pat123: i have a photo available,but prefer to decide who i send it to,think if you mention you are prepared to send photo,that helps
I agree..after reading someone's profile, if you think you have something in common, you can exchange photos later. I don't think looks are unimportant, but if there is nothing more then physical attraction, why bother. And besides, there are a lot of people on this site who are only driven by the appearance and it would save you a lot of trouble not having to delete all the unwanted mail. Not to mention there's a lot of people here abusing the dating sites, so the best way to protect yourself is to have the option of choosing who sees your photo. If there was an option on this site that made sure only your friends can see your photo, I would upload one for sure. So if my not having a picture bothers someone, they can always move on to the next profile ;))
ITrinity: Some are too ashamed of being single and looking; or ashamed of saying it out loud...
It s true.This is the right answer in other thread why they are more men than women in CS.There are such "Gossip Ladies".When a woman is a single they said a lot of gossips about her.But about single men they said nothing."Man is a man"probably they thought.
kidatheart: I don't understand, but maybe different cultures look down upon unmarried or divorced people. I've been single for 8 years and really most of my life. I feel pretty good about it!
Dear Jan, why? .. hope to explain .. I posted my photo when applied in the first few weeks, but never felt happy after. I'm good looking, but may be because of my sensitive career and also because of my family, they may not understand or accept that for me I would like to do so , it makes it easier for the others at least to feel me, although pictures are not enough for that , but give a clue. I never hesitate to send my picture or to show my face after few e-mails .
SuZana is actually an international model....she's stunning....to post her photo on a dating site would cause the servers to shut down.....and damage her daily fee rates...
...but if want to visit her web site, here it is...
SuZaNa: Dear Jan, why? .. hope to explain .. I posted my photo when applied in the first few weeks, but never felt happy after. I'm good looking, but may be because of my sensitive career and also because of my family, they may not understand or accept that for me I would like to do so , it makes it easier for the others at least to feel me, although pictures are not enough for that , but give a clue. I never hesitate to send my picture or to show my face after few e-mails .
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I agree..after reading someone's profile, if you think you have something in common, you can exchange photos later. I don't think looks are unimportant, but if there is nothing more then physical attraction, why bother. And besides, there are a lot of people on this site who are only driven by the appearance and it would save you a lot of trouble not having to delete all the unwanted mail. Not to mention there's a lot of people here abusing the dating sites, so the best way to protect yourself is to have the option of choosing who sees your photo. If there was an option on this site that made sure only your friends can see your photo, I would upload one for sure. So if my not having a picture bothers someone, they can always move on to the next profile ;))