what to you think about being friends with someone who has a disability (116)
thanks pisceslady7 im trying to always have a chin up and yea it was difficult with the seizers but im thankful i dont have them anymore thanks to my father god
yea thats great you were able to learn all that stuff and i dont understand why people whould do that to people with disabilities either i know i never would i wasnt raised that way thanks sliprywnwt
yea im sorry to hear that about your bff and her son ill keep them in my prayers i already lost my grandma,grandpa,and close cousion who was 22 and a friend from cancer but im glad to hear they are still doing great venusenvy
i can see clearly what you mean kim431 i once dated a male who was in a wheelchair and had to use a keyboard to talk its very hard for those kind of people and i dont mind dating or being married to a male who has a disability or is in a wheelchair all that matters to me is whats inside the persons heart i whish you good luck and ill keep you in my prayers being friends with them too
Alisha, please go to the poll about dating someone with a disability. Someone got upset to the pont of cussing . Thie person had a disability and was hostile.
You re acting calm and friendly which is nice. Only be friends with people who treat you right. Walk away froom the others and you will have peace of mind. You can lways find a better friend. If you can, volunteer, you can make nice people that way and help others.
The Dobe
You re acting calm and friendly which is nice. Only be friends with people who treat you right. Walk away froom the others and you will have peace of mind. You can lways find a better friend. If you can, volunteer, you can make nice people that way and help others.
The Dobe
What point? Do you actually read posts before going on a rude rant? You mustnt as there is not one negative thing posted in this thread other than your posts.
Well kim despite your mail saying that you do actually read posts, you blocked me from answering you privately, you mentioned that I had no idea what its like to be teased. With all due respect you know nothing of me or what I know. And I will state again, nowhere on this thread has anyone said anything negative other than yourself, so it is obvious that you either have not read any off the posts or just like to argue for the sake of it.
I will not interact with you again, and while you will scream thats its because of your disability it certainly is not, its because of your terrible attitude and unnecessary rudeness to people. I hope you learn to communicate with people better otherwise you will find it really hard to make any friends or find any dates on here, and ALL because of your attitude.
Well kim despite your mail saying that you do actually read posts, you blocked me from answering you privately, you mentioned that I had no idea what its like to be teased. With all due respect you know nothing of me or what I know. And I will state again, nowhere on this thread has anyone said anything negative other than yourself, so it is obvious that you either have not read any off the posts or just like to argue for the sake of it.
I will not interact with you again, and while you will scream thats its because of your disability it certainly is not, its because of your terrible attitude and unnecessary rudeness to people. I hope you learn to communicate with people better otherwise you will find it really hard to make any friends or find any dates on here, and ALL because of your attitude.
I had every right to get upset and how dare you talk about what I say or do Dobe.
Kim I'm concerned that you're just a very angry person, especially given that yours is the only negative comments so far.
Not to mention exceedingly hypocritical.
You scream and rant and rave about discrimination and "we disabled people just want to be treated with respect and like everyone else", then in the same breath expect people to tiptoe and walk on eggshells and run the risk of somehow offending you if we even DARE to discuss people with disabilities.
I for one am thankful that the majority of people with disabilities who can communicate effectively happen to be the most giving, caring and warm hearted people you could hope to meet. It's just sad that that's ruined by the one or two such as yourself who see their disability as entitling them to special treatment.
Seriously...get off your high wheelchair and come down off your soap box and start acting like you aren't different and then maybe...just maybe people will react differently. The only person disrespecting you, and others with disabilities, is yourself.
Not to mention exceedingly hypocritical.
You scream and rant and rave about discrimination and "we disabled people just want to be treated with respect and like everyone else", then in the same breath expect people to tiptoe and walk on eggshells and run the risk of somehow offending you if we even DARE to discuss people with disabilities.
I for one am thankful that the majority of people with disabilities who can communicate effectively happen to be the most giving, caring and warm hearted people you could hope to meet. It's just sad that that's ruined by the one or two such as yourself who see their disability as entitling them to special treatment.
Seriously...get off your high wheelchair and come down off your soap box and start acting like you aren't different and then maybe...just maybe people will react differently. The only person disrespecting you, and others with disabilities, is yourself.
