How long have you been on CS, please honest answer's.....curious what I'm up against :) (148)

Jan 9, 2013 9:31 AM CST How long have you been on CS, please honest answer's.....curious what I'm up against :)
shaaz_khan
shaaz_khanshaaz_khanglasgow, Pakistan5 Threads 2 Polls 306 Posts
3 years
Jan 9, 2013 9:42 AM CST How long have you been on CS, please honest answer's.....curious what I'm up against :)
bit over a year, now. ONly here for the banter and forum.
Jan 9, 2013 9:53 AM CST How long have you been on CS, please honest answer's.....curious what I'm up against :)
jac379
jac379jac379pontyclun, South Glamorgan, Wales UK25 Threads 3 Polls 12,293 Posts
Coming up for 3 years.

What are you 'up against' and how does our membership duration affect that?
Jan 9, 2013 9:53 AM CST How long have you been on CS, please honest answer's.....curious what I'm up against :)
OkieChic
OkieChicOkieChicOklahoma City, Oklahoma USA11 Threads 4 Polls 649 Posts
MADDOG69: bit over a year, now. ONly here for the banter and forum.


have a feeling that's all I'm going to be here for lol
Jan 9, 2013 9:56 AM CST How long have you been on CS, please honest answer's.....curious what I'm up against :)
OkieChic
OkieChicOkieChicOklahoma City, Oklahoma USA11 Threads 4 Polls 649 Posts
felixis99: ummmmmmm.......hello...........everyone's join date is posted in here somewhere....on the profile I think


I looked, couldn't find it...can you tell me where?
Jan 9, 2013 9:59 AM CST How long have you been on CS, please honest answer's.....curious what I'm up against :)
jac379
jac379jac379pontyclun, South Glamorgan, Wales UK25 Threads 3 Polls 12,293 Posts
OkieChic: I scared to even try anything here...all I hear is scammers, scammers scammers...lol, so why even try

A dating site is a tool. Its up to you how you use it.

If you recognise the scammers, I suggest you block and delete and think no more about them, other than to laugh at some of the funny things they come out with.

There are plenty of lovely people on this site, but I'd recommend the best way to interact is to get to know people naturally. The facilities like the forums/blogs etc. are good for this. Focus on making friends and enjoying yourself, learn what you can, impart your knowledge and opinions and take the attitude that if someone comes along who you click with, that's a bonus.
Jan 9, 2013 10:00 AM CST How long have you been on CS, please honest answer's.....curious what I'm up against :)
Galactic_bodhi
Galactic_bodhiGalactic_bodhiAkron, Ohio USA609 Threads 1 Polls 9,196 Posts
A long, long time ago, in a version of the internet far, far away...there was me. And now...there's us.

IF this is to work for anyone, limits have to be flexible, as from Ohio to Oregon and back to Ohio has this journey through space time has taken me, and us...I am not on this site for a relationship anymore, as that part of the equation has been simplified.

I stand as a testimony that this site can work...if you have an open mind, and are not geographically prejudiced.

Good luck. May the force [of love] be with you.
Jan 9, 2013 10:03 AM CST How long have you been on CS, please honest answer's.....curious what I'm up against :)
Galactic_bodhi
Galactic_bodhiGalactic_bodhiAkron, Ohio USA609 Threads 1 Polls 9,196 Posts
My join date is broken. I think it was the aftermath of the Mayan long calender that did it.

2012 was not the end of the world...just the end of join dates...and twinkies...

felixis99: ummmmmmm.......hello...........everyone's join date is posted in here somewhere....on the profile I think
Jan 9, 2013 10:06 AM CST How long have you been on CS, please honest answer's.....curious what I'm up against :)
OkieChic
OkieChicOkieChicOklahoma City, Oklahoma USA11 Threads 4 Polls 649 Posts
Galactic_bodhi: A long, long time ago, in a version of the internet far, far away...there was me. And now...there's us.

IF this is to work for anyone, limits have to be flexible, as from Ohio to Oregon and back to Ohio has this journey through space time has taken me, and us...I am not on this site for a relationship anymore, as that part of the equation has been simplified.

I stand as a testimony that this site can work...if you have an open mind, and are not geographically prejudiced.

Good luck. May the force [of love] be with you.


that is a wonderful story and ending...Congrats! I do suppose it takes a lot of nerve to make that first inital move to someone out of state, meaning the first meeting and all...bet that was nerve wrecking/exciting....that would be the scariest part is meeting for the first time...thanks for the uplifting story :)
Jan 9, 2013 10:08 AM CST How long have you been on CS, please honest answer's.....curious what I'm up against :)
OkieChic
OkieChicOkieChicOklahoma City, Oklahoma USA11 Threads 4 Polls 649 Posts
jac379: A dating site is a tool. Its up to you how you use it.

