sallyjomaesue: It's been 7 months and still feels as fresh as when it happened.
So sorry, but Yes, it will heal, mine was broken by being dumped 17 years ago, I even had heart surgery since then, but thank God, it has healed, and I am a better person for going through that, I don't trust easily now, but happier without him now. someone nicer will come along for you. Just be positive, and be happy, and of course try to move on. Good luck! x
sallyjomaesue: It's been 7 months and still feels as fresh as when it happened.
I know how you feel: You're still young,I've been there, but now, at age 71, last year June, my husband dumped me for a 37 year old Thai woman.The pain is still there, although it is getting slowly less. So hopefully we will both heal in time. All the best
sallyjomaesue: It's been 7 months and still feels as fresh as when it happened.
Pf it's broken by a man, I once read that it helps to focus on his weaknesses and the things he did wrong. From my own experience, I can tell you that the less you think of him, the faster your heart heals.
" Take all the time you need to heal emotionally. Moving on doesn't take a day. It takes a lot of little steps to be able to break free of your broken self..."
Broken hearts can indeed heal ..... there was a time when I thought it wasn't possible for myself, but time is a great healer and we need to allow ourselves time to grieve the loss of our relationship.
Focus on finding things you find enjoyable, and cultivate relationships with friends/family and find wholeness within yourself once again. If we make our world about one person, when they are gone, its devastating ...so remember to try to create balance within your life and relationships.
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That's a lie. I can begin to imagine it, but then I can choose not to go there because its too overwhelming to even contemplate.
I'm sorry you've lost that choice and have to be there.