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Sometimes i may have the sense that I'm so happy but it seems to be difficult to know exactly the reason which hides behind pleasure and happiness For me,if I'm being asked such question,i would be so much worried and confused,rather i seem to answer with some reasonable answer at least to me,, It's always the traditional one which is HEALTH........
I am happy because I choose to be happy, not because of any external event. I choose to appreciate all that life has given me and to overlook the negative aspects.
To me, happiness comes in different terms, short term, long term, or simply never happens. It's a state of mind. sometimes a moment,others last more, when you fullfill your carences, whn your challenges are done, when you fill your emptiness...happiness is different for each one.
Jillll: I am happy because I choose to be happy, not because of any external event. I choose to appreciate all that life has given me and to overlook the negative aspects.
If people can't be happy within themselves, even when there is nothing to do at the moment, then how can they ever be happy with anybody else? Happiness radiates from within, and shows up on the face as a smile.
One thing I notice from checking out hundreds of profiles is that I'm much more attracted to women that have a great smile in their picture. The cute little smile that Jill has in her picture makes her incredibly intriguing to me, because it shows me that there is much more to be discovered behind that smile.
Jillll: I am happy because I choose to be happy, not because of any external event. I choose to appreciate all that life has given me and to overlook the negative aspects.
Words have power, even words we say to ourselves. I find myself thanking God every morning I wake up, telling myself what a cool house I get to live in, enough to eat, friendly neighbors, the beach, the bay, the antiques, the pictures on the wall and my good sturdy waffle stomper boots. Everything is jake--we are far more fortunate than we sometimes realize. Our trash would make wealthy people out of some in other countries. You know what else is a choice? Being stressed. People who make "stress" a lifestyle can change that. All it takes is a little re-arranging of priorities. If you find yourself constantly late, especially for work, start out 20 or even 30 minutes earlier. Make THAT a lifestyle, not being late. Schedule things (it works) like housework, grocery shopping. The world is closer to our fingertips than we realize. All it takes is a little thought, and so much could be easier.
HuggerMan4U: If people can't be happy within themselves, even when there is nothing to do at the moment, then how can they ever be happy with anybody else? Happiness radiates from within, and shows up on the face as a smile.
One thing I notice from checking out hundreds of profiles is that I'm much more attracted to women that have a great smile in their picture. The cute little smile that Jill has in her picture makes her incredibly intriguing to me, because it shows me that there is much more to be discovered behind that smile.
Does happiness always needs to have reasons? For me, Happiness comes if I feel like it. Doesn't need to be motivated in a very intense way. Little things can make me happy.
You are so right Huggy. I've met so many people from here that think if they
HuggerMan4U: If people can't be happy within themselves, even when there is nothing to do at the moment, then how can they ever be happy with anybody else? Happiness radiates from within, and shows up on the face as a smile.
One thing I notice from checking out hundreds of profiles is that I'm much more attracted to women that have a great smile in their picture. The cute little smile that Jill has in her picture makes her incredibly intriguing to me, because it shows me that there is much more to be discovered behind that smile.
You are so right Huggy. I've met so many people from here that think if they find the right person they will be happy. They may be happy temporarily but in time they will go back to being their usual unhappy self.
rohaan: Words have power, even words we say to ourselves. I find myself thanking God every morning I wake up, telling myself what a cool house I get to live in, enough to eat, friendly neighbors, the beach, the bay, the antiques, the pictures on the wall and my good sturdy waffle stomper boots. Everything is jake--we are far more fortunate than we sometimes realize. Our trash would make wealthy people out of some in other countries. You know what else is a choice? Being stressed. People who make "stress" a lifestyle can change that. All it takes is a little re-arranging of priorities. If you find yourself constantly late, especially for work, start out 20 or even 30 minutes earlier. Make THAT a lifestyle, not being late. Schedule things (it works) like housework, grocery shopping. The world is closer to our fingertips than we realize. All it takes is a little thought, and so much could be easier.
I totally agree with appreciating everything you have been given. I appreciate everything from my kids to the smell of jasmine when I go for a walk and it makes a huge difference in my outlook on life. You're right about stress too. I find my day at work always goes better when I come early and I have also decided to give up things that cause stress. I only wish I had learned all this when I was younger.
waad_hadid: Sometimes i may have the sense that I'm so happy but it seems to be difficult to know exactly the reason which hides behind pleasure and happiness For me,if I'm being asked such question,i would be so much worried and confused,rather i seem to answer with some reasonable answer at least to me,, It's always the traditional one which is HEALTH........
I am always a happy man but you given some options as a question.Ok i have 3 male kids and a daughter who is younger one,by the time she was born GOD has become more blessed on me and my business is expanding rapidly
what a lovely topic! I call the kind of happiness you describe being at peace
I think it does come from the inside. It is a realization of the things in life that are truly important, and living life in accordance to ones chosen values. ANd choosing those values for oneself is a big part of that, in my opinion
that kind of concordance from within bring happiness and positive energy to many external events
felixis99: what a lovely topic! I call the kind of happiness you describe being at peace
I think it does come from the inside. It is a realization of the things in life that are truly important, and living life in accordance to ones chosen values. ANd choosing those values for oneself is a big part of that, in my opinion
that kind of concordance from within bring happiness and positive energy to many external events
Jillll: I am happy because I choose to be happy, not because of any external event. I choose to appreciate all that life has given me and to overlook the negative aspects.
Happiness is just one of our states of mind and I work hard at being happy, sadness sometimes mistaken as depression, is another state of mind. They do truly compliment themselves and are an indicator of how balanced ones life is, I don't mind being sad but I love being happy. Sometimes you need to look at yourself and ask why am I sad it may be the people around you or it maybe just you. What ever the reason there is an solution and action required, I try to be humble and I am grateful so I am happy to be! Just my thoughts not preaching
I am happy coz i always positive thinking and thanksfull to GOD for whatever I am. My happiness will be more and more when i can be usefull for other, when i can help other. Happiness is blessing, and to feel happy or not depend the way we thanks for that.
we all make our own happiness by how we meet our opportunities and challenges. Are they devastating and take away incentive? Or are they just lessons to be learned and used?
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One day,you felt that you were a happy man,,do you feel that your happiness comes from(Vote Below)
For me,if I'm being asked such question,i would be so much worried and confused,rather i seem to answer with some reasonable answer at least to me,,
It's always the traditional one which is HEALTH........