If you recognise the scammers, I suggest you block and delete and think no more about them, other than to laugh at some of the funny things they come out with.

There are plenty of lovely people on this site, but I'd recommend the best way to interact is to get to know people naturally. The facilities like the forums/blogs etc. are good for this. Focus on making friends and enjoying yourself, learn what you can, impart your knowledge and opinions and take the attitude that if someone comes along who you click with, that's a bonus.


thank you for the excellent, sound advise....
Jan 9, 2013 10:11 AM CST How long have you been on CS, please honest answer's.....curious what I'm up against :)
lavina
lavinalavinaParadise, Indonesia12 Threads 4,755 Posts
been for 2 year & waiting for my card member in here laugh

wave
Jan 9, 2013 10:13 AM CST How long have you been on CS, please honest answer's.....curious what I'm up against :)
paulness
paulnesspaulnessmanalapan, New Jersey USA5 Threads 5 Polls 53 Posts
Years, and years!!!! doh grin grin grin
Jan 9, 2013 10:13 AM CST How long have you been on CS, please honest answer's.....curious what I'm up against :)
OkieChic
OkieChicOkieChicOklahoma City, Oklahoma USA11 Threads 4 Polls 649 Posts
Just wondering, how do you make friends on this site? Seems pretty complicated

confused
Jan 9, 2013 10:14 AM CST How long have you been on CS, please honest answer's.....curious what I'm up against :)
menu11
menu11menu11Galveston, Texas USA1,323 Posts
OkieChic: Just wondering how long most have been on CS...please leave comments as well :)


Well, I didn't want to say how long Ive been here @ CS. I'm going to tell, but don't tell anyone, okay? Been here let's see.confused Danm! I already forgot again.doh This 'S' ain't gonna work.

laugh
Jan 9, 2013 10:15 AM CST How long have you been on CS, please honest answer's.....curious what I'm up against :)
montemonte
montemontemontemonteunknown, New Jersey USA114 Threads 4 Polls 5,631 Posts
OkieChic: that is a wonderful story and ending...Congrats! I do suppose it takes a lot of nerve to make that first inital move to someone out of state, meaning the first meeting and all...bet that was nerve wrecking/exciting....that would be the scariest part is meeting for the first time...thanks for the uplifting story :)



I know someone who moved from Scotland/Ireland, can't remember which, to be with the man she loved in New York. After a lengthy stay with him they married and are living happily ever after.

So it does work if you want it to work. But you can't think it's going to happen overnight. It takes patience and putting yourself in the forums and blogs like Jac suggested.

You'll get a lot of scammers because you're pretty. Just delete and block them. When you're least expecting it you're knight in shining armour will show up..bouquet
Jan 9, 2013 10:19 AM CST How long have you been on CS, please honest answer's.....curious what I'm up against :)
OkieChic
OkieChicOkieChicOklahoma City, Oklahoma USA11 Threads 4 Polls 649 Posts
montemonte: I know someone who moved from Scotland/Ireland, can't remember which, to be with the man she loved in New York. After a lengthy stay with him they married and are living happily ever after.

So it does work if you want it to work. But you can't think it's going to happen overnight. It takes patience and putting yourself in the forums and blogs like Jac suggested.

You'll get a lot of scammers because you're pretty. Just delete and block them. When you're least expecting it you're knight in shining armour will show up..


Boy and I thought just going from state to state would be nerve wrecking, but from country to country....WOW

Well, I suppose get use to seeing me in forums then :)

thanks for the advise and compliment!


kiss
Jan 9, 2013 10:20 AM CST How long have you been on CS, please honest answer's.....curious what I'm up against :)
Galactic_bodhi
Galactic_bodhiGalactic_bodhiAkron, Ohio USA609 Threads 1 Polls 9,196 Posts
OkieChic: Just wondering, how do you make friends on this site? Seems pretty complicated


Pretty much like anywhere else. You have to put yourself out there. There was a time when I posted a lot of my poetry in the forums, long before they made a special area for it.

It attracted many admirers and friends. So my advice is, play to your strengths, whatever they may be.

I don't post so much anymore. Trying to cut down. I'm on a diet.

