support and no help coming from anywhere.. who knows what I'd do.


I was in that boat when I left my husband with a 4 year old child.

I didn't have any money except the money I got for selling my diamond ring.

I didn't have a car and had to walk to work and take a bus to the stores

I found a job, a mediocre apartment and never counted on anyone for anything.
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Aug 31, 2012 8:02 PM CST For the Ladies. Would You Ever Marry For Money And Security?
LonelyMontse08
LonelyMontse08LonelyMontse08San Pedro Sula, Honduras15 Threads 797 Posts
def NOT..... the only reason I would decide to share the rest of my life with a man in marriage is love, if I love him and he loves me
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Aug 31, 2012 8:24 PM CST For the Ladies. Would You Ever Marry For Money And Security?
2intrigued
2intrigued2intriguedMississauga, Ontario Canada11 Threads 18,576 Posts
A co-worker once mentioned that I should try one of those millionaire dating sites just for fun and I told her that I'm not the type to take advantage of people regardless of whether he cares or not. Money is good if love revolves around material things but it doesn't buy the love I'm seeking. wine
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Aug 31, 2012 8:26 PM CST For the Ladies. Would You Ever Marry For Money And Security?
WhatUwish4: Nope. One of the best lessons my parents ever taught me was to always be self-sufficient. They said you never knew if something might happen later in life and you ended up on your own. (how right they were )

neither would I marry someone...If he's not smart enough to manage the little money he has, he's not the guy for me.

So, a man whose budget is "ingo=outgo" wouldn't work for you? Hey, at least I have a balanced budget, which is more than I can say for the government! rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing

Fortunately, there are women in the world who will go with guys with limited income. I know, because I had two (both my wives.) cheering applause
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Aug 31, 2012 9:56 PM CST For the Ladies. Would You Ever Marry For Money And Security?
WhatUwish4
WhatUwish4WhatUwish4St. Augustine, Florida USA2 Threads 7,986 Posts
HuggerMan4U: neither would I marry someone...If he's not smart enough to manage the little money he has, he's not the guy for me.

So, a man whose budget is "ingo=outgo" wouldn't work for you? Hey, at least I have a balanced budget, which is more than I can say for the government!

Fortunately, there are women in the world who will go with guys with limited income. I know, because I had two (both my wives.)


No Hugger, that is specifically NOT what I said. My point was that while I don't care if he's wealthy or living on a shoestring - as long as he is living within his means and not a financial train wreck. I don't care if he has money or not, but if he is in debt up to his eyeballs it tells me he doesn't make smart choices and isn't very responsible.
scold
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Aug 31, 2012 10:14 PM CST For the Ladies. Would You Ever Marry For Money And Security?
WhatUwish4: No Hugger, that is specifically NOT what I said. My point was that while I don't care if he's wealthy or living on a shoestring - as long as he is living within his means and not a financial train wreck. I don't care if he has money or not, but if he is in debt up to his eyeballs it tells me he doesn't make smart choices and isn't very responsible.


Thank you for the clarification.
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Sep 1, 2012 5:50 PM CST For the Ladies. Would You Ever Marry For Money And Security?
Ellla
ElllaElllast julians, Majjistral Malta1 Posts
marryingbfor money doesnt lead to happiness. it's all about the click, the spark. if that person you click with has money well and goos. I'd think twice though about being married to someone with financial insecurity. SOmetimes it's not even the amount of money they have but the amountbof money they impulsively spend.
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Sep 1, 2012 6:07 PM CST For the Ladies. Would You Ever Marry For Money And Security?
Ellla: marryingbfor money doesnt lead to happiness. it's all about the click, the spark. if that person you click with has money well and goos. I'd think twice though about being married to someone with financial insecurity. SOmetimes it's not even the amount of money they have but the amountbof money they impulsively spend.


I had a coworker whose family sacrificed for years (no eating out, no ordering out for food, no movie theaters, etc.), and by doing this he was able to keep out of debt and to pay off his mortgage way early. Plus, it taught his kids that sacrifices eventually bring rewards.
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