A friend is a friend..I don't like to put limitations on that.
alisha1985: please be honest i love making new friends who is nice to me i cant stand ones who are rude and make fun of people
Disability is only that for those to whom it matters. To those who don't, it will never matter.
Personally here in Australia, if I like someone and we are mates (friends) then I will make fun of them and "pay out" on them. They will also do the same to me. I suppose it is probably a rather unique cultural trait.
I don't get offended when people have a go at me. If the shoe fits, I'll wear it, if it doesn't then I won't.
But it will only matter if someone thinks it matters.
I like the saying from "Terminator" - In 100 years time is it really going to matter?
Kim431: You people make me sick
Why? Where has anyone said anything negative about being friends with a disabled person?
Mmmm I work with lots of people that have a disability from autism to Down syndrome ,deaf and blind people. Every one is unique in there own way in communication .i just enjoy been around these people. They make good friends and never forget you.
Glatlol: done
To be quite honest I don't know you from adam, so add paranoia to your disabilities. Oh I don't want to know you either, so no nasty emails please.
tomcatwarne: To be quite honest I don't know you from adam, so add paranoia to your disabilities. Oh I don't want to know you either, so no nasty emails please.
So why infer that you do "posters of your ilk" to quote you. Your just throwing your toys out of the pram because you previously called me stupid and people pulled you up on it,the reason you got mail was because you banned me from the thread like a child to stop me having my say about it, ever since them you have jumped in every chance you get to have a go, and you know it.
Tell you what, I wont comment on your posts (some of which are downright disgusting and cant fathom how some of the females on here let it slide)and you dont comment on mine ok. I dont mind people disagreeing with me but not when they are doing it out of spite.
Apologies to the OP for hijacking the thread, it ends now.
Glatlol: So why infer that you do "posters of your ilk" to quote you. Your just throwing your toys out of the pram because you previously called me stupid and people pulled you up on it,the reason you got mail was because you banned me from the thread like a child to stop me having my say about it, ever since them you have jumped in every chance you get to have a go, and you know it.
Tell you what, I wont comment on your posts (some of which are downright disgusting and cant fathom how some of the females on here let it slide)and you dont comment on mine ok. I dont mind people disagreeing with me but not when they are doing it out of spite.
Apologies to the OP for hijacking the thread, it ends now.
Tell you what, I wont comment on your posts (some of which are downright disgusting and cant fathom how some of the females on here let it slide)and you dont comment on mine ok. I dont mind people disagreeing with me but not when they are doing it out of spite.
Apologies to the OP for hijacking the thread, it ends now.
Ok vitriol it's a deal.
Friends with a disability? I have and would again.
CuddlingSoul: Friends with a disability? I have and would again.
My Aunt is disabled, she had polio as a child, she is also my friend
EratoTheMuse: Kim I'm concerned that you're just a very angry person, especially given that yours is the only negative comments so far.
Not to mention exceedingly hypocritical.
You scream and rant and rave about discrimination and "we disabled people just want to be treated with respect and like everyone else", then in the same breath expect people to tiptoe and walk on eggshells and run the risk of somehow offending you if we even DARE to discuss people with disabilities.
I for one am thankful that the majority of people with disabilities who can communicate effectively happen to be the most giving, caring and warm hearted people you could hope to meet. It's just sad that that's ruined by the one or two such as yourself who see their disability as entitling them to special treatment.
Seriously...get off your high wheelchair and come down off your soap box and start acting like you aren't different and then maybe...just maybe people will react differently. The only person disrespecting you, and others with disabilities, is yourself.
Not to mention exceedingly hypocritical.
You scream and rant and rave about discrimination and "we disabled people just want to be treated with respect and like everyone else", then in the same breath expect people to tiptoe and walk on eggshells and run the risk of somehow offending you if we even DARE to discuss people with disabilities.
I for one am thankful that the majority of people with disabilities who can communicate effectively happen to be the most giving, caring and warm hearted people you could hope to meet. It's just sad that that's ruined by the one or two such as yourself who see their disability as entitling them to special treatment.
