First of all sofarsogood doesn't even have a photo, so how he is on the list is beyond me. These who do you fancy threads drive me daft,if you fancy someone tell them through mail, not on the forum. Wgat if they don't feel the same? You are then humilliating them on the forum.
Also most people on this site I imagine are here because they struggle to attract people in conventional social settings and many of us have confidence issues. Why make people feel worse about themselvesby excluding them from polls like this?
scriobhneoir: Also most people on this site I imagine are here because they struggle to attract people in conventional social settings and many of us have confidence issues.
That's a fierce strong generalisation there, Scribs. I'd like to think, me and the people I have met off this place and the Plenty of Fail site were social enough. Just another rod in the pond these sites are for some.
MADDOG69: That's a fierce strong generalisation there, Scribs. I'd like to think, me and the people I have met off this place and the Plenty of Fail site were social enough. Just another rod in the pond these sites are for some.
I agree Ive no confidence issues and I meet plenty of people in my everyday life Ive no problem chatting up women in a social setting. This is just another medium in which to meet people and enlarge the social circle
MADDOG69: That's a fierce strong generalisation there, Scribs. I'd like to think, me and the people I have met off this place and the Plenty of Fail site were social enough. Just another rod in the pond these sites are for some.
I'm not saying people here aren't social, but at the end of the day if people really found it as easy as they claim to pull, would they have joined up here in the first place, I very much doubt it. After a while people use this as just a forum but I doubt anyone uses it that way at the start.
For the record I also think the system of rating photos here should be scrapped.
jaysuis more drama just cause people give views, does not mean you stop people dont reply to my private mails or public posts or might even like my threads do i stop, hell no as its about what i like and not how i think other people will like me
anniebaby: People wonder why things are so quiet in here................no one wants to come on to see people name calling or fighting. It does no harm to have a laugh, hell I get more put downs on here than most and don't make to many poll lists but I just laugh it's only a bit of fun.
I don't get where this name dropping and back slapping is coming from, people tend to pick people who are on here posting a lot to name that's hardly back slapping
anniebaby: People wonder why things are so quiet in here................no one wants to come on to see people name calling or fighting. It does no harm to have a laugh, hell I get more put downs on here than most and don't make to many poll lists but I just laugh it's only a bit of fun.
I don't get where this name dropping and back slapping is coming from, people tend to pick people who are on here posting a lot to name that's hardly back slapping
Snowlynx posts a lot, Stan Posts a lot, Skyblue posts a lot, I post a lot Velsix posts a lot there are quite a few others that post as well, but didn't get included. Now don't get me wrong, I don't really care whether I'm included on a stupid childish poll, just saying i think this favourootism is counter-productive for a dating site. I'm not saying that people can't post a thread but just as I defend their right to post these threads i defend my right to say I personally find them daft. That's all I'm saying.
scriobhneoir: Snowlynx posts a lot, Stan Posts a lot, Skyblue posts a lot, I post a lot Velsix posts a lot there are quite a few others that post as well, but didn't get included. Now don't get me wrong, I don't really care whether I'm included on a stupid childish poll, just saying i think this favourootism is counter-productive for a dating site. I'm not saying that people can't post a thread but just as I defend their right to post these threads i defend my right to say I personally find them daft. That's all I'm saying.
you do care..otherwise you wouldn't be making such a song and dance about it all why wasn't I included in the poll?
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