Have you dated outside your country? ( Archived) (44)

Love is not bound by national borders. But ( and it is a big but ) both parties must be prepared for financial burdons not usually experienced by local couples. Take visits, phone calls (skype is a good alternative), visas, cultural differences, flights, fidelity or lack thereof, time apart, time together for example. Then there is eventually the fact that one is going to have to move to the other.

In my case, the beautiful lady I'm involved with is moving here to Australia. But I have also considered moving countries. It depends on the couple, the commitment, the personality, the perseverance , the finances, the citizenship requirements, etc. It can be done and I am just one of many that do it.

But if you do this, you are stepping out in faith that can be easily broken by distance/time/financial issues. Think carefully, ensure your prospective partner is as committed as you. I would recommend that each visit the other in their own respective country at least once before sealing the pact of relationship.

Also meet the family if at all possible and see what they are like and what you prospective partner is like in familiar turf. Also family will give you a very quick indication of your acceptance into it or lack thereof. Relations can make or break an international relationship.

Don't send them any money at any time (scammers can play the game a long time in the hope of a payout)...