Seriously...get off your high wheelchair and come down off your soap box and start acting like you aren't different and then maybe...just maybe people will react differently. The only person disrespecting you, and others with disabilities, is yourself.
Keep your comments to yourself eratothemuse, the only disability any of you have is no respect for us who really have a disability I am not disrespecting others, you are I forone am in a wheelchair check out the damn profile picture and yes it is real. God get off them damn subjuct already
EratoTheMuse: Kim I'm concerned that you're just a very angry person, especially given that yours is the only negative comments so far.
Not to mention exceedingly hypocritical.
You scream and rant and rave about discrimination and "we disabled people just want to be treated with respect and like everyone else", then in the same breath expect people to tiptoe and walk on eggshells and run the risk of somehow offending you if we even DARE to discuss people with disabilities.
I for one am thankful that the majority of people with disabilities who can communicate effectively happen to be the most giving, caring and warm hearted people you could hope to meet. It's just sad that that's ruined by the one or two such as yourself who see their disability as entitling them to special treatment.
Seriously...get off your high wheelchair and come down off your soap box and start acting like you aren't different and then maybe...just maybe people will react differently. The only person disrespecting you, and others with disabilities, is yourself.
Not to mention exceedingly hypocritical.
You scream and rant and rave about discrimination and "we disabled people just want to be treated with respect and like everyone else", then in the same breath expect people to tiptoe and walk on eggshells and run the risk of somehow offending you if we even DARE to discuss people with disabilities.
I for one am thankful that the majority of people with disabilities who can communicate effectively happen to be the most giving, caring and warm hearted people you could hope to meet. It's just sad that that's ruined by the one or two such as yourself who see their disability as entitling them to special treatment.
Seriously...get off your high wheelchair and come down off your soap box and start acting like you aren't different and then maybe...just maybe people will react differently. The only person disrespecting you, and others with disabilities, is yourself.
Well said.
Having raised a child with special needs I would be devastated if she has this arrogant and angry attitude.
Kim431: Keep your comments to yourself eratothemuse, the only disability any of you have is no respect for us who really have a disability I am not disrespecting others, you are I forone am in a wheelchair check out the damn profile picture and yes it is real. God get off them damn subjuct already
So, in your opinion, sending unpleasant, hostile and somewhat non-sensical private mail to other members containing foul language, is not disrespectful?
I worked for several years with special needs kids as a T.A. I also helped my BF found and build a not for profit literacy council. We focussed on learning disabilities.
The point is, a disability is something that no-one wishes for or has control over. However, ones approach and attitude makes all the difference to quality of life.
The question was about friendships and disabilities. I choose friends that are happy, well balanced people. If someone is a bitterball, thats not someone I would form a friendship with disabled or not.
The point is, a disability is something that no-one wishes for or has control over. However, ones approach and attitude makes all the difference to quality of life.
The question was about friendships and disabilities. I choose friends that are happy, well balanced people. If someone is a bitterball, thats not someone I would form a friendship with disabled or not.
Well looking at the results of your poll, it looks like 92% of people would be happy to be friends with someone who was disabled, and I would agree wholeheartedly. I think it very much depends on what type of disability it is though. I read an article last year that said that only 3% of people (in the UK) had ever had a disabled person in their house!! I found that really shocking!
I am disabled myself. I have been watching the documentary on tv called "The Undatables", as I often wonder if in fact I am undatable now. Most of the people on there have a mental disability of some kind though, but they want to find love, like we all do. I realise you were talking about "friendship" rather than love, but I would recommend this program. It gives a real insight into people's lives, their relevant disabilities and their thoughts on love - a very touching and interesting series.
I am disabled myself. I have been watching the documentary on tv called "The Undatables", as I often wonder if in fact I am undatable now. Most of the people on there have a mental disability of some kind though, but they want to find love, like we all do. I realise you were talking about "friendship" rather than love, but I would recommend this program. It gives a real insight into people's lives, their relevant disabilities and their thoughts on love - a very touching and interesting series.
I apoligize to the Poster. But the person here is one that is disabled that I could not be friends with. It is because of her attitude. Just see how many people in this thread that she has gone off on.
