is true love hard to find??? (127)
Looks to me like most people WON´T find it.............cos they don´t know what they´re looking for...........S..A..D
dee048: I gave my definition of true love, alas you didnt agree with it. But in my opinion, yes I had it once, so I know what it is (in my opinion). And not complaining by any means, but merely pointed out that a dating site would not be the place to expect to find it. :-) Dating sites you would expect to go on dates but not to expect much more than that :-D But if someone DID find true love on here, then fair play to them...maybe thats another thread. How many people on this site have found love..............let alone true love.....lol
I found love when I was married in 1962. He died in 1975.
Never found a love that was an honest love after that.
KNenagh: I tried to keep it simple - it's getting fairly complicated from what I can see!
Lol it sure is hee hee.
Hi ITZ, is the definition of true love different in your part of the world?
montemonte: I almost missed you post Dee. Somehow it got caught in the middle of my post and I saw it by accident. Thanks anyway.
I know....I thought I was at the end of it doh!!! lol and youre welcome :-)
montemonte: I found love when I was married in 1962. He died in 1975.
Never found a love that was an honest love after that.
Never found a love that was an honest love after that.
Ah thats so sad Monte....and once you had it, you know what you are looking for..
Rather dont you think its worth looking hard for? 
I guess it is what it feels like in your heart ... Its connection between those two hearts ....
No need to go looking for it ... If its mean for you, it will find you ....
No need to go looking for it ... If its mean for you, it will find you ....
, 
but no matter 
; 
sometimes, life is a dream 
and dreams, refuse to be just dreams 
ITZTLACOLIUHQUI: You are "brutally" realistic , but no matter ; sometimes, life is a dream and dreams, refuse to be just dreams !
Well, I do wear rosetinted glasses when I meet someone, but sooner or later I will be realistic.
Dreams are very important for everyone, and some of them will come true.
If we stop dreaming, then our life isn't worth living in my opinion.
ITZTLACOLIUHQUI: You are "brutally" realistic , but no matter ; sometimes, life is a dream and dreams, refuse to be just dreams !
Well, I do wear rosetinted glasses when I meet someone, but sooner or later I will be realistic.
Dreams are very important for everyone, and some of them will come true.
If we stop dreaming, then our life isn't worth living in my opinion.
Well until I find it I will stick to my original theory...A hard man is good to find 
Carl96190: Love is a delusional state caused by an alteration in brain chemistry.
See:
See:
You could be right there Carl. The trick is finding someone to share it with and to live out each other's delusions. Simple ....
Billions of religious folk seem to achieve it every day. The next trick is prolonging a return to sanity for as long as possible ....
Hi Pedro ...
perhaps it is a just hard to live up to.
dee048: I dont think you could ever find that on a dating site like this :-) ....I think people on here are always "keeping their options open" and dont think people give enough time to get to know someone before moving on to the next...maybe Im wrong....but...maybe im not.
Real love is when you bump into someone and something happens straight away :-)
Real love is when you bump into someone and something happens straight away :-)
That initial "wow factor" could be infatuation as well. Infatuation doesn't always lead to love once the "honeymoon period" is over.
in my experience it can be easy to find but difficult to keep, sadly.
Come on!
Its a total delusion of thought.
Need I say more.
Soph
Its a total delusion of thought.
Need I say more.
Soph
hoolet: Looks to me like most people WON´T find it.............cos they don´t know what they´re looking for...........S..A..D
I wonder sometimes as well if we close our minds to possibilities due to the guidelines we place on what/who we are looking for. We may think we want this, and that, and another thing in a partner, and perhaps miss out on a very special someone because he/she didn't fit neatly into what we thought we were looking for.
Kaybee50: I wonder sometimes as well if we close our minds to possibilities due to the guidelines we place on what/who we are looking for. We may think we want this, and that, and another thing in a partner, and perhaps miss out on a very special someone because he/she didn't fit neatly into what we thought we were looking for.
RA RA RA
xxSoph
Kaybee50: I wonder sometimes as well if we close our minds to possibilities due to the guidelines we place on what/who we are looking for. We may think we want this, and that, and another thing in a partner, and perhaps miss out on a very special someone because he/she didn't fit neatly into what we thought we were looking for.
I've thought of that. and tried to be open minded. ended up loving someone that was outside my general plan. twice. still crashed and burned.
sucks being the common denominator in my own loneliness.
sophiasummer: RA RA RA
xxSoph
xxSoph
Soph, are you Ra-ing me?
I'm not sure if that's a good thing or a bad thing.
sweetietreat: I've thought of that. and tried to be open minded. ended up loving someone that was outside my general plan. twice. still crashed and burned.
sucks being the common denominator in my own loneliness.
sucks being the common denominator in my own loneliness.
But the good news is, they are stepping stones Treat...and with each experience, you learn more about yourself. SOOOOOOOOOOOO
One must be open minded
As much as we might want it that way.
Yes, maybe,or no/
Bla bla bla...
Soph xx
One must be open minded
As much as we might want it that way.
Yes, maybe,or no/
Bla bla bla...
Soph xx
sophiasummer: SOOOOOOOOOOOO
One must be open minded
As much as we might want it that way.
Yes, maybe,or no/
Bla bla bla...
Soph xx
One must be open minded
As much as we might want it that way.
Yes, maybe,or no/
Bla bla bla...
Soph xx
It was a bad thing I guess.
Ok, I think I'll go wash my cat now.
Kaybee50: Soph, are you Ra-ing me?
I'm not sure if that's a good thing or a bad thing.
I'm not sure if that's a good thing or a bad thing.
Ra-ing?
I eqvelent that to
All equal comes above the sum.
A good thing.
Just having some fun.
I bow my head in shame...yet
Soph xx
Kaybee50: It was a bad thing I guess.
Ok, I think I'll go wash my cat now.
Ok, I think I'll go wash my cat now.
What! Wash your cat!
hahaha!
You're doggone right love is hard to find. It only happened once in my life (2nd marriage).
pedro27: well
So far, every woman treats her dog better than her man.
They can't tell the truth, so you can never trust her.
They will pour their heart and soul into a relationship with a turd, then becry all men are scum, and won't even think about being with the nice guy who is truly a gentleman.
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Noone has defined 'true love' with any level of logic, ergo its not logical to think you can find it, or put a measure upon finding it.
Looking for something indefinable and somehow ultimate, will lead to disappointment because you will always be wondering whether its true, or genuinely true, of really, really true, or quite true enough.
Surely that's exactly the mindset which leads to the constant looking which you complain about and believe people to be incapable of 'true love' for? That seems a little ironic, to me.
I gave my definition of true love, alas you didnt agree with it. But in my opinion, yes I had it once, so I know what it is (in my opinion). And not complaining by any means, but merely pointed out that a dating site would not be the place to expect to find it. :-) Dating sites you would expect to go on dates but not to expect much more than that :-D But if someone DID find true love on here, then fair play to them...maybe thats another thread. How many people on this site have found love..............let alone true love.....lol