Again, good luck. wave
Jan 9, 2013 10:20 AM CST How long have you been on CS, please honest answer's.....curious what I'm up against :)
OkieChic
OkieChicOkieChicOklahoma City, Oklahoma USA11 Threads 4 Polls 649 Posts
menu11: Well, I didn't want to say how long Ive been here @ CS. I'm going to tell, but don't tell anyone, okay? Been here let's see. Danm! I already forgot again. This 'S' ain't gonna work.


lol...that could be a good thing, right?

banana
Jan 9, 2013 10:22 AM CST How long have you been on CS, please honest answer's.....curious what I'm up against :)
OkieChic
OkieChicOkieChicOklahoma City, Oklahoma USA11 Threads 4 Polls 649 Posts
paulness: Years, and years!!!!


that's a good thing, right? lol
Jan 9, 2013 10:22 AM CST How long have you been on CS, please honest answer's.....curious what I'm up against :)
Boban1
Boban1Boban1bigplace, Central Serbia Serbia144 Threads 5 Polls 18,789 Posts
OkieChic: Just wondering how long most have been on CS...please leave comments as well :)

Less than a month...

uh oh
Jan 9, 2013 10:25 AM CST How long have you been on CS, please honest answer's.....curious what I'm up against :)
OkieChic
OkieChicOkieChicOklahoma City, Oklahoma USA11 Threads 4 Polls 649 Posts
Guess I should of had "since the invention of the internet as an option"...LOL

yay
Jan 9, 2013 10:27 AM CST How long have you been on CS, please honest answer's.....curious what I'm up against :)
Boban1
Boban1Boban1bigplace, Central Serbia Serbia144 Threads 5 Polls 18,789 Posts
ops sorry didn`t see the " please honest answer"

nerd
Jan 9, 2013 10:28 AM CST How long have you been on CS, please honest answer's.....curious what I'm up against :)
OkieChic
OkieChicOkieChicOklahoma City, Oklahoma USA11 Threads 4 Polls 649 Posts
Boban1: ops sorry didn`t see the " please honest answer"


LOL...typical male

peace
Jan 9, 2013 10:32 AM CST How long have you been on CS, please honest answer's.....curious what I'm up against :)
Sterling_Wollops
Sterling_WollopsSterling_WollopsMelburn't, Victoria Australia22 Threads 2 Polls 1,749 Posts
OkieChic: Just wondering, how do you make friends on this site? Seems pretty complicated


Just say my name 3 times and i will appear beer
Jan 9, 2013 10:33 AM CST How long have you been on CS, please honest answer's.....curious what I'm up against :)
Boban1
Boban1Boban1bigplace, Central Serbia Serbia144 Threads 5 Polls 18,789 Posts
OkieChic: LOL...typical male

Is this a good moment to ask if you ..ermmm

PS;I have no idea what ermmm actually is but that expression popped up in one thread and since then Im sleepless ...laugh
Jan 9, 2013 10:35 AM CST How long have you been on CS, please honest answer's.....curious what I'm up against :)
OkieChic
OkieChicOkieChicOklahoma City, Oklahoma USA11 Threads 4 Polls 649 Posts
OkieChic: Hello Jac

you seem like a very intelligent, informative woman, don't be surprised if I ask you advise in the future about people or other things I may find confusing....Nice to meet you! Thanks again for the advise!


Oh yah, my name is Von wave
Jan 9, 2013 10:36 AM CST How long have you been on CS, please honest answer's.....curious what I'm up against :)
Sterling_Wollops
Sterling_WollopsSterling_WollopsMelburn't, Victoria Australia22 Threads 2 Polls 1,749 Posts
OkieChic: LOL...typical male


Sorry, wrong boban is not what you say, more the dali lama of cs infact

All hail Bob! peace
Jan 9, 2013 10:36 AM CST How long have you been on CS, please honest answer's.....curious what I'm up against :)
menu11
menu11menu11Galveston, Texas USA1,323 Posts
OkieChicwave: lol...that could be a good thing, right?


Yes, and its all because of all the scammers, that i can't think striegt.doh

laugh
Jan 9, 2013 10:36 AM CST How long have you been on CS, please honest answer's.....curious what I'm up against :)
cobber91
cobber91cobber91Caboolture, Queensland Australia1 Posts
The site is studded with scammers be on the lookout.
Jan 9, 2013 10:37 AM CST How long have you been on CS, please honest answer's.....curious what I'm up against :)
OkieChic
OkieChicOkieChicOklahoma City, Oklahoma USA11 Threads 4 Polls 649 Posts
Boban1: Is this a good moment to ask if you ..ermmm

PS;I have no idea what ermmm actually is but that expression popped up in one thread and since then Im sleepless ...


I glad someone finally asked me that....LOL..... I'd say the answer is I'm not quiet sure at this moment!

(not sure what it means either) dunno
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