I am friends with anyone (including the disabled) but if you shout, get angry about things, I do not want to be around that. I think that you will not change unless you want to. I think you need therapy for your rage. I do not like people bashers for something they have said here that is their opinion. Keep it up and CS will ban you.
Could you calm down and state your point?
This was a good thread until you entered it. We do not have to take your bashing. You even bashed someone who has a disabled child.
The Doberman
I am friends with anyone (including the disabled) but if you shout, get angry about things, I do not want to be around that. I think that you will not change unless you want to. I think you need therapy for your rage. I do not like people bashers for something they have said here that is their opinion. Keep it up and CS will ban you.
Could you calm down and state your point?
This was a good thread until you entered it. We do not have to take your bashing. You even bashed someone who has a disabled child.
The Doberman
EratoTheMuse: Kim I'm concerned that you're just a very angry person, especially given that yours is the only negative comments so far.
Not to mention exceedingly hypocritical.
You scream and rant and rave about discrimination and "we disabled people just want to be treated with respect and like everyone else", then in the same breath expect people to tiptoe and walk on eggshells and run the risk of somehow offending you if we even DARE to discuss people with disabilities.
I for one am thankful that the majority of people with disabilities who can communicate effectively happen to be the most giving, caring and warm hearted people you could hope to meet. It's just sad that that's ruined by the one or two such as yourself who see their disability as entitling them to special treatment.
Seriously...get off your high wheelchair and come down off your soap box and start acting like you aren't different and then maybe...just maybe people will react differently. The only person disrespecting you, and others with disabilities, is yourself.
Not to mention exceedingly hypocritical.
You scream and rant and rave about discrimination and "we disabled people just want to be treated with respect and like everyone else", then in the same breath expect people to tiptoe and walk on eggshells and run the risk of somehow offending you if we even DARE to discuss people with disabilities.
I for one am thankful that the majority of people with disabilities who can communicate effectively happen to be the most giving, caring and warm hearted people you could hope to meet. It's just sad that that's ruined by the one or two such as yourself who see their disability as entitling them to special treatment.
Seriously...get off your high wheelchair and come down off your soap box and start acting like you aren't different and then maybe...just maybe people will react differently. The only person disrespecting you, and others with disabilities, is yourself.
Very well put.
The Dobe
Kim431: You people make me sick
So why are you here then??????????
You attacked me for giving an honest answer...........just cos it wasn´t to your liking doesn´t make it any the less plausible.
If you don´t like the responses you get here...........you are free to quit the site.
jac379: So, in your opinion, sending unpleasant, hostile and somewhat non-sensical private mail to other members containing foul language, is not disrespectful?
I didn't know that nasty private mail was being sent.
This behavior is right on the edge of being banned, nasty email is against CS rules. They should be sent to CS to be recorded.
Maybe a banning would allow you to reflect that you can't treat people on here like you do.
Instead of ranting, you could be calming stating your point which people would read. Some people will read your nasty notes, others will not. Most people do not want to enter into negativity.
I would watch your step, I thinks it is better that you leave the post. That is what CS says to do when things get heated and you are the one that is stirring the pot.
The Doberman
The Dobe
TereVr: Hello, my name is Tere and I am a hearing impaired, so people would call it disability or handicapped- but whatever is the label they slapped on me, I am still a human. I'm not perfect or is created to be perfect. I am a God's creation and I agreed with your statement. I don't like these types of people and let me tell you, it's very difficult to make good friends who don't judge or make fun. Therefore, I decided to be me, so I put myself out there, explaining of my disability... And I make a quite nice friends, not alot but honestly you don't need alot of friends to be accepted in any society. Be choosy of who you pick and socialize with.
Since I'm deaf, I'm willing to be your friends, if you like, we can chat on email or text or whichever you want.
Again, if your not interested then I wish you the best of luck!
Since I'm deaf, I'm willing to be your friends, if you like, we can chat on email or text or whichever you want.
Again, if your not interested then I wish you the best of luck!
I know a woman who can't hear, but she can see what people say when she looks at people. She has an active life leading a youth club and many other interests, so you would not think about her as disabled in any way.
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What point? Do you actually read posts before going on a rude rant? You mustnt as there is not one negative thing posted in this thread other than your posts.